Many women are unwilling to take care of their parents-in-law when they get older, especially when these elderly people are too old to move. Their reason is that parents-in-law have children and children, and the responsibility of caring for the elderly should be their children, not their responsibility as daughters-in-law. But there is such a 42-year-old woman who not only takes care of the elderly’s daily life while her father-in-law was in bed, but also put down her embarrassing mentality as a daughter-in-law, scrubs the elderly’s body, and changes diapers for the elderly.
This 42-year-old woman is Ms. Wu, a 42-year-old rural woman.
Ms. Wu is the mother of two children. Her husband has an older sister and a father-in-law who is almost eighty years old at home.
Ms. Wu's husband is a construction worker who works outside for many years, and only her, her two children and her elderly father-in-law are left at home.
Ms. Wu's father-in-law is a simple rural old man. Although he is almost eighty years old, he still refuses to rest and works in the fields. In the autumn of one year, Ms. Wu's father-in-law went to her own field to move the grain. On the way back, Ms. Wu's father-in-law fell down the ridge of the field because she was old and her legs were not flexible. Not only did she fall the grain on her shoulder all over the floor, Ms. Wu's father-in-law also fell to a serious fracture and she was bedridden from then on.
Learning that my father had fallen and was paralyzed, Ms. Wu's husband quickly came back from another place. Since Ms. Wu's father-in-law was seriously injured, Ms. Wu's husband naturally could not go out to work anymore and could only find some small work nearby.
However, even if Ms. Wu’s husband is doing odd jobs outside, his father still needs someone to take care of. Because a paralyzed elderly person lives inconveniently.
In order to make life convenient for the elderly, Ms. Wu bought an electric wheelchair for her father-in-law. In this way, her father-in-law can at least move at home in a wheelchair.
That's it, Ms. Wu's father-in-law lived in a wheelchair for another year. A year later, bad luck came to the old man again. Once, the old man cooked by himself when his son and Ms. Wu were not at home. Because he was old and in a wheelchair, he rolled out of the wheelchair when cooking with a rice cooker, and his head hit his head. From then on, he became a little "demented" and could only stay in bed.
Seeing her father's appearance, Ms. Wu's husband wanted to ask her sister to take care of her father, but Ms. Wu's sister also has a family. After taking care of her for a while, she threw the old man to her younger brother and sister-in-law.
Facing her father-in-law who was paralyzed in bed and her aunt had no time to take care of her, Ms. Wu could not do so, so she had to let go of her embarrassment as her daughter-in-law, wipe her shit and urine for her, and turn over to change her clothes.
Ms. Wu said that she was under a lot of pressure when she wiped her father-in-law's shit and pee for the first time. That day, her husband went out to work and she heard her father-in-law calling his son's name in bed. She walked into the house and smelled a pungent smell. When his father-in-law saw her come in, he asked his son where he went. Ms. Wu told the old man that she had gone out to work and asked the old man what was wrong with finding his son?
The old man stopped talking when he saw his son not around; but Ms. Wu smelled the smell from the room and the experience of taking care of her father-in-law for such a long time, she knew that her father-in-law must have wet the bed.
In the past, when an elderly person wet the bed, Ms. Wu’s husband changed her clothes. However, this time Ms. Wu’s husband was not at home, and Ms. Wu’s father-in-law had diarrhea again. Although she was wearing diapers, she still stained the bedding.
Looking at the father-in-law who was flushed with his face, Ms. Wu asked if she had wet the bed, but his father-in-law just didn't answer.
Smelling the unpleasant smell in the room and her husband is not at home. Ms. Huang couldn't, so she had to muster up the courage to change diapers for the old man and scrub her body.
Ms. Wu said that she really felt very embarrassed at that time, but when she thought that if her husband came home and changed the toilet, he would definitely feel very uncomfortable, so she must have enough courage to change the toilet for the toilet.
Because of Ms. Wu's virtuousness and filial piety, Ms. Wu's father-in-law not only received good care, but also won a good reputation for Ms. Wu. People who know Ms. Wu say that Ms. Wu is a rare filial daughter-in-law in the world, and Ms. Wu's husband found a good wife.
Although the daughter-in-law is embarrassed to take care of the bed-daddy, for some elderly people who don’t have daughters, someone must take care of them when they are too old to move. Therefore, a daughter-in-law like Ms. Wu is indeed a good daughter-in-law.
