Introduction
Many single elderly people are looking for remarriage and generally hope to live a happy life. If you have no requirements for your remarriage partner, then remarriage will not make much sense. After all, when people get old, money is a demand on one hand, but more demands are to be accompanied by relatives.
Because they are old, money is enough for them. They hope to have friends, children, and children.
Of course, some elderly people remarry because their lives are not very good and want to find a rich wife to live with. In this way, your old age will not be so difficult.
Everyone wants to have a pension, and everyone wants to have a pension. However, for various reasons in society, some people do not have formal jobs, so there is no so-called pensions and pensions.
57-year-old Aunt Mai has no pension or pension. She just hopes to find another rich wife to retire with her and reduce her life burden. No matter how hard you work, it doesn't matter. So Aunt Mai remarried and married the 71-year-old rich Mr. Liu.
But the married life was unexpected by Aunt Mai. Aunt Mai said that she lives in pain every day. What's going on? Let's see what's going on together. For the sake of everyone's understanding, I write it in the first person.
Narrator: 57-year-old Aunt Mai
My name is Mai Zhexiang, and I am 57 years old this year. I have never done anything that is harmful to the truth since I was a child. I have always been kind. I think God is too unfair to me. My life is really tortuous.
I have experienced two marriages, and my first marriage ended in divorce. My first husband and I met through blind dates and had no emotional foundation at all. I just feel that I am old and there is no conflict between the two of them, and they are confused. But after getting together, because there is no emotional foundation, there will be many conflicts.
My marriage with my first husband only lasted for five years. In five years, I have nothing but a baby daughter. Because we had different personalities and had a quarrel all day long, we just divorced. It was his divorce. I don't think we can live our lives, so I promised to divorce.
Because my ex-husband doesn’t want a daughter, my daughter lives with me. After all, I am still so young, and if I have a daughter myself, I will be gossiped by others. Moreover, I don’t have a job, so it’s really hard to raise my daughter.
Fortunately, I met my second husband, who was the youngest son in the family and he had three sisters. In fact, my second wife's family conditions are quite good, but the girl looks down on him. Because he walks on one leg differently from others. To put it bluntly, he is a little disabled. So normal girls don't like him.
I thought I had brought a daughter and a child in someone else's case, just like a scoop. He didn't dislike me and was very nice to me, so I married him. After marrying my second husband, I did have a happy life.
Although my second husband is a little disabled, it does not affect his work. He is quite quick in doing things. He doesn't like to talk much, he only knows how to do it, so he proves it to me through actions.
He doesn't speak sweet words, unlike other men. But later I thought, maybe it was because he was a little disabled and was not very good at speaking. Otherwise, other girls would have liked him long ago, after all, his family has money.
In the second year of marrying my second husband, I gave birth to a baby son for him. But he was so happy because he once told me that he thought he would never be a father in his life, but he didn't expect that he would actually be a father.My parents-in-law treats me very well. When I was in confinement, my mother-in-law gave me a lot of hen soup and a lot of eggs, saying that she was to nourish my body.
The key is that my second wife is also very nice to my daughter. Although this daughter is not his biological daughter, he treats her like her biological daughter. When he comes back from the street, he will bring some snacks to my daughter every time. Sometimes he would buy clothes and shoes for his daughter, and he bought all the school supplies. People who don’t know think that my second husband is my daughter’s real father.
I originally thought that my second husband and I would continue to be happy like this. But tomorrow or accident you really can never imagine which one will come first. My wife was accidentally gas poisoning while taking a shower in the bathroom. When I found out, the person was already stiff.
But I was still unwilling to give up, so I called 120 emergency number and ambulance to the hospital for rescue. I thought I would not let go of any hope, and I also thought of killing myself. But in fact, my husband has left, but I just don’t want to believe this fact.
After my wife left, I raised my daughter and son alone. Fortunately, my daughter and son are very obedient, and their grades are also good, so I don’t have to worry. The universities they took were all key universities in the province.
Among them, my daughter also returned to work in the city through talent introduction. My son's words will work hard in big cities. I originally wanted to ask my son to come back to work in the city. But his son said there were not many job opportunities in the city, and he wanted to make a living in the big city while he was young.
I don’t have a formal job, so I don’t have any pension or pension at all. But I think so, my two children are so promising. If I live with them when I am old, I shouldn’t be hungry. But an illness disrupted my plan.
The previous year my son found that he had a brain tumor during a physical examination at the unit. Fortunately, the discovery was timely, and if it was late, the consequences would be really unimaginable. At that time, the surgery required, which cost hundreds of thousands of yuan, including the later treatment costs.
