I am old and it is the expectation of every elderly person to support myself. When I need someone to take care of myself, I have children to accompany me and be filial to my son. The elderly are very happy. Mr. Liu, 68, from our community, went to his son's house to support me, but regretted it. What's going on? Let's take a look.
1. My wife passed away, and my son warmly invited me to
5 years ago, Mr. Liu's wife passed away. He was very lonely. He wanted to find a wife to live. The two took care of each other and spent their old age. They met a widowed lady. The two were very good at talking and planned to live together.
He told his son about this, but he didn't expect that his son firmly opposed it, saying that the woman's purpose was impure, that was to be greedy for her father's property, and asked her father to break up with the woman as soon as possible, otherwise she would not support her father in the future and ignore her father.
The son promised: if the father broke up with the woman, he would take the father to his side, be filial to him, and take care of him. The son said that this was the opinion of the son and his daughter-in-law.
Faced with the pressure from his son, the old man had to agree to break up with the woman he had a good relationship, and was picked up by his son and lived together at his son's home more than 1,000 kilometers away.
After a while, my son and daughter-in-law were very good at treating the elderly, and did not allow Mr. Liu to do housework and served him with all his heart.
Uncle Liu felt that his son and daughter-in-law were very filial. He got up early and went to work late every day and had to serve him when he went home. He felt sorry for him, so he said to his son: "If you have nothing to do, just cook for them and bring a grandson, as long as you don't dislike him."
The son and daughter-in-law were very happy and said yes. In this way, Mr. Liu cooked rice for his son and daughter-in-law every day and went to pick up his grandson every day. Although he was very tired, he was willing to enjoy the joy of family.
2. Later, the life expenses of the son and daughter-in-law refused to give
First one or two months, the son and daughter-in-law would give Mr. Liu 4,000 yuan as the living expenses of the family. Mr. Liu thought very well. He had a monthly pension of 5,000 yuan, and he also took out 2,000 yuan, a total of 5,000 yuan of living expenses, and the family could live well.
But later, my son and daughter-in-law took it in a timely manner, and 4,000 became two thousand. My son and daughter-in-law were no longer so harmonious and often quarreled. Later, Mr. Liu secretly asked the child and found out that his son had a salary cut due to the recession of the factory.
Uncle Liu also sympathized with his son, so he had to take out 2,000 himself as a living expenses for the family.
Although he had an objection and was afraid that his son and daughter-in-law would be unhappy, he could only tolerate it. Although the old man paid money and worked hard to serve the family, his daughter-in-law began to dislike him.
For example, if his food is cooked too salty or his floor is not clean, he often blames him for his hands. He doesn't have soap to wash his hands, so he goes to make the meal, and he doesn't care about hygiene at all.
There are so many leftovers every day that the daughter-in-law picks it up and pours it out. Uncle Liu felt it was too wasteful, so he said: If they don’t eat it, he will eat it himself, so he put it in the refrigerator.
Who knew that the daughter-in-law got angry and scolded her father-in-law: "I know how many toxins there are for those leftovers. If they are damaged and are admitted to the hospital, who will take the money to serve you?"
Uncle Liu had to obey his daughter-in-law and never dared to leave leftovers. He threw away every meal, which was so distressed. It was all money.
3. The daughter-in-law was unemployed, and Mr. Liu included all living expenses
Later, for some reason, the daughter-in-law had no job, so she could only go to find a difference work every day, and she didn't pay the living expenses. Uncle Liu felt sorry for her son, and his daughter-in-law paid the mortgage, and had no income from the car loan, so she really couldn't live.
Uncle Liu had to invest all his 5,000 salary as the living expenses of the family. He still had some subsidies when he didn't have enough savings.
hopes to win the recognition of his family. In recent years, the monthly pension spent in his son’s family would be spent on his own savings to subsidize his son’s family, which would cost an average of 6,000 or 7,000 yuan per month.
Uncle Liu was reluctant to eat and wear, so he gave it to his son's house, but it did not get the recognition of the whole family. He did not have a good face to Mr. Liu, and did not get the recognition of the whole family. He always thought that he had not paid enough.
What makes Mr. Liu regret is that his son and daughter-in-law persuaded Mr. Liu several times to sell his house in his hometown, and then they changed to a big house. When the child grew up, he also had space for his own. Now, Mr. Liu kept sleeping in the living room is not a big deal.
After the repeated persuasion and guidance of his son and daughter-in-law, Mr. Liu sold the house for 500,000 yuan and handed it over to his son. His son and daughter-in-law happily bought a big house.
Now that the new house has not been completed, the daughter-in-law has been unemployed, and her son has also cut his salary. Uncle Liu has no way out and his old nest has no place to go. He can only compromise and serve his son, and his daughter-in-law has a family.
I have not been in good health in the past two years. I often have headaches and fever, and have poor dietary memory, such as cooking rice, batter, or cooking dishes, and adding salt twice.
The son and daughter-in-law also had no good expression on him. They disliked Mr. Liu for being old and unhygienic and unclean.
Uncle Liu is now very regretful. He gave up the right to pursue happiness and asked his son to support himself, and contribute money and effort. He was full of anger. He really didn't dare to think about whether his son would be filial to him if he got sick one day and could not move.
is written at the end:
Every elderly person’s love for their children is infinite, and they are willing to give everything for their children without asking for anything. If they meet a child who knows filial piety and knows gratitude and return, the elderly will be happy and happy in their old age.
If you meet a ungrateful wolf who only knows to ask for money from the elderly but does not know how to be filial to the elderly, the elderly’s old age is desolate and miserable.
The elderly must be more careful and have their own retirement. Do not sell their own house casually. That is your final guarantee. In short, you still have to rely on yourself to raise your children to prevent old age. Is it reliable?
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