Friends are heartbroken again. The reason why she used "Yes" is that she broke up and got back together with the same boy no less than five times. The first time she cried, she felt that the whole world had closed the door to her. Without him, she might not be able to survive for a minute. So, after not exceeding 24 hours, he lowered his figure and pride on the spot and boarded the boat belonging to the two people again.
If the initial acquaintance makes them unconsciously and selflessly present a perfect image in front of each other, for love, then this reunion is a performance that is more than love. If the first time is full commitment, then this time can at least be called "full commitment".
They all carefully maintain seemingly calm relationships, wanting to use those beautiful memories of the past to bury the broken parts. They strive to create romance in life, set surprises for each other, and dig their hearts to prepare for the atmosphere of each festival. The feeling of re-cultivating something is like, you pull out the dried branches and sow another bouquet of flower seeds in the flower pot, thinking that one day more beautiful flowers will bloom.
When expectations became imminent loss, the war was staged again among the two, even more violent than the first time. They lost contact for three days, and their friends cried and scolded, scolded themselves for being incompetent, and scolded them for being heartless. But three days later, they happily held each other's hand again.
If they used to be tolerant, understanding, expectation and hope, sadness and fear of losing, then this time, there are more "try" and we all advised her, but she said: I want to give it a try. I am not sure if I will meet someone better than him if I lose him. I said: The road is so long, why not walk forward? She said: The scenery on the road is beautiful, but it is not the scenery, but with him by his side.
This time the breakup is only one month away. She didn't cry, but just sent me a quiet message: I really got it this time. I asked: Will there be any chance? She said: He doesn't love me enough.
We are always looking for someone who loves us. When we are in love, we have to ask each other anytime, do you love me? After getting back together after breaking up, we will ask: Do you still love me? After breaking up, we asked: Have you ever loved me? After years of marriage, we still ask: Do you still love me? In the Q&A time and time again, we look for the only hope left in love, and then use this tiny hope to ignite one difficult and bitter days in life. We always tell ourselves in our hearts: Don’t worry, at least there is love and him.
We never thought that love can dissipate and will become blurred as time goes by. The love and the death of love can only be short-lived and mark a unique product of a certain period. Just imagine, if you keep your heart beat faster in your daily life, then all your lovers will have been admitted to the hospital long ago, and no one can withstand the heartbeat.
I asked my friend: Have you ever thought about what is the reason why you break up and get together many times, but in the end there is no perfection. She replied viciously: It’s not because he doesn’t love me enough. I asked: Do you think it is important for him to love you, or it is more important for him to need you at any time. She pondered for a moment and said: Love is needed. If you don’t love, how can you be needed?
I said: Love is a form of expression of a certain moment or a certain period of time. It is short-lived and purposeful. But the need is not, the need is a long-term and continuous state. Just like we love every limited edition bag, but we don’t really need them all, we like lipsticks in different colors, but there may be only one or a few that are suitable for us.
When you constantly lower your standards in daily interactions, constantly break your bottom line for a person, and use your superpowers to cater to and please someone, the relationship begins to become shaky. The initial love and the beauty of heart-warming will become humble in the loss of oneself bit by bit.
In the world of men, conquering the world is their lifelong dream.If you can easily harvest your territory without him using one soldier, then you are just a passerby to him at best. He accepts you not because he loves you, but because he feels pitiful.
On the contrary, when he uses all his strength to finally obtain your love, he cherishes you twice as much, of course, the premise is that in the future, you are not dependent on him, but be yourself independently. Every day he will find different shining points in you, and he will say: I am so lucky to meet a girl like you. Instead of saying: Why am I so unlucky? I met you.
Even though he has been married for many years, he is still like the young man back then, with his eyes full of love and hope for you. When he makes a difficult decision, he will ask you for your opinion. In the face of hardships, what he thinks of is not running away, but staying to spend it with you. Because he knows that life with you is the only way to be at peace. mutual encouragement.
