Someone said:
"One more friend, one more path."
Yes, many friends are relatively excellent and sincere. When we are with such people, we will feel happy and happy. When we encounter some things, the other party will also help us, and we will also help them.
There is a kind of friend who has no blood relationship with us, but it makes us feel extremely happy, but it makes us feel that this is a precious wealth. After seeing such a friend, it is like bathing in the spring breeze and drinking in the clear spring.
But there are good things, there are bad things, some friends are not that good, some friends deliberately don’t treat you well, or treat you well hypocritically. Some people themselves do not have the intention to harm you, but because of their own inherent ideas, it is not suitable to be friends with you.
Friends should also look at the good or bad. Some friends are worse than those who have them. Older people should be more cautious when making friends.
People are old, and without these three kinds of friends, it is a blessing:
01.
friends who provoke right and wrong
Some friends are with you just to provoke right and wrong. This friend can't accommodate any sand in his eyes. When he sees some things in your house, he always feels that the people in this family are not very nice to you.
It seems that the other party is speaking for you, and the words said by the other party will also make you feel uncomfortable in your heart, unbalanced, and particularly aggrieved.
When the other party says these words to you and makes you feel uncomfortable, you will actually have some prejudice against the people in your family. Over time, this prejudice will become a complaint, and it will explode one day, and there will be no peace in your family.
So you have to know that although the other party is your good friend, the most important person is your family. If the other party says that your family is not good to you enough, then at this time, you must think about whether the people at home are really like this?
If the people in the family are really like this, you can solve the problem with the people in the family in a friendly manner, instead of being angry with the people in the family, as this will affect the happiness of the family.
Of course, it would be fine if a friend just said it once, but if he would tell you all day, it means that this friend is either a person who can’t stand the sand in his eyes, or a person who likes to sow discord and likes to have conflicts in your family.
02.
Peaceful friends
A elderly person must not make some petty friends. Such petty friends will be jealous of your children and will be jealous of you.
Some elderly people are over 70 or 80 years old, so at this time, there is no strict sanction on these elderly people in law. If a person is jealous of you, he may feel hatred. Then at this time, some damage may be done in your home. These damages may harm your children, which is unimaginable.
So at this time, what can you do to the other party? So I can only eat coptis chinensis by mute.
So you must make a friend who is not careful in your heart. After you make such a friend, you will feel comfortable in your heart, and the other party will not cause damage to you. Then when you are with the other party, you will be safer, otherwise you may have to pay some price.
If an old man meets a friend with a bad intention, once the old man pays some price, it will make the old man change and be unhappy for the past half of his life, and will make the teacher feel that his life is too tragic and even lose hope for life.
03.
Friends who often borrow money from you
If a friend often borrows money from you, then such a friend is unwilling, especially when an elderly person makes friends. If a person often borrows money from the elderly and does not repay it after borrowing money, it means that the person is not upright, which means that the person is just to deceive the elderly.
Just like my grandfather, he saved tens of thousands of yuan in his family, and it was the money saved by his parents. Once, people from the village came to his grandfather to borrow money, so his grandfather lent the money to the other party. Many years have passed, and the money has not been returned.
So sometimes some people deceive the elderly under the guise of borrowing money. They look good friends with the elderly and look very good to the elderly, but they are to borrow money from them. After borrowing money, they will not pay it back. Sometimes they wait until the elderly die.
This person completely refused to admit it. Such a person is a typical fraudulent person, so whether it is an old or a young person, you must stay away from it when you meet such a person.
As an elderly person, don’t let your family be heavily in debt because of some bad actions, and lend some money saved by your children to others. In this way, your children will have an objection to you.
Your children will also think that you are an uneasy elderly person, and that the hard work you have worked hard all your life has been ruined by you.
At this time, your children will no longer like you, so you will be really lonely and helpless at this time, because the children think that you are deliberately destroying your family happiness, and the children will also hate you.
Of course, the same is true for us young people. If you have a friend who often borrows money from you, such a person must stay away from the other party, and do not repay the money after borrowing it, and continue to borrow it after not repaying it. Then this method is to let you support the other party. In the end, the other party also thinks you are a bad person, so you will have no money and no friends by then.
As a person gets older, you should keep your eyes open when making friends, because after you make a bad friend, it will not only be bad for you personally, but also for your family.
When we grow old, we must treat others sincerely, but we must also be careful when making friends. Some people do not necessarily say certain things and do certain things for our own good. Therefore, we must have a scale in our hearts and we must be able to distinguish the good or bad of others.
Don’t cause trouble to yourself when you get old, and don’t cause trouble to your children. Don’t let others think that you are disrespectful to old age, and don’t let others think that there are still many things after you get old. Sometimes a friend will ruin you, or even destroy your entire home.
