emotional topic interpretation, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional worry-relieving person, but you must know how to let yourself go!
text | Feng Ding Yebo
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At the age of age, there are not many people who can still be liked by others from the heart!
Especially in your later years, there are very few people who can be approached and loved by a true love!
Most people can accept that a child who is not upset can cause trouble and can also save the consequences. But we cannot afford to deteriorate the various functions of the elderly, but we are willing to pay for the comprehension!
Once upon a time, there was a saying, I don’t know how many times I wrote about the article about “A man reaches his old age”. I quoted it again here again:
Our generation is the generation that is despised by his children. After all, our generation is becoming more and more unimportant others who are "unused"!
I can’t remember what inspiration was generated in my mind when I wrote such a passage for the first time. But I clearly remember that when I finished writing this sentence, my eyes were moist!
I don’t know if I was so heartbroken by my own words, or because of this sentence, I feel sad for the elderly. Who knows? Anyway, everyone will get old, right?
It’s a terrible thing to be old!
Life is a fixed rhythm - from young things to the prosperous period of life, to the aging period of old age, it is a fate that no one can escape.
How can there be so many lucky years in life? Except for personal encounters miracles, all the desolation is achieved through "preparing for the future".
True, when people reach old age, they don’t have these things: it’s hard to live!
If you have these things, if you always have them, you will largely avoid desolation in your later years:
First: Deposit is a symbol of "home"
In real life, most of the elderly who can live relatively well in their later years have played a decisive role.
No matter what kind of person you were when you were young, no matter how filial you are in your children in your later years, when you are old, you must have money in your pocket to be the most down-to-earth.
No matter how much money it is, you must never let yourself "no deposit".
Don’t think that people who value money too much are so materialistic and realistic. You should know that when a person gets old, the "remaining of life" of having money and not having money are completely different.
The elderly who have no "deposit" can best see the ugly part contained in human nature.
Some elderly people fully believe in the saying "raising children to prevent old age" and give every penny in advance to their children. Later, even though I knew that my children were no longer reliable, I had to whisper to please me.
is already in his old age, and he still has to take care of his children and do things that he "can do his best" but exceeds his body's endurance. This is a kind of "must" in helplessness.
There are also some elderly people who don’t know what thrift is when they were young. They have been generous all their lives, and in their later years, they have no savings at all. Therefore, the rest of my life can only be spent in sloppy.
Whether it is a problem with your own health and needs money to solve it, or the powerlessness of children who are helpless, it is not only personal helplessness, but also makes children who are not rich in life deeply feel "injured to the point of injury".
The elderly who have no deposits and are relatively easy to live in their later years are "children" who can never leave them no matter what. In addition, some children also think it is a "drag" to the elderly who do not have deposits.
The elderly who have "deposits" will live in the way they like to the greatest extent.
Elderly people with deposits are relatively preferential treatment even if they are admitted to a hospital or nursing home.
Especially, elderly people with deposits do not have to reach out to ask for "fees" from their children. As the saying goes, "I have money in my pocket, I have a clear mind, and I don't panic."
The elderly who have deposits have the final say on what they like to eat, use, play, and go. If you encounter a child, you need financial help and you will also pay in the form of being grateful.
money, fundamentally speaking, is the best "form" to change the fate of the elderly.
money can make a young person live a decent life and make the elderly live relatively comfortable.
money, as long as you were willing to make efforts in the past, and later were willing to save carefully, now you can feel the "stability" it brings to you.
It is impossible for people to not rely on their children at all, but the elderly who have deposits in their hands will also rely on their children as "joy and gentle" behind a plot that is not exposed.
Have money, have children, and the warmth of a family. If you don’t have money and are useless, don’t use “support”. Because the so-called " moral kidnapping " in the mouths of some egoistic young people!
Second: Hope is the "thrill" of living
People are alive, and hope is meaningful only!
Some people will say, when people are old, what hope is there? Every day and vertical, my eyes open and close, and I just leave for nearly a day.
In fact, people at every stage have their hopes for each stage. This kind of hope is often called the "spiritual pillar".
No matter how old you are, as long as you have a spiritual pillar, this person will be "motivated" to live.
