disagrees! A daughter-in-law who is a teenager older than her son?
The pressure in today's society is getting greater and greater, and married people have to raise their wives and children. Those who are not married are even more troublesome. Their parents urge to get married like repeaters, which makes people overwhelmed. But getting married is not that easy? Cars, houses, and brides are also indispensable!
My parents have stable jobs and families have savings to get married. Families with average conditions may spend most of their parents' property to get married for their children. Due to various reasons, older unmarried young people will choose their spouse lower and lower. As long as the other party is a down-to-earth person.
People understand each other during the communication process, and the so-called judging people by appearance is even more undesirable. A person's nature is not something that can be seen in a short period of time. Many couples are in harmony when they are in love, and the family trivial matters after marriage are confirmed to be unhappy and may even quarrel and divorce!
And recently, Aunt Liu Xiuci from Hunan also has such troubles. Of course, the protagonist of the matter is not himself, but his son and daughter-in-law. We thought the two had a conflict, so the aunt came to find a way to mediate the conflict between them, but the aunt chose to let the two divorce.
Aunt Liu Xiuci's family's financial situation has always been poor, which has also led to her son Wang Cheng who is nearly 40 years old and has not been married, and she also urges her son to get married every day. His son Wang Chuangren was also very anxious and wanted to pass on the family line. Later, they met Cheng Wenli, who was a teenager than him. They went to the Civil Affairs Office to complete the marriage procedures within six days after they met.
Aunt Liu Xiu was kind and thought that since her son was married, although her daughter-in-law was a little old, as long as she could bring her one and half of her daughters, it was understandable that the two lived a peaceful life.
But after marriage, things did not happen as aunt Liu Xiuci wished. According to aunt Liu Xiuci, because of the poor family background, his son Wang Cheng chose to go out to work, but his daughter-in-law was idle all day long, wandering around all day, and still staying at night! The aunt kept doing it all the time, changed the door lock and locked her daughter-in-law in the house, making her unable to leave the door.
But Aunt Liu Xiuci, the daughter-in-law, is not a fuel-efficient lamp. When she saw her mother-in-law lock the door, she smashed the door lock and continued to be idle and go out to wander around. He even had no respect for his mother-in-law Liu Xiuci. When he saw his mother-in-law, he would swear words. is not polite to Wang Cheng’s salary, so he asks for it all by himself.
Of course, Liu Xiuci, the aunt, cannot tolerate her son having such a wife. He persuaded his son and daughter-in-law to divorce. But Cheng Wenli, the big Buddha, entered the small temple of Liu Xiuci's family, and refused to leave. No matter how the aunt persuaded Cheng Wenli, she would not divorce.
According to the reporter, Wang Cheng worked hard every day to make money, but he could not see his salary at all. Once the salary is paid, the wife will have reason to ask for it from herself. What's even more excessive is that Cheng Wenli, as a wife, can only be close to Wang Cheng when asking for her salary, and usually treats her husband like a stranger. Moreover, his wife often stays away at night, and Wang Cheng said that he can't stand such a wife.
The husband doesn’t like it, the mother-in-law doesn’t like it, and the two divorced. But Cheng Wenli would not give up this money tree easily. If she leaves this family, how could she have money to spend. Cheng Wenli thought that Wang Cheng took the initiative to choose to get married, so how could he get divorced again? It must be the mother-in-law who did it!
Cheng Wenli thought that the main reason for her mother-in-law to marry her son was to pass on the family line. She was too old and it was unlikely to have a child. Therefore, provoking the two to divorce and finding someone to give birth to a child is the best choice.
Liu Xiuci did not hide his intentions. From ancient times to the present, the family has been passed down through the family! The situation in his family is special, and the youngest son cannot have children due to special reasons, so the important task of continuing the family line fell on his eldest son Wang Cheng. Because of the poor family, the eldest son got married only when he was nearly 40 years old. But now Liu Xiuci knows that his son is not young anymore, so it’s good to find a good woman. It doesn’t matter whether he has offspring or not. But his daughter-in-law Cheng Wenli is not a stable person. She is idle all day long and doesn’t say anything but stays at night.
In fact, Wang Cheng did not want to divorce in his heart. Although there is an impulse to get married, he likes . He doesn't care about his wife's food and laziness and some bad habits. But sometimes his wife never returns home at night, which has become a thorn in his heart. Cheng Wenli said that she has long passed the age of indulging in love and just sings with her friends simply.
Finally, after mediation, the wife signed a guarantee letter to ensure that she would respect her mother-in-law, not spend her husband's money indiscriminately, and would not stay home at night. My mother-in-law Liu Xiuci was helpless and made concessions, and no longer wanted to hold her grandson . As long as the son promises to support himself and help his younger brother who is paralyzed in bed.
Editor's opinion
The tolerance of society is very strong now. As long as the two people truly love each other and are willing to live a down-to-earth life, age, whether they can have children is definitely not an obstacle. It is more important for a son and daughter-in-law to live a happy life than anything else.