What is true love? The explanation on
on the encyclopedia is: refers to purely sincere emotions. The reason why
is called "truth", that is, sincerity and truth are its most basic foundation, and it is never based on deception and fantasy.
The "true love" in extramarital affair is obviously neither sincere nor real, and is entirely based on deception and fantasy.
For example, a third party that Lan Fang had contacted, cried and shouted that he and the man he cheated on were true love.
accused the Blue Party of the matter, saying that I shouldn’t have helped the original match with the mistress, and that she just showed up a little late.
It seems that I feel so wronged. The original wife is the one who intervened in the love between her and the cheating man.
After understanding the situation, she realized that the pure and flawless true love in her mouth was full of lies and plots from beginning to end.
The original wife treats her as a friend, she treats her as a sucker, the cheating man treats her as a Xie Yuhua, and she treats the cheating man as an ATM.
Why did Lan Fang say that there is no true love in extramarital affairs? As for the situation of this mistress.
First of all, this mistress is a cheating man he met through his original wife.
or, in other words, the mistress has a very strong purpose. In order to get close to the cheating man, she first became a friend of the original wife.
is very smart and knows how to meet his preferences. He became a good friend in less than half a year with his original wife.
Then, under the banner of best friend, approaching the cheating man while looking for opportunities to provoke the relationship between husband and wife. After
succeeded, he was still embarrassed to say that this behavior of knowing three and doing three is a bold pursuit of love.
Secondly, the original wife has good conditions and the cheating man is unwilling to divorce for the mistress.
But I am willing to give some compensation to the mistress, and the mistress will never be lenient. I will receive all the money and gifts as required.
not only needs to get it by yourself, but also want to get some benefits for your parents.
This behavior became in the mouth of the mistress, and she just accepted the intention of cheating on the man.
If she didn't cheat on the man, she loved cheating on the man, so she couldn't let him care about it.
Finally, the mistress felt very wronged.
She endured her inability to take office because she was still concerned about her friendship with her original wife and did not mention what she did.
is with a cheating man because he can't help but love. He obviously wants to use love as a shield for money.
The relationship between this mistress and the cheating man was built on lies from the beginning.
The mistress first used lies to coax the original wife, and at the same time was also deceiving the cheating man.
The mistress will definitely not tell the cheating man that she is friends with her original wife for the sake of cheating man.
will only tell the man who cheated on him that he has a good impression of the man who cheated on him after being friends with his original wife.
The mistress will never tell the cheating man, she and her original wife have said so many bad things about the cheating man,
From the beginning, the cheating man and the mistress are full of lies.
The man cheating on the mistress actually relies on fantasy. What he likes is not the mistress, but a woman he imagines.
A cheating man does not understand the mistress at all, nor can he see the true face of the mistress clearly.
He just imagined the mistress as he liked under the guidance of the mistress's lies.
But this relationship is also very fragile and cannot withstand any test.
is actually very obvious during the extramarital affair.
A cheating man can give mistress money, but he is absolutely unwilling to divorce for mistress.
is not because he feels guilty towards his original wife, but because the mistress is not as valuable as the original wife.
cheating on men and mistresses are both having ulterior motives and have no sincerity or truth at all.
extramarital affair is actually a matter of wearing true love, each taking the transaction they need.
cried and shouted that it was true love, but it was just because of two points.
The first point is to comfort yourself and reduce your psychological burden, and the second point is to win some support from the love brain for public opinion.
In fact, whether to love or not, the cheating man and mistress know best.
All wives who have experienced extramarital affair should see clearly the three truths of extramarital affair.
The first truth, there is no so-called true love, extramarital affairs are all transactions that each person needs.
There is no so-called true love between a cheating man and a mistress. The relationship between the two was based on lies from the beginning.
A cheating man gives mistresses what money, social status, and promotion opportunities.
The mistress gives the cheating man a desire for emotional satisfaction, physical satisfaction, etc.
The second truth, the mistress and the man who cheated are well aware of it.
Whether two people are truly love or dealing, they are very clear about their minds, but they will not admit it.
Don’t ask the original wife, ask is true love, true love that cannot survive after breaking up.
But when I really have to choose between interests and true love, I will definitely choose interests without hesitation.
is not because true love is worthless, but not true love at all.
The third truth is not about maintaining an extramarital affair, and solving an extramarital affair is not about affection.
Many original wives believed the nonsense of cheating men and third parties, and felt that they were true love.
The original wife will feel that if she wants to resolve an extramarital affair, she must warm up her relationship with the cheating man.
A cheating man loves his original wife more than his mistress. A cheating man will abandon his mistress and return to his family.
In order to achieve this goal, many original wives will start to jealous with the mistress.
humbly please the cheating man and want the cheating man to fall in love with him again, the result can be imagined.
A cheating man can coax the original wife with sweet words, but he will never break up with the mistress because of this.
and many original partners will slowly put themselves at a low level. Not to mention solving the mistress, it is difficult to maintain the marriage.
Because a cheating man does not really love mistresses, he continued to have an extramarital affair.
The extramarital affair does not end, nor does it mean that you love mistresses more, because trading children continues, and cheating men can also benefit from extramarital affair.
Finally, Lan Fang wanted to say that in fact, many couples will consider their respective interests when getting married. When choosing a partner at
, it is a choice that only makes after weighing the pros and cons.
The so-called pure true love is really too rare and can be encountered but hard to come by.
Not to mention in extramarital affair, where do two people who have impure goals from the beginning get true love? The mistresses can say that
, but the original wife should not believe it easily.
If you encounter an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow the Blue Party and send a private message to talk about your situation.
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