First of all, the more you fall in love, the more he is.
There is a true fragrance law in love, that is, the more diligent you are, the lazy he is, the more you are, the more you are unable to extricate yourself, the less you need him, the more you need you, the slower you are, the faster you are, the more you are in love, the more you are, the more you are.
Really, people are all jian. He will not remember the people who traveled through mountains and rivers to meet him, but only the people who made him want to run away to meet him. So many times, your mother-like efforts will only breed his arrogance. What a man wants is not a long confession to him, excessive attention and meticulous approach to food, clothing, housing and transportation.
He is looking for a girlfriend, not a mother , so you just need to give him a pleasant experience of getting along with each other, and then maintain a sense of self and mystery. If you are not good, you will abuse him. If you should be free, you will be free.
Next second, men rarely play hard to get with you.
If a man chats with you and is already having a good chat, he suddenly starts to ignore you one day, why? The answer is very simple, he has a new goal in .
is not necessarily a clear new goal, but it is definitely because you haven't been so concerned about you during this period. A man’s view of love is very simple. If he really likes you, he will try his best to get close to you. If he wants to pursue your heart, he will also write it on his face. Even if he sees some of your shortcomings, he will remind you at the right time to let you grow.
And the kind you don’t like, that is, that is, that doesn’t like, that doesn’t disclose you in love, that is, that doesn’t recognize you. You remember that for any reason that does not want to fall in love is not enough to love . Love and sharing desire will not disappear, but will only transfer. Those who always like to find fault with you have problems.
Third, men are very realistic.
No man is unrealistic. If a woman is not worth his contribution, he will not give you half a cent. Men weigh the pros and cons in their relationships. If you do not provide any emotional value for him or create any benefits for him, then he will not give you.
So when you want to get something from him, you have to feed her back to what you have. I often say that in the early stage of your relationship, don’t be afraid to give. Whether it is emotional value or some material gifts, don’t be stingy with giving. Sometimes, the more you pay in the early stage, the better you can help you filter out a good man.
If you wait for others to give you as soon as you come up, it will be not high-end. will only make men think that you are just for his material things. Does understand?
Fourth, love is never the whole of a man.
In the eyes of men, love actually only accounts for a small part of their lives, and they will devote most of their energy to social and career.
Many of you always think, why do men stop loving you after you catch up with you? Why?
Because men's rational thinking determines that they will not devote all their energy to love. After chasing you, they will quickly withdraw from this relationship, and then redistribute their time to achieve their career and achieve their next goal.
Because in their eyes, if two people get tired of being together all day, they will not create any social value. Just imagine if a man really spends his time and energy on you for decades, like a passionate love, do you think he can still improve in his work and career?
The last fifth place is, men are very sober and rational.
They will not suffer losses at the expense of their own interests.
For example, no man will give up his career for a woman, and you girls have sacrificed everything for men. Most men only say it nicely, why don’t you mind being fat or not care about other people’s girlfriends having a good figure, but they are actually lying to you.
He still hopes that your flesh will grow where it should grow and where it should be thin.If you really gained 40 pounds, you see what good looks he has to treat you. He will only try every means to suggest that you are losing weight.
Because he decided to be with you at the beginning because he saw the value in you and could satisfy him . Now that this value is gone, he will try to force you to return to the past, and the purpose is to satisfy his initial vanity.
so do you understand? The essence of love is actually a value exchange.
If you want to deal with a high-quality man, then you have to think about what you can give. For example, your appearance and figure can provide him with emotional value. Only when you provide your value will he be willing to give back to you.
so remember, no matter who you like , you must love yourself more and improve yourself more is the truth.
Psychological test: Test the words your ex most want to say to you
1. Do you quarrel over trivial matters when you are together?
Yes, I often feel very tired —2
rarely argues over trivial matters —2
Occasionally, but I can make up soon —3
2. Do you think you are a person who likes to reflect on yourself and is willing to correct your mistakes?
is —3
is not —4
3. Will TA take the initiative to tell you about your troubles?
often says - 5
doesn't say much - 4
4. Will you tell your parents about the process of your love?
, and often complain to my parents. —6
, occasionally, they will talk about it when they ask. —5
, hardly say it, there is nothing to say —5
, there is nothing to say —5
5. How much energy are you willing to spend to get what you want?
Everything goes with the flow, it’s mine after all, it’s mine —7
Work hard, maybe you can succeed —6
Try your best, I have to get everything I want —B
6. Is it because a third party appeared?
Yes—A
No—7
7. Has the other party contacted you actively after breaking up?
Yes—D
No—Ch
