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Some people say that love is infinite tolerance for another person. Indeed, loving someone means treating each other with all your love. After all, they are the ones who will be with each other until they grow old.
However, the problem is the word "infinite". No matter how good it is, should it really be so infinite that there is no "bottom line"? And as the loved one, when facing this sincere love, don’t you know the words “stop at the right time”? If you don’t understand these things, then this relationship is really meaningless.
I saw such a post not long ago, and the content was speechless.
It can be seen from the video that this is the wedding day. The bride is dressed very beautifully, her eyes are full of happiness, and she is surrounded by relatives and friends. I hope to watch the couple move towards a new life and wish them a happy marriage for a hundred years.
However, at this time, the mother-in-law watched her hard-working daughter being about to become someone else's bride, and was full of reluctance and worried that she would not be in good health and would be bullied at her parents' home, especially worried that she would be bullied by her son-in-law. It was this mixed emotion that made her think other things.
So the best friend of the bride actually brought a basin of foot washing water, and first asked the groom to help the bride wash her feet.
This requirement is actually not an exaggeration. For a man, washing his beloved wife's feet is not a humble thing, and the groom in the video also did it. However, after just finishing the washing, he thought he would go to the next stage, but he never expected that the next thing would be the real purpose of the mother-in-law and the bride's best friend.
"If you love her, you must drink this basin of foot washing water!" The bride's best friend's words made the groom stunned in an instant, thinking that he had heard it wrong.
However, my best friend immediately added: "What's wrong with it? Just drink it once in your life, so you should drink it soon." His eyes were full of jokes and seriousness.
The whole picture was quiet. No one expected that his mother's family would make such a request, and the groom also asked for help from the bride, but the bride did not speak, as if she was waiting for the groom's next action.
In fact, we can know that this is because the family hopes that their daughter can always be pressed on her husband after marriage to ensure her status and rights, so they want to let the groom prove it through this behavior.
However, this is no longer a simple proof, but it steadily breaks the man's self-esteem, but in the name of "If you love me, drink it unless you don't love me."
At this time, everyone's eyes were focused on Sina , and the mother's family seemed to hold hands and pinch it, believing that the groom would do it according to their ideas.
However, the groom also had a bottom line in his heart. Seeing the attitude of the bride and her family, he was immediately furious and immediately decided to break off the engagement. He even left without caring about the heavy rain that had just happened outside.
At this time, the bride realized that this incident really made the groom angry. She ran over immediately, and didn't care about her face. She immediately pulled the groom's leg and refused to let him go.
But the groom was still angry and still wanted to leave, and the bride ran to the rain outside, still pulling the groom's legs and preventing him from leaving, saying an apology.
Although I don’t know what the result will be, seeing the behavior of the bride and her family made me involuntarily think of a sentence: “If I had known this, why should I have been there in the beginning.”
Indeed, every woman is full of uncertainty when she gets married. She is worried that she has married the wrong person and is afraid of regretting her in the future. She hopes that the other party can give herself enough security to fill her inner sense of security.
Such a tangled emotion is understandable, so the man took the bride gift, bought a house, ordered a ring, and found a hotel before marriage, and finished all the rituals without ending, just to prove that "I love you."
But what was the exchange for? Is it just that I have to drink foot washing water to love? Then I can only say that this is simply a blasphemy of previous love and efforts.
The old saying goes: "God can still forgive evil, but he can't live without evil." Women like this and their ignorant family members really do not deserve love. Therefore, I admire the groom's rejection. I would rather break my jade than be a complete one. I am a man, a husband, and a father in the future, rather than a servant, nor a slave who only deserves to drink foot washing water.
Just like beauty needs distance, then love also needs to be limited. As much love as you get, you have to repay as much love. Women's clearness is precious, but most men are the first time they get married and love for the first time, and they also have preciousness.
If you love someone, you should consider it more for the other person. What you get is not love, but eternal emptiness. Understanding and tolerance is the cornerstone of happiness for life!
