I don’t want to argue endlessly with my sister-in-law. Because I know what the result of doing this is, I don’t want anyone in my family to be hurt anymore. I want to make this home harmonious. So I can only choose to be a listener who understands her.
It turns out that there is a worry behind my behavior, that my mother, brother, and niece will be hurt. (Is this a negative emotion?), worrying that the harmony at home will be affected.
Faced with my sister-in-law's endless complaints, I feel distressed and sympathized with her. How much I want to say something to relieve her anger and pain (she is in pain). I want to open up her knot and tell things. Tell the truth. In this way, I will not be dissatisfied with this matter, worry, and hate it, and I will not need to go home and release it myself.
Everything comes from the lack of knowledge. So, learning is too important.
At that time, I had ideas and ideas in my mind, but I felt that it was not perfect, so I dare not say it.
How much I want to use the knowledge I have learned to tell my sister-in-law, but I can't say it, I can't say it, I dare not say it, I am afraid that I will say it wrong, I am afraid that what I said is inappropriate, and I am afraid that it will catalyze her bad emotions. (Not confident)
is really a book that only when you use it, and regrets the inconvenience and pain caused to yourself by the lack of knowledge due to the lack of knowledge.
This incident prompts me to be serious and study hard.
For this reason, I have the motivation to learn.
So I am grateful to my sister-in-law!
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