Some girls are really "recruiting scumbags".
Each of their targets is basically a scumbag.
Although this girl is kind, has a good temper and has a good personality, her emotional experience is very bad from beginning to end.
In fact, it is easy to attract scumbag girls, which is related to their emotional experience and personality.
Why do girls be deceived by boys every time they fall in love?
Why do you treat your feelings with your heart but are not cherished in the end?
1. Girls with inferiority lack courage and lack of courage in everything.
At work, she dare not show herself;
In life, she is a "marginal person" who is often ignored;
In intimate relationships, she always bears the preaching of her elders and lives completely according to the wishes of her elders.
In love, she lacks the courage to refuse. Even if she feels wronged, she dares not express her thoughts and emotions to her partner easily.
During the process of growing up, this type of girl is often given the label " good-looking girl".
"You have to be obedient and sensible, otherwise you will not be a good girl."
This is the thinking she instilled by her family since she was a child.
The educational method of the original family made her a person who "dare not to resist or refuse".
has no opinion, no personality, no own ideas, and will only follow the trend.
In love, he will do whatever his partner says according to his partner's requirements. Girls like
are most likely to be deceived by boys.
2. Only rely on films, TV series and books to understand love
In other words:
Girls with little love experience are also easily deceived in their relationships.
Because she doesn't have enough experience, she can't learn how to get along with boys, and she doesn't know how to manage a relationship.
is in a hurry and doesn't know how to respond to the other party or how to please yourself.
The way she knows the most about love is either through movies and TV series or in some books.
Girls can appropriately cultivate their emotional sensitivity.
For example:
When you get along with the opposite sex, discover each person's characteristics more; the other person's strengths, shortcomings, personality and emotions, etc.
Let yourself jump out of the current circle, stand in the perspective of God, and get along with the outside world as an "observer".
At this time, the more you see, the more you will feel.
Girls can have no emotional experience, but they cannot lose their rational minds.
3. Girls who overbeautify love and pursue perfection
There is such a type of girls:
Her bones are full of romanticism colors.
She envys the people who are paired in film and television dramas, and envys the loving and perfect couples in the novel.
She thought that love should be two people in love, you are good to me, and I am good to you too.
She believes that marriage should be based on love. As long as two people fall in love, there will be no problems in marriage. The "romantic feelings" like
are correct, but the mistake is that she lacks experience and the most basic common sense.
You should never "over-beautify" love.
If a girl always beautifies love and regards love too sacred, then she will easily fall into the illusion set by a scumbag.
You should know that scumbags are good at disguising and fickle.
If you are quiet, the scumbag will choose to be lively;
If you are lively and innocent, the scumbag will choose to be calm and steady;
You are a good girl, the scumbag will take you to try all kinds of fresh things.
In short, girls who only pursue love often end up being very miserable.
For example: Zhang Ailing , Sanmao , etc.
4. Girls like this are the easiest to be abandoned by boys if they fall in love.
over-dependence basically meets the characteristics of love brain girls.
When they are not in love, they can manage their lives well.
live step by step, work, often go out to eat, drink and stroll with friends, and live the most common life pattern for girls.
But once she falls in love with someone and falls into love, she will instantly transform into a "love brain".
can give up your career, life, or even give up your circle of friends for love.
She spends most of her time with her.
clingy, dependent, loses the ability to be independent, and becomes a giant baby in love. Girls like
are most likely to be abandoned by boys. Why?
Because she excessively invaded the boy's life, disrupting the boy's life rhythm.
You should know that any relationship should have a sense of boundaries and a sense of proportion.
No matter how much you love someone, you cannot lose your life;
No matter how much you love someone, you cannot rely too much on it.
Girls who are easily deceived by scumbags often get along with each other in love:
has no principles and no bottom line. Even if they are hurt, they will forgive boys;
Even if they are deceived by boys many times, they will not break up actively;
is a stubborn, and he is loyal and does not hit the wall and does not look back.
Today’s topic:
What kind of girls do you think are easy to be deceived?
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