If a person loses hope and loses his spiritual support, it means that his life will be linked to the confusion.
A person's mentality determines a person's destiny. The hope and spiritual pillar of dependence set by a person for himself determine the value and significance of his life.
Young man, lost his spiritual pillar and lived like a body. As for the elderly, there is no hope. Is it a combination of contradictions that I want to go early and still want to live?
The old age life with hope and no hope is completely opposite, both in terms of mental state and socializing with others.
has always been very acknowledging that the older a person is, the more he needs to find a way to keep himself busy. This will help you with your physical and mental health.
is busy, which does not mean that you can do something overloaded, but in a busy rhythm that you can accept:
raising flowers, growing grass, teasing cats and dogs, reading books, reading newspapers, interacting with like-minded old friends, and cultivating some hobbies to cultivate sentiment...
Some people start to become withdrawn when they get older, do not interact with others, and have no spiritual support. Over time, I was marginalized!
The more marginalized a person is, the more likely he is to develop a stereotype, making him dislike others and making him dislike himself.
In other words, a person who makes himself overly marginalized is a person who makes things difficult for himself.
Although people must endure loneliness, they must never be completely "limited".
people, you should summarize yourself and maintain your health while enjoying loneliness. You should better understand society through more contact with the outside world, and be relatively in line with society.
You should know that when a person grows up, he will derail with society as various functions deteriorate, and then completely close himself and have no spiritual pillar. Then such an old age will probably be a torture.
Happiness is also a day, and energy is also a day. Why not choose the latter? Under the beautiful hope and the strong spiritual pillar, how can you spend your old age happily and peacefully?
In his later years, people must enrich themselves internally, so that they can be well accepted by themselves and smile at the storm for the rest of their lives.
Third: Health is the capital of all "enjoyment"
When people get old, they will have symptoms of old age? The sentence
is correct!
Many times, when people get old, the so-called symptoms are derived from the heart. There are also some elderly people’s illnesses that are “made” by themselves! The reason is simple:
People with bad mentality will cause physical patients. You should know that no matter how healthy your body was in the past, once your mentality is not good, you will "welcome" to get started with illness.
And the elderly who "made" healthy are mostly because of the "saving" habits they developed when they were young, and they are still reluctant to throw away some leftovers;
There are also some elderly people who do not know how to maintain health and exercise their muscles, so that they can obviously have a healthy body and be damaged.
Some children are really "unlucky" for their older parents. Because they stick to their own thinking and are unwilling to make changes.
Some of the persuasion words for their children, they use "one set in person and one set behind the scenes" to fight wits and courage with their children.
Finally, my body collapsed, I tasted the sadness of not having a filial son in front of the bed for a long time, and I also tasted the pain that no one would bear for me even if my children were filial.
In the world, there is no medicine for regret. If you are healthy, all illusions will be destroyed.
Sometimes minor problems with deterioration of functions are normal and can also be endured. Never save yourself, eat bad meals, and use some items that are harmful to the body.
People are old, keeping their health is the best way to reduce the burden on their children.
People are old. Eat something good for their health, use some things that are harmless to themselves, persist in exercise, and maintain a good attitude. Only in this life can you put a perfect end to yourself.
You must know that if the health you should have is gone, you can’t eat or walk, and you will have to endure the pain of illness, and your heart will be filled with haze!
Don’t think that “no filial son in front of the bed for a long time” is an exaggeration, and don’t think that you can hire a nursing worker with some money in your hands.
In this realistic moment, we outline everything beautiful, but we must never ignore human nature.
No one, so he should and willingly do what he does for you.
Especially, people who are older are not very common with young people. They hum and wail all day long. I am afraid that anyone will roll their eyes on you after a long time!
Age people, in order to have a better life in their old age, must remember to make some savings in their hands and set up a spiritual pillar for themselves and live the rest of their lives with hope. In addition, they must pay special attention to physical health.
Remember, these three things are your last trump card, you must grasp it!
In this life, never rely on others completely. Only then can you support yourself in your continuous enlightenment and walk the last journey!
Love is the purgatory of people in the world.Whether it is love or friendship, only by meeting the right person at the right time can you achieve the right result!
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