Life is heavy due to precipitation.
A writer once said: "Everyone was just a hollow person at first. The so-called self was just a vague shadow. It relied on the life experience of others in books, paintings, music, and movies to call out the direction, and filled it with their own experiences, gradually becoming a solid person."
Growing from a hollow person to a solid person is a process of sedimentation.
The best way to precipitate yourself is to explore inward and accumulate over the years in your closed-loop logic.
Add value to yourself in being alone
Alone is also a kind of ability. Having this ability does not mean that you cannot feel lonely, but that you are also productive when you are lonely.
skills to be alone, including regular routines, reading and learning, handling intimate relationships, etc.
If a person has a rich inner life, he will still feel fulfilled when he is alone and feel lonely is a kind of enjoyment.
In fact, being alone does not mean self-enclosure, but a person’s best value-added period.
When you are alone, look at your heart with an outsider's eyes, slowly settle down, and have a state of mind that is transcendent and natural.
When we are alone, we will slow down, see the path we are going through observation and thinking, and calm down to improve ourselves.
In the busy trivial matters of life, you might as well leave some time to be alone, keep the noise of the outside world outside, and treat loneliness as your friend.
When we learn diligently in silence, cultivate sentiment in our spare time, and cultivate ourselves in loneliness, we can reap growth.
Adjust yourself in a positive attitude
We often hear people complain about social injustice and the difficulty of dealing with the world.
complaints are magnifying glasses, which will amplify our negative emotions.
is better to change yourself than to blame others.
The best answer to the topic that life gives each of us is to work hard to solve the problem. Escape or complaining are not the best way to deal with it. Going to the point of seeing difficulties is often the best way to solve problems.
When you use up your best efforts, even if the result is not the one you are most satisfied with, your efforts are great.
Life itself is full of challenges. Life is a process of rising. We may not be smooth every time on the way forward. The important thing is to stand up again. A mentality determines action. The most powerful motivation to support a person is a good mentality.
Use a positive attitude to meet every challenge in life. No matter what kind of setbacks or difficulties, there will always be a moment when rains and sunshine.
Precipitate yourself in the years
A psychologist said that a person’s life has two rhythms: one is the rhythm of life, planning, following step by step, and orderly; the other is the rhythm of the soul, not chaotic, not admiring vanity, not following the flow, and living a calm helmsman in his heart, and no matter how big the wind and waves are, he can’t do anything to him.
Water will not be clear and not clear, and it will be difficult to go smoothly if the heart does not settle.
Fastly accepting the ups and downs of fate is a kind of inner maturity and a precipitation of mentality.
Many times, reality does not give people room for choice. Instead of worrying about gains and losses and being impatient, it is better to organize your heart in time, treat everything as a gift of destiny, and find the fun in it.
Some people say that precipitation is not necessarily proportional to age and experience, but it must be formed slowly through experience.
On the road of life, what is missing is never the goal, but the accumulation of little by little.
Life is heavy because of precipitation, and life is more brilliant because of polishing.
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