write the most heartwarming words, heal the lonely heart, follow me, and warm you.
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" Humble Room Inscription " writes: "You can tune the zither and read Jin Jing . There is no chaos in silk and bamboo, and no labor in the case."
In the consciousness of many people, they are used to treating interpersonal communication and good popularity as a kind of ability, but ignore that being alone is also a kind of ability.
alone is a kind of character and a kind of enjoyment. It is not suitable for your own circle, so there is no need to force yourself. Everyone should not be sociable for the sake of being sociable.
people have to live in various relationships to appear "human" but there is no need to make things difficult for themselves because of the relationship.
Yishu said: "One of the reasons why we are unhappy is that we don't know how to stay in the room quietly and get along with ourselves calmly."
Don't underestimate a lonely person. Such people often hide a lot of energy. When a person sees through the warmth and warmth of human relationships and is indifferent to fame and fortune, he will no longer be able to cause ripples in his heart and just live his life step by step.
-02-
Confucius said: I examine myself three times a day. A truly powerful person must understand the importance of learning the importance of being alone.
People with strong hearts are never afraid of loneliness, but are used to being alone and good at practicing themselves while being alone.
For people who are used to being alone, they usually bear the setbacks themselves and rarely put their hopes on others. Because being alone can free up time to think, adjust yourself, and be more calm when encountering problems, and be more rational. Such people can make their own decisions when faced with any choice, and the final decision must be from their original intention.
People who are alone do not need to get recognition from others. They will not deliberately cater to anyone, and they will be with whom they are comfortable and will be happy.
Choose to be alone and stay away from the worldly troubles. It is not loneliness, but just keeping at ease. You don’t have to pretend to be sociable or force yourself to do things against your will.
-03-
I have read this passage:
"Human life can never exist alone without loneliness. No matter where we go, what we live, loneliness is like a shadow, accompanying you."
People are the easiest only when they are with themselves. There is no need to look at whoever's face or consider whose feelings.
People are slight, people are poor and have short ambitions, and no one asks about poverty in the downtown city, and rich are in the deep mountains and have distant relatives. This is reality.
Yang Jiang Mr. Yang Jiang said that it is best not to rely too much on others in everything. Everyone has their own difficulties. If you really want to rely on it, you should not rely too much. If you rely on it too much, you will easily be disappointed. On the road of life, we are all lonely travelers, just like people who know how hot and cold water are. You are always the only one who can truly help you.
-04-
"The world is bustling for profit, and the world is bustling for profit."
People who are passionate about socializing and make friends are not just for friendship, but are often for certain interests or are afraid of loneliness.
Bernal said: "A true good friend should only come when you are proud, and only invite you when you are disappointed. When you are frustrated, you will come uninvited." The relationship established by interests cannot withstand any test.
" Natsume Friends Account " has a line: "I must admit that most of the time in life is loneliness, and hard work to grow is the best game that can be played in loneliness."
When a person understands everything and sees through everything, he doesn't want to make more friends at first, doesn't like the excitement, and prefers simplicity and silence.
Ling Xiaomai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words. I hope to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into a poem.