My son had just worked at that time, and he didn't have that much money at all. Then I took out all the savings at home and borrowed a lot of money from relatives and friends before I got together for surgery on my son. Fortunately, my son saved his life. However, in the later stage, you need to go for a regular review.
Originally, I thought that if I had some savings and then went to my children's home to retire, it might be the best guarantee for my old age. But my son was sick, which disrupted my plan. After I took out all my savings to treat my son, I was penniless, and my son would not be able to return to work quickly because he had just finished the operation. He would have to recuperate for a while.
For my daughter, although she works in the city, her mother-in-law was paralyzed due to a stroke some time ago and now she has to spend it in bed. The expenses are paid by the daughter and son-in-law, and the salary of the daughter and son-in-law is not high, so they have a lot of pressure on their lives. So my daughter and son-in-law couldn't take care of me either.
I feel that living alone is really lonely, so I came up with the idea of finding a wife to live with. According to my own conditions, I have to find a rich partner. Only in this way can my life be guaranteed in my later years. Besides, if I find a rich wife, if my son needs the expenses, I might ask my wife to ask for some money to subsidize my son.
I went on a blind date with a lot of people, but basically they all have poor economic foundation and their character is not very good, so I basically didn't consider it. Just when I was about to remarry, I suddenly met Lao Liu. The man said that Lao Liu was 1.78 meters tall. He retires from an old employee of the unit, and his monthly pension is as high as 8,000 yuan.
And he still has three houses, he lives in one, and two are for rent.He also has a rent fee of 5,000 yuan per month, which adds up to 13,000 yuan per month. The key is that Lao Liu still has savings!
Because I have been in contact with Lao Liu several times, I think Lao Liu is quite generous. At least he was willing to spend money on me. Before I agreed to marry him, he bought me a gold ring and a necklace. The two things combined would cost about 8,000 yuan, and Lao Liu didn't blink.
I thought that if I contracted all the housework after marrying Lao Liu and I took good care of Lao Liu, Lao Liu should listen to me, and maybe he would hand over his salary card to me for safekeeping. It was precisely this mentality that I married Lao Liu.
But I found that our married life is really not what I imagined. Lao Liu is a man who loves face. Every time I go out with him, he asks me to dress up, but I don’t like to dress up. I think it’s a waste of time and money to dress up. But Lao Liu doesn’t think so. He thinks that if I dress up beautifully, he will have face in front of his friends.
And Lao Liu would bring me with him every time he drank with his friend. Actually, I am a person who likes quietness and I really don’t want to attend such a drinking party. Every time, they are a group of older men drinking, and I am the only woman next to me, which makes me feel very unhappy.
And Lao Liu said that, I would like toast one by one. I couldn't drink alcohol at first, but after I drank, I felt very uncomfortable when I came back. Every time I come back from drinking, I feel a headache and dizziness. Sometimes it is too serious and I can't get up at all, but Lao Liu doesn't care about my feelings at all, which makes me very painful.
And after I got married to Lao Liu, he searched me with QQ, unlike before. Sometimes I want to buy myself a piece of clothing, but Lao Liu says that this dress is not good-looking and don’t buy it. Sometimes I want to eat and I want to buy it back. Lao Liu said that he should not buy it if he is unhealthy.
Sometimes I want to go out shopping with my sisters, but Lao Liu said it is not safe outside, so it is better to be at home. Anyway, I think Lao Liu will not support me no matter what I want to do.
What I can't stand the most is that Lao Liu often compares me with his deceased wife, saying that I can't compare to his deceased wife. What do you think of me? I think why Lao Liu is so over-the-top? Why do you always compare someone who has been away for more than ten years to me?
anyway, I think no matter what I do, it doesn’t fit Lao Liu’s wishes, and he always makes things difficult for me. I originally thought that if I married him, I would get some benefits, but now I live a very painful day. If I had known this, I wouldn't have married him. I regret getting married with him now.
Conclusion
57-year-old Aunt Mai has no pension or pension. She wants to find a rich man to live with her. She finally met Lao Liu. She thought she had found a backer, but Lao Liu was really not really kind to Aunt Mai.
Lao Liu's practices made Aunt Mai unable to bear it. Aunt Mai regrets marrying Lao Liu now. Not only can I not get Lao Liu’s money, but I also can’t get Lao Liu’s care. Now Aunt Mai lives in pain every day.
If you are Aunt Mai, what would you do? Do you continue to live with Lao Liu, or will you choose to divorce and find another partner? Welcome to express your views in the comment section.
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