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Montaigne said: "Even if I walk alone in the beautiful garden, if my thoughts turn to things that are not related to walking for a while, I will quickly withdraw my thoughts, make them think about the garden, seek the pleasure of being alone, and think about myself."
Sometimes, it is difficult for us to immerse ourselves in the present moment, and we will always be bound by unrelated things and cannot relax.
But people with ability can mostly control their emotions and thinking and live more freely and calmly.
If a woman can do this, she will be more charming.
In love, the more you can truly enjoy the feeling of being cared for, and you also recognize your own value, the more you can experience romance and beauty.
In fact, what really makes men addicted is often these two kinds of women who cannot leave if they fall in love with them.
01: Have the ability to make yourself happy, live very self-centered
I like Bi Shumin 's words: "Don't always want a vigorous happiness, it's mostly just coming to your face quietly."
We all yearn for happiness, but the simple happiness in life is in our own hands and cannot be given to others.
If a girl is overly looking forward to getting love and happiness from a man, she will become worried about gains and losses and lose her attractiveness.
What really makes men addicted are those women who have the ability to give themselves a sense of happiness and live a very self-centered life.
Girls who are full of energy in their hearts will reward themselves regularly.
During the holidays, they don’t feel too sad if they don’t receive a gift from their boyfriend. Instead, you will try your best to touch the joy in your boring life. Girls of
are mostly cheerful and very smart.
They will choose to forget some things appropriately, especially memories that make you feel sad and depressed will be completely cleared from your mind.
When you forget your worries, you can fill your happiness again.
Girls who have the ability to make themselves happy have a distinct personality and most men cannot resist it.
He will enjoy the time with you very much, because only you can make him feel happy and warm.
02: There are things you love, opinions and ideals
Su Ying (pseudonym) is not good-looking, but she is full of infinite personal charm.
She has something she loves and is very independent. She is very decisive every time she makes a decision and never hesitates.
After graduating from university, Su Ying tried hard to seize good job opportunities. After accumulating enough experience, she firmly gave up her stable job and chose to start a business.
She opened a design company. Even though she encountered many difficulties, Su Ying was not afraid at all.
The boyfriend she dates is very handsome every time, and her conditions are not bad.
Su Ying has ideals and goals, she will not lose herself because of love, nor will she delay her work for dating.
Ex-wives love her very much and just simply hope that Su Ying can accompany her more, but she really doesn’t have so much time to manage her relationship, so she broke up.
The boyfriend couldn't accept it and kept asking for a reunion. His friends around him felt that Su Ying was too much and actually took the initiative to break up with a man who loved her so much and looked handsome.
But in the other party's eyes, Su Ying is the most fascinating woman. Even though they broke up with each other for a year, their ex still did not forget her.
Beautiful appearance may allow you to attract more opposite sex, but if your world is too scarce, it will be difficult to keep the love you want.
What really makes men addicted is often these two kinds of women who cannot leave if they fall in love with them.
Writer Yang Jiang said: "We were so eager for the waves of fate, but in the end we realized that the most graceful scenery in life is actually the calmness and calmness in our hearts."
At a young age, we all felt that we should experience more unforgettable and heart-wrenching love. Only by loving it in pain, as if life is precious.
But in the end you will find that those who are truly happy and loved deeply are often women who are firm and calm in their hearts.
If you want to have a happy life, try to make yourself happy first. You have the ability to nourish yourself and enrich your inner pattern. In the eyes of men, your love is the most valuable.
In addition, you should know that love is just a part of life. You must have something you love and constantly improve your abilities and value.
When you do these two things, the man will surround you, and he will even be afraid of losing you.
