Recently, the story of Internet celebrity Xiaohui has spread throughout the Internet. She has been growing up with her unrelated grandmother since she was a child. After her grandmother passed away, she became an orphan. Later, when I met the person who said to her, "I want to guard you for my grandma", I was moved and decided.
After getting married, she and her husband also separated for a long time. She raised her children alone, and even took short videos for life, went online, became an internet celebrity, and had millions of fans. The first money I earned was paid off for my husband's foreign debt.
However, I didn’t expect that my life after marriage was not good. My husband only went home four times in eight years. She has always tolerated her husband and has not exposed her husband's cheating. Until one day, when my child’s birthday was about to see his father, he couldn’t even make a video call. Xiaohui made up her mind and exposed her husband online. She believed that she would regret this marriage very much.
In fact, in marriage, people who swear to protect the other party and remain loyal may also betray or cheat. Just as Zhang Ailing said in , "When married a red rose, over time, the red one turned into a wisp of mosquito blood on the wall, the white one was still the bright moonlight in front of the bed, and when married a white rose, the white one was a sticky rice on the clothes, and the red one was a cinnabar mole on the heart."
In fact, there is no eternal loyalty. What can support the marriage forever is nothing but a choice and a sense of responsibility for the family. So what matters is not who you choose, but who you have made the choice. A person always has to go through many choices in his life. It may be that after making an impulse choice, he overturned his own choice because of reason, or he may think carefully and make a choice, and later overturned this choice because of a moment of impulse.
In daily life, rationality and irrationality are like ropes during tug of war, constantly swaying and constantly controlling our thinking, and what ultimately makes decisions for us is our intuition. If you want to remain rational most of the time, you must learn more basic knowledge, so that these basic knowledge becomes the brain's first reaction, and you will be more rational when dealing with problems.
