There is a girl in the company who left a deep impression on me: she has a beautiful face and a good figure. She has a ponytail and jumps around all day long, and her whole body is full of youthful vitality. Another thing is that she is a civilian job and is particularly eye-catching when she starts working in a business trip! From the first glance, I felt that she had a mysterious confidence in her body. It might be because of her outstanding external conditions or because of her wealthy family conditions (the family runs a business and lives in a villa, which I only found out later). Her confidence and outstanding appearance complement each other, making her beauty show from the inside out, and anyone can look straight at her, never bow her head, never stage fright. She is the first candidate for all the major events in the company, which is really enviable.
. In contrast, what kind of people are most obviously unconfident? Housewife, especially a successful housewife in her husband’s career! I am worried that my husband will cheat on me all day long, so I monitor my husband strictly and control it too tightly, and the result is often contrary to my wishes. Why? Housewives have been separated from the main group of society in their lives and are always around their husbands and children. Their circles are often the same group of people as housewives. Play cards, go shopping, and help with family matters. I am also idle. Seeing other women around my husband, I was originally more restrained and tolerant in front of outsiders. Seeing that his husband was more jealous of other women than him, he turned aside and turned his back on the table. It's both noisy and quarrel, and even spends a lot of money on plastic surgery, fantasizing about using appearance to exchange for attention. In fact, this is a typical manifestation of lack of self-confidence. Little do they know that beauty has a deadline, and the beauty of these appearances is far less attractive than the beauty brought by confidence. On the other hand, although women in the workplace are a little tired, they live a fulfilling life. I have been recognized by colleagues and superiors at work, and I feel full of accomplishment. Over time, I will gradually gain confidence. So, if you love her, let her go out to work, regardless of salary, just be comfortable or not, and regain confidence in work, which is conducive to the stability and harmony of the family.
Confidence is even more important for children’s growth! Study and physical and mental education, praise and encourage more, scold less, and cultivate confidence in caring for him. Also, children must be kept by their parents and not foster care. Because children around their parents can feel their parents' love for him, in the eyes of their parents, they are always the best one, which has a great guiding role in the physical and mental health and character formation of children. Otherwise, they are manifested as lack of security and inferiority. No matter how much your child achieves in the future, can he become a person with psychological sunshine and confident? No matter how poor his material aspects are, will he be full of happiness?
