Families with few children are not that good. The elderly are not as financially burdened when they are young. They can save a little bit and can barely make up a down payment for their son. If the family with more children is very difficult!
Recently, in Anhui, a netizen exposed a video on the Internet. A father was lying on the ground and complained and cried because his three sons could not marry his wife. His face was even more heartbreaking!
It is understood that the old man has four children, one daughter and three sons. After his daughter grew up, she went out to work and got married and finally got married in another place. She gradually had less contact with her family!
The daughter is already married, so the elderly and their spouse don’t have to worry too much, but the son is different. The older one is over 35 years old, and the youngest one is 28 years old. None of the three have married yet!
Although the couple worked hard all their lives, they had no culture or skills, and they could not have the opportunity to make a lot of money. They usually work as farmers or do some scattered labor to support their families, and they have no savings at all!
Every time a relative helps to help his wife, but almost always meet, there is no follow-up. The big reason is that their family did not prepare a house in the city, and girls are unwilling to marry!
Young people in the village who are the same age as their son, whose parents can help buy a house and get married one after another. Seeing their son who is outside of 30, they can't get married because they don't have a house, and they often worry so much that they can't sleep at night!
Seeing his three sons joining the army of singles, his wife was anxious and put pressure on him in various ways. She even forced him to find a way to raise money to buy a house for his son as soon as possible!
Because there are many children, the education is not fully up to date, and the sons are not very successful. They blame all their sins on their parents, and they blame them for not being able to marry a wife!
A man is destined to endure a lot of hardships in his life. He raises his children when he is young, and is worried about their marriage when he is middle-aged. If he can't marry a wife, he can't even raise his head in front of his peers in the village!
Such a huge change will occur in marriage. In addition to being related to women's financial independence, it is more because people in the past prefer boys over girls, blindly wanting to have a son, and finally shot themselves in the foot!
The weather vane in society has also changed. People used to like to have sons, but now they like daughters more. At least the pressure of life will be less, not as worried as those with multiple sons!
According to an ordinary family, if there are only one or two children in the family, they are a little sensible, and with the working hard between parents, it is still not difficult to collect a down payment in a small city!
Observe the people around you and you will find that families with a lot of children will be worse than families with fewer children in comparison. There is less burden on children, and it is more of a person's concept!
In today's era, many people born in the 1980s and 1990s don't even want to get married, let alone expect them to have more children. Women have to marry if they are not in good condition, while men cannot afford to marry them!
Advanced young people cannot get married, many of them are not because they are not good enough, but because they lose at the starting line of the family. If parents have the ability to help, it will basically not be too difficult. On the contrary, it will be difficult to get out of singleness. Even if the elderly are anxious, it is useless!
