Confucius student Ziyou works as an official in Wucheng.
There is an old man who found a stork migrating his nest to a relatively high tombstone. Then I reported to sub-you .
The old man also said: "According to the experience of his ancestors, the storks can premonition the climate. If they migrate their nests, it should indicate heavy rain."
Ziyou ordered people to prepare ships and strengthen the city walls.
A few days later, heavy rain and floods came. Because people are well prepared and suffer no losses.
It is true that as long as you notice any hint, you can adjust yourself in time to seek profit and avoid harm.
Nowadays, we are used to opening WeChat every day, checking and chatting. Expressing mood and broadening horizons.
However, the people and things on WeChat are varied and need to be carefully distinguished.
Today, I will discuss with you what does a woman hint that she has not changed her WeChat avatar for a long time? It facilitates the next step of interaction and communication, and does not harm each other.
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Family is stable, please do not disturb outsiders.
" Book of Songs " says: "Life and death are in harmony, and the conversation is made with your son; hold your hand and grow old with you."
If you find a person who is in love, and the two of you will never change their minds again. On this basis, a woman’s avatar is likely to be a “husband and wife appearance”. For example, wedding photos, scenery at the doorstep, group photos of a family of three, etc.
shows the most beautiful side of the family, which is a show-off and a rejection of third parties. Even if your lover wants to be liked, it is not possible.
Some women will also force their husbands’ WeChat avatar to be exactly the same as theirs. The avatar is also a "couple outfit".
When Tang Dynasty , people did not have mobile phones, but they proved their love and family by writing poems.
For example, the lady of a family met Wei Yingwu at a low point. With a responsible attitude towards love, Yuanping encouraged her husband to study and get fame. Although the family is very poor, there is no complaint. This relationship has not changed until death.
"My family advised me to have dinner, and shed tears at the empty table; my dream suddenly seemed to be seen, and I was startled and wandered again..." Wei Yingwu, who lost his wife, rubbed his thoughts into three meals a day and dreams. When the daughter got married, she wrote poems again to reflect her feelings. If it weren't for the deep love between husband and wife, how could this be?
From ancient times to the present, a person who fell into love has the feeling of "apart from Wushan is not a cloud".
Meeting a woman who focuses on "family". If you talk to her for a few words, they will always say "My family, my child, my life". If you leave the topic of family, she feels a little lost and doesn't seem to know what to say.
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is more nostalgic and has a good memory.
Many women can be happy for a lifetime or sad for a lifetime for something.
A female writer Bai Wei, after leaving her hometown, met the romantic talented man Yang Sao . They fell in love, then broke up and got back together, and finally Yang Saoling married someone else. But Bai Wei never married in her life.
After Yang Sao passed away, his son found Bai Wei and recorded some past events.
Bai Wei said, "I only have this lover."
Song Dynasty writer Li Qingzhao , and together with her husband, they collected a lot of books and cultural relics. Northern Song becomes Southern Song In the chaotic situation, her husband died of illness, and she desperately guarded books and cultural relics.
When Li Qingzhao was old, he wrote a poem: "The geese pass by, and it is sad, but they are acquaintances in the old days."
If you design a WeChat avatar for Bai Wei and Li Qingzhao, it will probably be a little "desolate", but they are happy to do so. After all, things that are heart-wrenching are things that go deep into the heart.
Women have a very strange feeling - if you want to lie to me, you will lie to me for the rest of your life. Nostalgia, maybe it starts with such feelings.
Therefore, we can always see some women who turn a flower, a tree, a garden, etc. into avatars, and never change it again. The meaning of it is not visible to outsiders, but she herself is very clear.
Open WeChat and see the avatar, I actually found a memory, which was all in it, but I couldn't bear to change it.
is like a flower that a woman puts on her own. Even if the flowers fade, she must carefully pick it up and make a specimen of the flower, or put it in a cloth bag.
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is very busy at work, so you don’t look at your phone.
is busy, not a man's patent, women can also be very busy, and they are more "delicate" than men, occupying every minute and every second.
My classmate Xiaoli got married in her thirties.
After getting married, I raised two children one after another. From buying a house to decorating a wedding, to taking the confinement period, sending children to school seems to be done in one go.
, especially two years after marriage, let alone changing WeChat avatars, even mobile phones rarely open.
Anyone who is familiar with Xiaoli understands that she works in a public institution during the day. When I got home in the evening, I hurriedly bought vegetables, cooked food, and coaxed my children to bed.
The older child fell asleep, and the younger child cried again. After a few rounds, it was eleven or two o'clock in the night.
Sometimes, I forgot where to put my phone because I was so busy. Early the next morning, I found my phone and found that it was not charged.
Li Yinhe said: "Life has quietly passed away in the trivial busyness."
Women care about it, most of the trivial matters. Because of this, she is prone to age and is easily forgotten by time.
As a woman, she is middle-aged unknowingly, and the children and the elderly need to take care of each other, and maybe she has no intention of looking at the WeChat avatar. After all, I am no longer restless and setting up an avatar is not worth mentioning.
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Of course, if you believe in everything about WeChat, you will have it, and if you don’t believe in it, you will not have it.
I have seen a topic: the more a person cares about others, the harder it is.
When you turn the scenery into avatar, people who like the village think it is not good-looking; if you copy the marriage, some people say you are "showing"; if you show photos of mother and daughter, people who don't like you think it's too artificial.
Life is sea of sea, if you can’t satisfy everyone, then learn to satisfy yourself. Don’t take the opinions of outsiders, even those of parents and husbands, too seriously.
maintains a "do your own way" look, and persists, and you will find that life is particularly smooth.
As an outsider, when encountering a woman who has not changed her WeChat avatar for a long time, she should respect her, rather than give her advice.
Understand the hints of WeChat avatar, and you will feel more comfortable when you communicate with anyone.
Author: Common people eat coarse food.
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