I have two daughters because her father passed away early, all of them were all raised by me alone and they were already working.
The eldest daughter has already started a family and married to our provincial capital. She said it was not far away, and it was not close. She got home for two hours by high-speed rail. However, due to various reasons and the epidemic, she has not been home for the New Year for several years. It is just that my younger daughter and my father are reuniting with her New Year. Every time during the New Year and the Festival, I feel very uncomfortable. Other people's homes celebrate the New Year with a lively New Year, but our home is deserted.
I can still run now. When I miss her, I usually go to see her. After a few years, I get old and can't run anymore. She has children to go to school and has to go to work, so she can't get time. It’s all for life and home. She misses her mother very much, so she can only watch it on the phone. I also hope to eliminate the epidemic as soon as possible, so that I can better take into account my family work and have more time to spend with me.
Actually, she also wants to go home
There is also a small cotton jacket. I firmly oppose her marrying far away. She met a friend from another place during college and told me when she came back, and I firmly disagree. She was also very filial and obedient, and promised me that I would work in the local city and get married in the city. Everyone lives in their own houses, and it is better to take a bus for half an hour. If you have any questions, you will be better off.
has a kind of helplessness, called getting married far away. A girl whose original family is happy and harmonious, and her mother loves her daughter very much. It is best not to marry far away. As a daughter, she is anxious and unable to sweat. Some things cannot be solved by money, and money cannot replace family affection. My mother thought about the fact that she raised her daughter with great difficulty and rarely met in the future for life. That feeling was really uncomfortable.
After marrying far away, due to various regional differences, eating habits, and living habits, it takes a long time to get started. If there is a husband and mother-in-law who loves you very much, it will be better. Otherwise, you will probably be mentally broken without waiting for a child. This requires time to verify and requires a price to be paid.
Some things have many factors. If you are an only child and have strong independent financial ability, you can bring your parents to you. If you don’t want to live with you, you can buy a house nearby. But it seems that most people are difficult to do. Nothing can be done in one size fits the whole, it varies from person to person!
So please advise girls who marry far away to think about whether this person is worth it. You can let go of your parents for him and adapt to him. You must think twice, marriage is not a joke, and you must consider it carefully.
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