The world of adults, ideals and reality, never seem to be the same.
Ideally hope that I can achieve success in my career and achieve success is the one that many people admire, but in reality, I often do a job with little value, nameless and barely make a living.
Even marriage is the same. When I was young, I always thought I could marry someone I like very much, but later, I just didn’t like it very much.
But at that age, I found someone I could accept and thought was quite suitable.
is really that many people’s marriages are not what they really want, but they just have no other choice.
The last man married was not the woman he really wanted. The last man whom a woman married was not the man she was very satisfied with.
Think about it, if there is a choice, many women often will not enter the current marriage and make do with each other, and will only make other decisions.
Love yourself and can provide emotional value.
Generally speaking, in relationships, most women are more emotional.
will attach great importance to whether a man is sincere in his treatment, and will also hope that the other party will pay attention to some details.
In other words, I hope the other party can love you very much and only see yourself. When getting along, you can always care about yourself, take the initiative to respond to yourself, and respond to everything, and explain your own affairs.
When there are some problems with each other, don’t be cold-war with yourself. You can communicate well with yourself and be willing to coax yourself.
Women are very careful. Once they love each other, it is easy to put a lot of emotions on men.
At this time, she really can't stand any perfunctory and can't stand any neglect. She just hopes that men can always be enthusiastic and always care about their feelings, so that they can feel a care and care.
Throughout her life, women's desire for love is often very strong. No matter how old a woman is, no matter how independent or strong a woman is, she will want to have a warm embrace, a person who knows the cold and the hot.
Someone treats her like this, accommodates her, and spoils her, and she will easily fall into trouble. She doesn't care about anything else at all. She will only always be devoted to this happiness, firmly holding it, and is completely unwilling to lose it.
has a certain strength and can afford to support a family.
Although what women desire most is the love of men, a relatively mature woman with a certain experience also understands that no matter how much love she loves and has no money, it will not work.
has never existed. Even if each other's conditions are poor, they can't afford to buy a house, and their lives are not guaranteed, and their relationships can still be very good. They are too poor, and their lives will really not be able to survive, and their feelings can't support each other's lives at all.
So when looking for a partner, women will also consider men's financial conditions while loving or not.
didn't want to find someone with a particularly good condition, which is better than yourself, but at least I hope to be a very down-to-earth person, who can make money well, support himself, and be responsible for a family.
As long as a man is not afraid of hardship, is more motivated, and is comparable to his own, she will be more satisfied and feel it is enough.
Women will consider money, but in terms of money, she is not so greedy and not so material.
She will also be willing to make money with men to support her family, but she also hopes that men will not be idle and do nothing. It will only drag themselves down and make themselves get married, but they will live a worse life, not as good as when they are alone.
If that is the case, she will be really sad, doubting her choice, and her life will not be able to survive at all.
can handle housework well.
For a woman, marrying a man and having a relationship with a man, she has to deal with her own relationship with her parents, and her relationship with her parents will also be a lot of problems, as well as big and small things in the family, which she needs to face.
There are always some men who often ignore women and their parents, or stand directly on their own side, especially protecting their own parents, and just treating women as outsiders. I always feel that everything in
is a woman's business and I don't need to care about it at all.
A man who does not stand on the side of a woman and blindly favors his parents will make the woman feel disappointed and has no sense of belonging. He is a man who is particularly macho and will not want to be a man.
Most women are the same. They hope that when they are at home, men can coordinate their relationship with their parents, which will make her feel that she is also a part of that family and make their relationship more harmonious.
Four times, a woman’s status in a family and her relationship with her parents is really up to the man.
In addition, she also hopes that men can take on housework and all kinds of big and small things at home together, cook, wash dishes, mop the floor, and wash clothes with her, and manage each other's small families well.
Men who can handle these things well have always been the favorites of women, and they will really make life smoother.
If possible, women want to find someone who loves them, can support their families, and can handle everything at home.
When looking for a partner, as a woman, you can really find one according to this standard and try to find one like this.
If you are lucky enough to meet, if you can have it, you can manage it well and make your life in the future fun.
If you can't meet such a person, you can lower the standard a little, but you must still filter it carefully and find someone with good character and can indeed live together.
After that, you should still love the person you choose and be loyal to each other.
can't have what you really want. It will actually be a blessing to cherish what you have.
will not always regret, always regret, always feel that every day is hard to bear, and there is no end to see.
text/Tan Meng
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