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Life is like a train, you will meet many people who will stop and get off at a certain site, just like this, come and go, gather and disperse, we don’t know when, and we will wave goodbye to some of them.
There may be some people in this, you haven't seen it for many years, you almost forget his name and the relationship between him and you.
Suddenly one day, he came back to find you, and he also asked you all kinds of good health and caring. People like
don't necessarily want to come back and repair their relationship with you. There are not so many naive fairy tales in the adult world.
Perhaps, it is back to you for some purpose, so you must be vigilant and not fall into a trap called love but is actually deception.
After going around, I found that you are the best for him. I want to use you as a spare tire
Sometimes, the person who has not contacted you for a long time may be a friend of the opposite sex. You may have had a better relationship, which may be friendship with "Advanced AU or less, but not full of lovers", or it may be love.
later separated for some reasons. Time has been long, and that love has finally been stranded by the long river of time. In the vast sea of people, you became two parallel lines and never intersected again.
originally thought your fate was like that, but suddenly one day the other party came back to find you, reappeared intimacy, and kept in frequent contact with you.
When you encounter this situation, don’t rush to renew your relationship first, beware of the other party treating you as a spare tire. You can first observe his sincerity secretly, think about how you feel about him, and then make a decision.
Because most people who have not seen you for many years have a purpose. Maybe after parting ways, he felt that you were better for him or that you were very suitable for him.
Or maybe, he endured the cruel torture of society and found that many girls’ love is not pure enough, and then he suddenly remembered you.
Those who have been separated for a long time and look for you, most of them just want to treat you as a spare tire, and there is not much friendship to speak of.
No matter how beautiful it was, no matter whether you still have the warmth of the past or not, you must understand that since he cannot be focused on you, being with him will only increase fatigue and sadness. When you meet such a man, please be more awake and don’t fall into his trap again.
has other ideas for you and ask for it for you
In this world, you will always meet some selfish people who will carefully choose their own connections. If they think that a person is useful to them, they will establish social relationships with them. On the contrary, if you are useless, you will reduce you from your own connections. The reason why people like
choose to establish diplomatic relations with one person is not out of sincerity, but mostly because they have other intentions. He will judge how much investment he invests based on his value and will disdain those who are not profitable. People like
are very thick-skinned and very good at changing their minds. Their attitude towards you will undergo a major change in your status and will not feel embarrassed at all.
There is a saying called "Thirty years of Hedong and Thirty years of Hexi". The money relationship in the world is originally flowing and dynamic, and the of life, Libra will continue to shift.
You may be unknown when you first met, but after many years, the world has changed, and you have become successful at this time. When they also find that you have the benefits they need, they will come back to you, contact you, and repair your relationship.
The requests they make can be large or small, but it is difficult to get what they want to meet completely. In interpersonal communication, we always adhere to the principle of "helping you is affection, not helping you is duty", and there is no need to go through a lot of trouble for them. If they will get closer to you for the sake of money, then you can also alienate him again for the sake of your own time.
Want to take advantage of you and collect your value
We must have encountered such a situation. An old classmate who has not been in contact for a long time suddenly looks for you, probably because he is going to get married, and send you a wedding invitation. Even if you don’t go, you have to pay extra money.
There are also some people who borrow money from you. They don’t care about the relationship between you at all, just to gain some small advantage.
For these people, what they ask you for help may be their own things they think they are doing. Once you are unwilling to accept it, you will also blame you for being petty and making trouble behind your back.
all say "suffering losses is a blessing", but this so-called loss is conditional, depending on who the other party is, the character of the other party, and your relationship.
Not everyone is worth your efforts. For some selfish people, they will only plunder your value more and repeatedly take advantage of you.
When you meet someone who obviously takes advantage of you, be careful and hold up your own airs to avoid being harvested by them. Don't feel embarrassed. He has the nerve to lick his face and make things difficult for you, and you don't have to feel embarrassed.
Life is not God's will, but man-made. In this bustling world, we must cherish those who are willing to treat us with sincerity and sincerity, and those who do not make any plans and want to stay by our side.
Because of their existence, they do not require any financial interests or favors at all. They are completely out of sincerity, and we must also deserve this sincerity.
And for those who are obviously calculating, you must learn to distinguish, be cruel and cut off the connection.
The reason why a person chooses to cut off the connection with you during a certain period of time means that you are not important in his heart and are not worth cherishing.
After seeing this clearly, you will understand that even if he comes back one day, it is out of selfishness, not sincerity. At this time, you don’t have to make things difficult for face and for the so-called friendship, and simply reject those who use you, and live a quiet life.
