text/Xia Mo
01, Volume Beginner
No one can escape the fate of "love and being loved", it is like a mountain that must be crossed and a bridge that must be walked.
Roman Rolland said: "When you truly love someone, you will forget your own joys, happiness, and only care about the other person's joys, happiness, and losses."
Love will make a person give all his efforts. When a man gives deep affection to a woman, his words and deeds will become different.
Because if women want to give their sincerity, they need to pay attention to the rules. In order to get the true heart of a woman, a man will continue to conquer her heart like a warrior.
However, when women are in love, they are very reserved and are not good at expressing love. It often makes men constantly guess and constantly figure out what they think.
It seems that women like sweet words, but in fact women pay more attention to men’s actual actions and what men can give for her.
Men love a woman deeply, don’t say “I love you” directly, do three things first and win.
02. Doing something that warms her true heart, but "no return"
action is a proof of love.
A man loves a woman deeply. Men should not rush to say "I love you" to her, but can use some practical actions to warm her.
Because expressing love too quickly will make women feel that men are immature. A man uses his actions to prove his sincerity, which will make women feel that he is more mature and steady.
For example: When a woman needs help, lend a helping hand in time and help her; when she is unhappy, accompany her and help her relieve negative emotions.
Or, when a woman comes home from get off work, go pick him up and chat with her; when she catches a cold, buy some medicine for her and care for her.
When men express their love, they don’t have to say sweet words, and they don’t have to try their best to think about how to confess their love. Instead, impress women with your gentleness and gentlemanly demeanor.
Get close to the woman you like and protect and warm her with practical actions. The woman will feel the changes in life brought to her by the man and gradually be moved by the man.
When a woman sees a man's sincerity, she feels that he can protect her, sees his tenderness, and sees his maturity, she will gradually give her sincerity.
03. Care about a woman’s emotions and give her positive energy
On the road of life, everyone will encounter bad things and develop negative emotions.
When a man is frustrated by a woman, the man provides her with positive emotional value, which will make the woman look at him differently.
A man loves a woman deeply, and don’t say “I love you” directly, but learn to care about a woman’s emotions and take into account her inner feelings. And, give her positive energy as much as possible.
No matter what happens to her, stand up immediately, give comfort, and calm her heart.
If a man can understand a woman's joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness, he will know why she is sad. Being able to do something that makes her happy and sharing suffering and sorrow with her will gradually make women unable to live without him.
Women gradually develop a habit. When they are in a bad mood, they will call him, send messages, and ask him to meet.
When a woman treats a man as her spiritual pillar, it means that he has already occupied a high position in her mind.
The relationship between two people goes from being unfamiliar to being distant and talking about everything, and gradually I feel that each other is soul mates and is hard to find a confidant. Women gradually fall in love with men.
04. Improve yourself in all aspects and increase your personal attractiveness
Audrey Hepburn said: "Don't try to pick the moon, let the moon come to me."
In the face of love, if you want to attract someone, you must learn to show your excellent side.
When a man loves a woman deeply, he does not need to rush to confess his love, but be himself.
What women need most is a sense of security, a stable life, and a bright future. Therefore, when a woman delivers her sincerity, she will conduct a multi-faceted investigation of her partner.
If a man knows how to improve his career, has a humorous personality, is knowledgeable, is generous and decent, is very sensible in dealing with people, and has a stronger ambition than his peers, women have long been deeply attracted by you.
If a man is not outstanding, no matter how enthusiastic he expresses his love, it will be difficult for him to win the appreciation of women.
Men, if you are not outstanding enough and the woman you fall in love with is as dazzling as light, please actively improve yourself in all aspects. Because only when you are excellent enough can you have strong attraction and attract women's sincerity.
The love itself is also a "exchange of interests". Men, only when you make yourself valuable will women love you more.
05. Summary
Van Gogh once said: "Where the flower of love blooms, life can flourish."
Good love should be proved with actions and maintained with attraction. Man, if you love a woman, don’t rush to say love, but express love with your actions.
Love a person, men give women more practical help, give them spiritual comfort, and keep working hard to become a better self. Then, women will naturally be attracted to you.
Men don’t have to rush to confess their love. They say “I love you” too early, but they can’t do anything, and they can’t bring a sense of security to women and make women worry.
The man's vows cannot resist what he actually does for women.
Men, please be more patient and let women see that you have the ability, your qualities, and your growth ability will be willing to give their sincerity. In the future, I can spend the rest of my life with you.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
