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Some men are very anxious when pursuing girls. A girl who has just met for a while wants to touch the girl's limbs to upgrade their love and emotional relationships.
It is possible that some men have no malicious intentions, just want to narrow the distance with the girl, but if you do it too deliberately, it will easily make the girl reject you and get bored with you.
When pursuing a girl, if you want to have physical contact with a girl, men should not be too deliberate, but should learn to break the defense unconsciously and narrow the distance with the girl without realizing it.
02Lanlan's emotional story
Lanlan recently met a boy named Ruo Rou. Ruo Rou is a full-time photographer who is very good at taking photos. Lanlan also likes to take beautiful photos frequently, store them in her mobile phone, or print them out, and store them in her own photo album.
Lanlan still has some good feelings for Rouru. One day, the two made an appointment to go to the suburbs to take pictures of outdoor scenes, but Lanlan was very happy when she went there in the morning because, that day, Lanlan was wearing a beige sports top and white sweatpants, which was very cute and charming. It can be seen that she was carefully preparing for this date. When she came back tonight, Lanlan looked bitter.
Later, after everyone's questioning, Lanlan told the truth:
When men pursue girls, they are prone to being impatient and want to escalate and determine their relationship as soon as possible by having physical contact with girls. However, the more you are deliberate, the more likely you are to offend the girl and make the girl disgusted.
03 Physical contact with a girl is the first threshold to upgrade emotional relationship
It is undeniable that physical contact with a girl is the first threshold to upgrade emotional relationship. If this threshold is passed, it means that the man has a chance.
If a man has been busy for a long time and doesn’t even touch the girl’s hands, then wouldn’t it be a waste of time to get a bamboo basket? If you talk about how the girl loves you, it will be pale and powerless.
Men are actually more impatient in pursuing girls and want to determine a relationship with girls as soon as possible. Therefore, they will deliberately create opportunities to have some physical contact with girls, such as touching the girl's hands, arms, etc., to further narrow the distance with girls.
Don’t underestimate this simple physical contact. If, when you are pursuing a girl, you accidentally touch the girl’s hand, but the girl is not disgusted, but instead acts shy and secretly happy, then the girl often has a good impression of you, you can continue to pursue the girl and expand the results, and you will be more likely to catch the girl.
04. If the physical contact with a girl is too deliberate, it will easily make the girl disgusted
. However, some boys are very impatient and have physical contact with a girl very deliberate, which will make the girl disgusted. So, why do girls feel disgusted?
Every girl is alert when she comes into contact with a man and is not familiar with him. She is wearing tinted glasses to see you.
When you two are not very familiar with each other, the girl is also very cautious in your attitude towards you, for fear that she will fall in love with a scumbag and will cause her to be emotionally hurt.
When a man touches a girl, he will easily stimulate the girl's psychological defense. The girl will immediately determine that if you have bad intentions, she will immediately reduce points, and even block you directly.
If a man touches a girl's limbs too hasty or too deliberate, he will definitely be disgusted and bored by the girl. Men must keep it in mind.
05 When contacting a girl with a physical contact, men must learn to break the defense unconsciously and must master 3 skills
Therefore, when contacting a girl, you should not be too deliberate, but learn to break the defense unconsciously. Here, you need to master 3 skills:
1, find a small space.
If you want to unconsciously contact the girl's limbs, men need to first find a small space.
For example, when you go shopping in the mall and take the elevator, there are often many people in the elevator. This is a very narrow space, and it is very normal for men and women to have physical contact.
Moreover, when pursuing a girl, in order to prevent others from touching the girl, men will also protect the girl from being squeezed by others in a small space. This is a physical contact that girls can accept.
Therefore, physical contact in a small space is easier for girls to accept.
2, use suspension bridge effect well.
The so-called suspension bridge effect is that a person is on the suspension bridge because he is afraid of it and often tries to seize others or the ropes on the suspension bridge.
Use the suspension bridge effect well to have unconscious contact with the girl. For example, if you take the girl to play escape room or some thrilling projects, in this environment, the girl will take the initiative to grab your hand because she is afraid. Then, you will be able to successfully complete an unconscious contact and slowly break the girl’s psychological defense against you.
3. Find the right opportunity.
If you want to unconsciously have physical contact with a girl, the timing is also very important.
For example, if two people are crossing the road, if a man urges the girl to cross the road as soon as possible, the girl will often take the initiative to grab the man's hand or arm and walk with you. This is the best time for men to physically contact girls.
However, if a man ignores the girl, and passes by himself with his head down, and throws the girl behind you, the girl will also become disgusted with you, and may even say that you are a straight scumbag.
06 Conclusion
Physical contact with a girl is the first threshold to upgrade emotional relationships, because it is very important for men. However, although some men understand this principle, they often act too hasty in their specific practice, which makes girls very disgusted. Therefore, when having physical contact with girls, you should not be too deliberate. To learn to break the defense unconsciously, you need to master three skills:
First, find a small space; second, make good use of the suspension bridge effect; third, find the right opportunity.
