text | Miss Bai
Marriage is sacred and romantic. Men and women who have experienced the test of love enter marriage are a kind of emotional sublimation.
Not every marriage has love.
Some men don’t love you, but they still want to marry you. Most of these people have these three thoughts.
eat soft rice
want to find someone to take care of life and life
It is very tiring to be a man. He wants to support his family, strive, and be a support for the family.
So when some men choose a marriage partner, they do not think about whether they love each other or not, whether they can get along with each other; but whether they can make money with this woman for twenty or thirty years or even lying in bed every day.
Once you find such a woman, he will use all his strength to climb up to you.
You willful and lose your temper, and he will tolerate everything, telling you who has not been in a bad mood yet; if you are wronged, he will appear in time no matter how late he is, and be with you.
Some women will say that people who truly love me will do this, that's right. But the difference is that when you really make a mistake, the person who loves you will definitely say it and correct you and avoid making it again next time.
He understands that no matter how good a person is, he is not perfect. The meaning of being with you is tolerant and grow together.
The same is true for men who just want to eat soft food.
No matter how mistakes you make, in his mouth, it is all caused by others, otherwise I would like to find various objective reasons for you.
It was really comfortable to be with such a person at the beginning. It was not until after marriage that you realized that the person who was accommodating and tolerant of you in everything turned into a leeche that sucked blood on you. He chose to stick to you tightly, just to squeeze out your value.
Afraid of embarrassing
regard marriage as a life task
It is said that older women hate marriage, and many men also have a strong sense of urgency for marriage.
chatted a few times on your phone. When you saw you post an expression, you felt that you were interested in him; when you had time, you felt that you had accepted him, and you wanted to hold your hand when you went out.
Some women will be blinded by this offensive and feel that they are sincere and generous.
wait for him to get engaged and get married with you in a hurry; after he gets what he wants, all his enthusiasm for you will disappear.
For such people, marriage is just a task in their life. Just like you and the same goes for others.
is to avoid being gossiped by others, and still being single at the age of time. As for whether you love you or not, it doesn’t matter. Anyway, you can still leave if you can’t go on.
A person who truly loves you and cherishes you will not be able to confirm your relationship with you too quickly.
Two people spend time chatting, looking for each other's hobbies, eating a few more times, understanding each other's tastes, spending time with each other, familiarizing themselves with each other's living habits, slowly getting to know each other, gradually getting close, and then determining the relationship.
It is easy to see at first sight, but it is difficult to get tired of it after a long time. When encountering such people, keep a distance as soon as possible. A person who truly loves you will not be impatient.
very selfish
just want to belittle you
In feudal society, what many men are most obsessed with is that men are strong and women are weak, treating women as private property and disposing of them at will.
Even though society has developed to this day, some men are still obsessed with this feeling.
In love, what they are best at is suppressing you quietly.
You see a new skirt and ask him how he is; he laughs at you for being young and pretending to be a little girl; you don’t think there is much room for promotion, so you plan to read books and learn other skills. He says sarcasticly and asks if you want to abandon him after you get promoted.
When you are with such a man, you must always coax him, follow him, and maintain his pitiful self-esteem. Once you perform harder than him and more eye-catchingly, he will immediately give you a look.
You refute two sentences, he said that he has a sharp mouth and a tofu heart, for your own good.
People who really want to be good will quarrel with you and compete with you, but they will not regard suppressing and belittle you as a way to love you.
If you make a mistake, he will say it and correct it with you; if you have the opportunity to grow, he will praise you and encourage you to grow up without hesitation.
It is easy to say that you like someone, but it is difficult to say that you love; you can only do it with a sincere heart to understand, get along with, and accompany you.
Marriage is not a compulsory course for women. If there is no suitable person, don’t be in a hurry. You can live as you like at your own pace. If you like, look at the people you like, don’t force love each other for the rest of your life, just be comfortable with each other.
When you climb over the mountains alone, you will always meet someone who truly loves you. There is no need for you to please, and there is no need to worry. Just nod to each other and be with you for the rest of your life.
✎Author: Miss Bai, a working woman, writes warm and powerful words, share interesting and meaningful life with you, accompany you to grow up, and accompany you to be strong. The new book " Lives the way you want " is being exclusively pre-sale on Dangdang.com .
