It is difficult to be a son-in-law when he comes to the door, and it is also difficult for a woman who marrys far away!
Men are married as soon as women are married as women are married, but there are really not many people who can live happily after marriage. Every family has difficult sutras. If they do not get the understanding and care of their family, life is really difficult. In addition to the economic pressure, the emotional pressure in life is also not small!
is like the well-known relationship between the son-in-law and the mother-in-law, and the common mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships, which are all key to affecting the family atmosphere. However, son-in-law is a minority group after all, let’s talk about the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. For women who marry far away, it is very important to establish a good relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law!
This issue will share with you a real story in life. A Guizhou woman married in Henan. Because she had no job, she was disliked by her mother-in-law. She just gave birth to a daughter. She often disliked her daughter-in-law. "I don't work at home and can't give birth to a boy, so I'd just divorce my son."
In this video, the mother-in-law put her hands on her hips and scolded her daughter-in-law. The daughter-in-law dared not speak, and she was secretly crying while holding her one-year-old daughter. She stayed at home to take care of the children, and her husband worked outside. The mother-in-law felt that the daughter-in-law did nothing and only knew how to take care of the children, so she did not accept the daughter-in-law, and felt that the daughter-in-law was lazy and ate
The daughter-in-law explained at the beginning, "I'm helpless in taking care of the children, and I want to go out to work." But the mother-in-law said, "You are just too lazy. If you give birth to a girl, you can be considered capable." The mother-in-law's concept is that the daughter-in-law not only has to participate in labor at home, but also has a son. She has a status with a daughter. It seems that the mother-in-law's concept is still very outdated, and it means to prefer boys over girls.
Doesn't dare to talk back, the mother-in-law is very strong and has no husband to support her at home. She can only apologize for herself. Even if it is difficult, she cannot go back to her parents' home. After all, she married far away to Henan. Even if she returns to her parents' home, it may not be better. After all, her home may not accept herself. A woman who married far away is the most sad
Many netizens say that women cannot marry far away, so they don’t even want to find a close friend. However, most women who marry far away want to stay away from their original family and thought they would be happier, but things went against their wishes and still have no family status. Especially when they meet ignorant mother-in-law, they will be despised because they can’t give birth to a son
Some people also say that women should not be old You should work with your husband at home. Although the consumption is too big, it saves a lot of worry. Occasionally, you can do some manual supplements for the household. It is much better than in front of the elderly. Sometimes, the elderly not only do not help take care of the children, but also help make trouble
Author's point of view:
l1 Forgive others, forgive others. Mother-in-law should love his daughter-in-law who is married far away. Whether he has a grandson or a granddaughter, he is all his descendants. He should not treat him differently. He should be kind to his daughter-in-law. Only when his mother-in-law is good to his daughter-in-law, will his daughter-in-law be filial to his mother-in-law. Don’t think that you are in good health now and you don’t need to take care of him. There will always be a day when you can’t move. You won’t get the care of your daughter-in-law at that time.
Treat it well. Everyone should do things around you. For those daughters-in-law who marry far away, mother-in-law should treat them like daughters. Only when the mother-in-law does it well can they be a harmonious family
Family and everything goes well. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is mutual. Since they live in the same family, they should help each other and stay in the front line to meet each other in the future. What’s more, no one should dislike others!
