text/Hua Yaoguan
Xu Shichang said: "Anyone who establishes achievements is based on morality. Those who have always been knowledgeable and able to take on great causes will first establish their feet based on their character."
Whether a person's character is good directly determines what kind of life he is like.
What is character? Simply put, ideological quality and morality gather on the human soul, thus forming the theory of character.
interprets the interpretation of character in different professions in ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad.
is just like the 18th century French scholar Bufeng . He put forward the proposition that "style is people" in a speech called "On Style".
Character is a person's trump card. No matter what you do or what you do, it is inseparable from the word "character".
What is a person’s character? Many people don’t know where to understand it.
In fact, a person's character is easy to detect, especially a woman's character.
First: Look at her attitude towards money
The Analects of Confucius says: "A gentleman cherishes virtue, while a villain bears earth."
means that when doing things, a gentleman will give priority to morality, while a villain will give priority to interests.
The temptation brought to people by money is huge. After all, there is a saying: "You can't buy family affection with money, but you can buy a house; you can't buy health with money, but you can save your life when you are sick."
Money is an important product of this society, but money should not be the whole of life.
A woman with good character will pay more attention to feelings rather than interests.
In the TV series " Please answer 1988", Deshan family owed a lot of debts and lived a very difficult life.
At that time, Deshan was going to study and travel, and the money that Deshan's family once borrowed had not been paid back, so they are naturally hesitant to borrow money now, so after some communication, Deshan's mother's idea of borrowing money again.
But Ms. Leopard saw Deshan's mother's embarrassment and sent the money with the mouth of giving corn.
Lady Leopard not only did not expose Deshan's mother's suffering, but also saved their family from the fire and fire.
In that era, she still borrowed it even though she knew that the other party could not pay it back, so her character was naturally good.
Second: See if she knows how to be grateful
As the saying goes, "The road knows the power of a horse, and people's hearts will be seen over time."
See if a woman has a good character, it depends on whether she knows how to be grateful.
I saw a story: a farmer doesn’t like eating eggs, so he gives eggs to his neighbors every time. At first, the neighbors would thank him, but later he got used to it.
Until one day, the farmer gave the eggs of that day to another neighbor, and the previous neighbor actually had a big fight with him.
Facts have proved that not everyone has a grateful heart. If some people treat her well, she will only take it for granted.
There are many such examples in real life. Some time ago, a friend around me complained about his ex-girlfriend.
He said that his girlfriend ate and lived in his house, and she was lazy every day and did nothing. He also indulged her in love with her for several years.
Recently, his phone broke and wanted to use his own money to buy a new phone, but his girlfriend firmly opposed it and even said that she could not buy her a bag after buying a phone.
In a fit of anger, the friend cut off the relationship with his girlfriend and drove her out of the house.
A woman who doesn’t know how to be grateful must have a bad character and will definitely not be able to get happiness, especially in love.
Third: Look at the details of her life
No matter how well a person disguises, he cannot work hard on every detail.
That's why there is the saying: "Details show character, and small things show people's hearts."
A person's life trajectory contains many things, such as emotions, life resources, interests and hobbies, etc.
Liang Shiqiu said: "When the blood is boiling, you are not very rational, your words and deeds are easy to be out of touch, and it is not suitable for others or yourself."
People will definitely have emotions when they are alive, and when they are extremely angry, there is a high probability that they will not be able to control themselves.
But a woman with good character will not vent her emotions randomly to others.
In life, many women will punch, kick, verbally speak, or even smash things when they are angry. Women who have such behavior can tell their character at a glance.
Women with real good character will not make these unreasonable actions. Even if they are angry, they will try to keep themselves calm, and then sit down and solve the problem well together. It will be easier to communicate with such a woman.
Ikeda Daisaku said: "Credit is rare and easy to lose. The credit accumulated over ten years is often lost due to temporary words and deeds."
The most important resource for human life is money, and depending on a person's character, borrowing money is the easiest way.
If a woman borrows money from you and she has never returned it to you, then there must be a problem with her character.
Previously, a college student said that her roommate often forgot to bring her meal card, and she would pay for her first when she thought about her roommate’s affection.
At first, her roommate would pay in time, but slowly she began to drag and drag again and again. Even if she took the initiative to ask for it, the other party always had a way to refuse.
You should know, "Life cannot bloom brilliant flowers from lies."
We are all college students, and they don't have much pocket money. As a roommate, helping her is affection, not duty, and not paying back debts is really a loss of the face of a college student.
Suddenly thought of a sentence: "Having a high education does not mean having good character."
No matter how good you read and have a high degree of education, if you can't pass the character, you will be despised.
In addition, a person's character can also be seen from his or her interests.
In life, some women like to be alone, read, and make money; while some women like to go to bars and play games.
The people cultivated between these two different types of hobbies are naturally completely different.
We cannot deny the interests themselves, but "birds of a feather flock together", the people you meet will subtly affect your life and character.
A woman, the circle she lives in is very important.
In today's era, we pursue an ideal life and pursue a dream of freedom. Although society has relaxed constraints, you should be strict with yourself in .
Character is the key to a person's success or failure. If you want to succeed, you should start with yourself.
Be a woman with good character and look at mediocre people in the world with a smile.
