02. Don’t let others tell you that you can’t become a talent. If you have a dream, you have to defend it. Those who accomplish nothing will tell you that you can’t become a talent.
This sentence is what my father said to his son in the movie " When Happiness Comes Knocks on the Door ". I have watched this movie many times, and I am very touched every time I watch it, and this sentence is also my motto.
I have not been a talented player since I was a child. When I was in kindergarten, other children learned Pinyin twice, but I have to learn it ten times. I do all of them very slowly, including memorizing words, writing essays, and doing math problems. Every time I am the one who handed in my homework. There are many cases of
. The teacher even felt that there was something wrong with my intelligence and suggested that my mother take me to see a doctor.
At that time, I was wondering why there are always people who judge a child’s life based on so-called experience, and why do they say that I can’t do it? Is it just because you do math problems slower than others and memorize words faster than others?
Later I saw this movie and heard this sentence, and I agreed very much.
There are 6 billion people in this world, and we should all have 6 billion ways to live.
Never let others tell you that you can’t succeed, you can’t do it, even if this person is your teacher and your family.
If you really have something you like and want to realize your ideal, then you go, even if you don’t succeed in the end, at least you have worked hard.
What is really scary in this world is not that you have no dreams, but that you have a dream but give up because of other people's comments.
To put it bluntly, life is a journey. Our ultimate direction is not to leave this trip here in this journey, but to experience the process of the journey. In the end, no matter what the result is, it is a kind of success.
03. The road is your own, and there is no need to frame your life with other people's standards.
The decision of your life is in your hands.
Don’t envy others’ success too much, because no one can define true success. Is it a million yuan to be successful? Will you not succeed if you have no money or background but have a happy life?
Everyone has their own growth path. Even if you copy the path of those so-called successful people, you may not get the same results.
Don’t use other people’s achievements to frame your own life. We don’t need others to tell us how to walk the road, and we don’t need to rely on other people’s experience to guide our own life.
Only you know the best life you want and what you want.
So, go your own way.
There is a saying in the movie "Storm and Rain":
No one can bargain with life, so as long as you are alive, you must work hard.
From now on, live hard, do useful things, sleep well, eat well, and spend time on making yourself better.
You have to believe that you can live your own life in the end.
