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Men often attach great importance to their careers in this life. Career can bring them external glory and face, making them the best.
For men, how high they can stand and how successful their careers are, it is directly related to their own dignity.
A man who fails his career is easily linked to the word "incompetence" and it is difficult to gain the respect of others.
So most men will devote more time to their careers, achieve a leap in life, and use actions to win external glory for themselves.
Once a woman has a successful career, she will be asked by many people: How to balance the relationship between her career and family?
And men never face such a choice because they have very little inclination to their families.
Most women will become guardians of the family and would rather give up the opportunity to advance in their careers, just to give their children a warm home so that their husbands can work hard without worries.
Originally, the two of them just chose different ways to protect their families, but in the end they won the applause, and the men were honored, while the hard work behind the woman was often ignored.
Women never expect others to see what they have done to their family. They just hope that their men can understand and be more considerate of themselves. It’s a pity, but not all men can do this.
Some time ago, a male reader told me: He regrets getting divorced.
After his introduction, I knew it was another story of a successful career abandoning my wife and regretting her after losing it. Stories like
are no longer new in life. People are often like this. They don’t know how to cherish when they have it, and they dislike their lovers when they are happy. It was not until they lost that they realized that they had broken their own happiness with their own hands.
When I was young, many men often couldn't see the importance of their wives. When they had a little wealth, they would often become elated and dislike their wives a lot, thinking that if they abandoned her, they would definitely find a young and beautiful woman to enjoy the blessings of their old age.
It was not until I was fifty years old and had been through most of my life before I finally realized that career is important, having a warm family and having a lover who is good at it is more important.
In the second half of my life, I am not fighting for my career, but my wife.
Having a lover who wholeheartedly treats you is the blessing of old age
People often pursue a lot of things when they are young. Pursuing freedom and career will just ignore the warmth of the family and the fireworks of ordinary life.
As people get older, they often feel empty, and they are more and more eager for stability and warmth.
Especially after the age of fifty, I am particularly greedy for care and love, and I long to have a lover who is good at being by my side.
I hope there is a lamp left for me in the lights of thousands of families, and I hope that when I get home, I can pick up hot meals. I hope that when I am in good health, there is someone who cares, even if I am nagged a few words.
After reading Qianfan, I finally understood who is the person who is really good to me and who is the person who is sincere to us.
is not those friends at the table, not those who have business dealings with you, not those who are dedicated to you on weekdays and want to get benefits, nor are those dewy love that ends suddenly, but the lovers who have always been by your side.
When people are old, people can still care about and nag about it, which is the greatest happiness.
Family harmony is more important than external glory
No matter how high a person flies or how far he goes, his heart always needs a destination and a place where the soul is placed.
homes are our eternal habitat, the warmest harbor, carrying all our joys, sorrows, and joys.
people will understand that no matter how much they have, they will be outside things, and they will not bring them to life or death, and there is no meaning.
When we leave the world, we are our lovers and relatives. In the end, what we are attached to is not the money we cannot take away, but the warmth of the family and the love of the world.
What people want most is family harmony, children and grandchildren are around their knees, and family sharing. This is the most important thing. In
" Xiaoshede ", Nan Jianlong abandoned his first wife when he was young and got together with the nanny who took care of him. It is difficult to balance between his biological daughter and his adopted daughter. He likes to organize family dinners, but every time he has a bad time.
people are old, and their favorite is that the family has a family gathering, the family is harmonious and the family is harmonious. The second grandson is by his side.
Young couples come with old age, but it is better for the couple to be the original
We often say "Young couples come with old age". Only when people are old can they truly understand the meaning of this sentence.
The two of them got together in their youth, and they went through many hardships together. It is the best thing to be with them until they are together until their end, but it is also a very difficult thing.
There will be countless quarrels, countless boredom and disgust, many times when I feel that I can't go any further, and many couples will part as I walk. It is rare for those who can embrace each other and walk to the end.
Compared to the pressure of life, the trivialities of life are the most tiring. Many people do things that betray their feelings because they cannot stand the dullness of life and cannot resist the temptation from the outside world. The moment when I betrayed, I really felt that everyone outside was better than my lover, but after real experience, I realized that anyone with me could not escape boredom and sleepiness.
Halfway through, many people approach you, but in fact they have a different purpose, either for money or for money. Only the person who was by your side at first wanted nothing and treated you sincerely.
couples are still the original wife after all. The two have experienced various things and become people who are more in line with each other, and from then on they will support each other for a lifetime.
Don’t take detours because of a moment of obsession. If people’s hearts are cold, it will be harder to keep warm. Don’t let down the person who is sincerely by your side.
A man has been fifty years old and what he really strives for is not his career, but his wife.
At this age, it is such a wonderful thing for two people to support each other and accompany each other.
Only the wife is the one who wants nothing and treats you sincerely. She has been throwing her wholeheartedly on you and the family. Don’t see her efforts, don’t let her heart be cold.
Cherish the people in front of you and treat your wife well. She is worthy of all your efforts.
