There is only one life. As a woman, who doesn’t want to marry a good man? In the pursuit of love and marriage, many women are emotional, and there is no one who holds the heart that wants to join hands with the man he loves until old age.
But, reality is very cruel . Not all marriages can be happy and fulfilling. Some marriages, because they are a wrong beginning, end up with divorce.
However, divorce is far-reaching and the damage to women. A breakdown of a marriage will cause a fatal blow to women!
But marriage is the most important thing for women. Although they have been hurt and have experienced broken and failed marriages, they still want to have their own home.
So when you meet the right person, you will consider starting a family again, but in fact, second marriage is not as simple as you imagined, especially if marry a man who has never been married, "second marriage girl" bears greater risks and pressure!
Why do you say so? It is because compared with men who have had marriage experience, the "first-married man" has too many uncertainties!
1. Not sure if he really doesn’t care about the woman’s marriage experience?
2. Even if he doesn’t care, does his parents, relatives and friends care?
3. Even if he doesn’t care now, does it mean that he never cares. Will he bring up this matter again when a quarrel is quarrel in the future?
4. If they have each other’s children in the future, will they treat my ex-husband’s children well and treat them equally? (Women who have had children in the second marriage)
Therefore, in the marriage between the first marriage man and the second marriage woman, the "second marriage woman" bears greater risks and pressure, especially the second marriage woman who has children with her ex-husband.
Let’s take a look at the real experience of a woman who is married in a second marriage. If you were her, what would you do?
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When women face marriage, they must be cautious and do not end their marriage easily. Even after divorce, you have to carefully weigh it. Sharpening a knife in will not delay chopping wood. Before remarrying, pay attention to the issues you should pay attention to. Isn’t it good to have a happy second marriage?
Like the heroine above, even if she is smart and capable, she will be hard to describe when encountering love affairs. She insisted on playing a "good card" and got pregnant without thinking clearly. She was careless enough, which hurt herself and two children. A poor person must have something hateful. now has to choose, and some netizens said:
annual salary is 300,000 yuan, have a house and ability, why do you need such a narrow-minded man? Don’t keep your children. Your child has been hurt in the first marriage. The situation you face when your second child is not as good as the first child when you are born. It is better to have short pain than long pain. Don’t keep it. If it is left behind, it will be even more troublesome. You will still be entangled with this man in the future. This child may not be happy. You have to bear and face it too much. ——Netizen Li
ruined his second marriage in order to have a child with his ex-husband! Since you have chosen to marry a second marriage, you should cut off all contacts with the previous ones and transfer the child’s child support directly to the bank. Being entangled with your ex-husband and your children will only ruin your subsequent marriage. No man will tolerate his wife and contact with his ex-husband. ——Netizen Ming
I was also divorced and had a baby. Later, I met someone. At first, he asked him to see the child. Later, when I got pregnant, he refused to see the child, so I resolutely chose to separate. From then on, life is easier. We cannot give up our own flesh and blood for our own selfish desires. Nowadays, a person is more free and easy, and he has money and ability, and he doesn’t have to worry about anything.——Netizens popular
The man’s words are a bit ugly, but this man loves you, but you do not stand on the man’s side. The man thought to himself that he was willing to accept that he had a marriage and was willing to give for you, but he also needed you to give for him, instead of thinking about the child who had been thinking about the previous marriage. The man could take you to meet his family and prove that he loved you, but he did not tell him the facts of his family. He was afraid that his family's relationship would be in a stalemate. He wants you to be disconnected from the previous marriage, which means he doesn't want to go back to see the children often, because separation means separation. If you have your own children now, you should know how to cherish them, rather than saying that the flesh and blood born cannot be ignored. It is OK, but there is also a degree! ——Netizen Xia
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Let’s stop here. I won’t comment much. Everyone has their own opinions on similar marriage and relationship issues.
Everyone wants to find a good person to spend their whole life with them. But the question is, what exactly is "good"? If someone is good, he also wants to find someone. Why choose you?
In marriage, can women blame others if they marry wrongly once, and can they blame others if they marry wrongly twice? Even if it’s all the blame for others twice, how can she guarantee that she can marry the right person the third time? Different positions and different views on issues are different. If you have had a marriage experience or are not happy, it is not the other party’s own business, and you must also find the reason for yourself.
No matter how happy a marriage is, it still has unknown sadness. If you want to live a happy life, both parties must work hard. What do you think? Welcome to leave a message.
