text丨Love words: 30:00
I am here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
People often say that longing is silent. But for lovers, their longing can be passed on to each other through some things.
Generally speaking, men always take the initiative in their relationship, but due to the men's "face", their way of expressing love is unacceptable to women.
It is precisely because of this that many women feel that the man in front of them doesn’t love him at all. Little do people know that men and women express their longing differently.
When a woman thinks of a man, she will take the initiative to ask the man to treat her to a meal, trying to increase communication between the two. But men miss women, but they won’t do this, and they often deliberately “find faults”. In this way, women are attracted to him.
So, Men do these things deliberately, not to find fault, but to miss you:
deliberately chat with you on WeChat
When I miss someone, simple and beautiful memories cannot relieve the lovesickness in my heart. At this time, a man who truly loves you will be unable to control his contact with you.
But because you have nothing to do, you will find that when he chats with you, he always says something ambiguous, making you unable to figure out his way.
In fact, there is no love for no reason, nor hatred for no reason. A man takes the initiative to say something to you that you don’t understand, mainly because he misses you.
Through these inexplicable words, you can have more questions and thus say more to him, so that you can not only say more, but also deepen your understanding of each other.
So, women should know that a man is looking for trouble for nothing and always wants to pester you on WeChat and send you messages from morning to night. Then you don’t have to doubt his purpose, he just misses you.
Deliberately "provoke" you in front of you
For the matter of missing you, when a woman thinks of a man, she tends to suffer silently in her heart and try to get the other party's response.
, while men are much bolder. They hope to use their behavior to arouse each other's emotions and make each other closer.
Therefore, when a man misses you, he will most likely appear in front of you deliberately.
Don’t think that only women will create encounters, and men will do it. If he loves you to a certain level, then he will be more eager to see you in his heart.
At this time, he will deliberately create some opportunities for you to meet and then approach you. Not only that, he will also give you hints frequently in words.
Because, while a man likes someone, he also longs for the other party to get a response.
So, he will use language to "provoke" you, trying to make you notice him and have more contact with him.
Therefore, when faced with the inexplicable situation of a man, women should not be foolish to think that he is deliberate, and his deliberateness is "routine" you.
deliberately creates trouble for you and attracts your attention.
No matter how mature and steady a man looks, when he faces his beloved woman, he will inevitably reveal a hint of childishness.
For example, when a woman faces her beloved, she usually uses tender love words to express her deep lovesickness in her heart, and she wishes she could add a few more tears to set off the atmosphere.
But men are unwilling to face this tragic atmosphere. They prefer to see the emotional ups and downs of their sweetheart in a relaxed way.
So, when men miss their lover, they usually deliberately cause some small trouble for the other party, and then use it to gain the other party's attention.
For example, when you are doing things, he will suddenly appear behind you, hug you tightly, or ask for a kiss from you.
Or deliberately destroy your carefully cleaned house, which will add some small trouble to you. Seeing you blame him, his mood will get better.
In fact, men's seemingly annoying behavior is asking for your attention. Because they miss you in their hearts, they always want you to focus on him. No matter what joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness, as long as it is given by you, he is willing to accept it and be very happy.
Conclusion:
Perhaps a man’s love and hate is not so vigorous, but when he really misses someone, he can let go of any face and awkwardness.
Stop saying that longing is silent. If a man really takes you to heart, then when he thinks of you, he will deliberately make some sounds just to hear your response.
So, when he deliberately does these three things in front of you, don’t think he hates or deliberately seeks faults.
After all, a man who doesn’t like you and doesn’t even want to give you basic eyes. Only when he takes you to heart will he deliberately do these behaviors just to express his longing for you that he cannot hide.
