Ancient saying goes: "Don't talk too much, say too much, lose too much; do not have too much desire, suffer too much; do not have too much trouble, have too much trouble."
When doing things, you must be responsible, be cautious, and always have a sense of awe, which is the way to deal with the world.
If you are too demanding and lose your sense of responsibility, you will eventually fall into a desperate situation and have no way out.
6 People need to know how to be taboos and grasp the right position in everything in order to avoid good or bad luck and everything goes well.
01, More words and more defeats
" Guiguzi " says: "If you talk too much, you will have shortcomings."
When dealing with people, if you say too much, you will definitely make mistakes and cause trouble for yourself.
Speaking is a science, which is full of words and without restraint. It will only hurt others and yourself and make others feel disgusted.
" Zizhi Tongjian " records this thing:
Crown Prince of the Liu Song Dynasty Liu Yifu playful and often hang out with treacherous villains, and all the ministers were disappointed by him.
Yongchu3, Emperor Wu of Song Liu Yu was seriously ill, Prime Minister Xie Hui was deeply worried about the prince who had lost his virtue, so he asked Liu Yu:
"Your Majesty is now high this year. For the great cause of the Southern Song dynasty, you must carefully choose the lord of the world.
Governing the country is not easy, and people without talent must never be allowed to inherit the throne. Crown Prince Liu Yi Fu Shi is not a good choice. "
Liu Yu learned that Xie Hui's concerns were reasonable, so he asked, "Then what do you think of Luling King ? Is it just this important task?"
Xie Hui replied after hearing this, "I don't know much about lord Luling King, and I really dare not speak nonsense, so I will observe and observe."
As soon as Xie Hui left the palace, he immediately visited Luling King Liu Yizhen and secretly considered it.
Liu Yizhen is very enthusiastic about Xie Hui. In order to show her, she wanted to have a long talk with Xie Hui and talk nonstop.
From recent news to astronomy and geography, he also talked about the matter of the crown prince in a bluntly, Xie Hui stammered and refused to respond. After returning to the palace, Xie Hui said to Liu Yu: "King Luling is talented, but his virtue is inferior to talent. He will lose more than his words. He is not suitable to be the master of the world!"
The biggest pattern of being a human being is not that he has high emotional intelligence or how to speak, but that he can learn to shut up properly.
Diseases come from the mouth, and disasters come from the mouth. The more a person says, the more mistakes he will be, and the more disasters he will cause.
In life, you must avoid exercising your mouth, control your mouth, do not speak too much, be careful in words and actions, so that you can move steadily and far.
02, Many desires and many sufferings
" Maximums Joint " says: "Those who have more desires are tired, those who have few desires are at peace, and those who have no desires are strong."
People with too many desires are destined to be burdened throughout their lives, and only those who are pure and have few desires can rest assured.
Desire is the foundation of human nature, but you must be measured. Moderate desire can make people progress, while excessive desire will only make people suffer.
In ancient times, there was an unsatisfied person who, despite his wealth, still worked hard all day long for money.
One day, he heard that there was a treasure on the mountain not far away, so he summoned his men to rush to the mountain.
After arriving on the mountain, after searching, I found a cave full of gold, silver and treasures.
He was very happy when he looked at the mountain in front of him, so he tried his best to take all the treasures away.
At this time, he heard a voice coming from the cave: "People, don't be too greedy, don't be burdened by desire.
As soon as it gets dark, the cave door will be closed. At that time, you will not only not get a piece of treasure, but you may also die here. "
people around him also advised him, but he could not listen. He only transported his treasures wholeheartedly and had to move them all away.
I don't know how long it took, but a loud noise was heard. The gate of the cave was closed, and magma came out from underneath, which led to the entire cave.
Finally, this greedy man not only did not get gold and silver treasures, but also ruined his life.
Life, the reason why it is painful is ultimately due to greed and excessive greed, thus moving to a more dangerous situation.
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When a person's desire is not satisfied, his heart will be tortured by desires, and his life will be full of pain.
In this life, if you want to live happily and freely, you must learn to control your desires, not have delusions, and be content with happiness.
03, many things and many things
" Caigen Tan " says: "There is no blessing to be less, and the harm to be more heartful. "
The greatest happiness of a person is worry-free trivial matters to worry about, and there is nothing more terrible than heavy thoughts.
In life, don't worry too much, worry too much, and get entangled in trivial matters, which will only cause trouble for yourself and others.
Writer Li Shanglong once shared his experience of a business trip:
Once, he had to go on a business trip in another place because of work matters, so he came early Waiting for the airport.
Unfortunately, due to some emergencies, the notice of the flight he was on was cancelled, which aroused the dissatisfaction of everyone.
Amid the complaints of everyone, his emotions gradually became impatient, and he argued with the staff with everyone.
For a moment, the entire airport was filled with verbal abuse, and the scene was once in chaos.
Suddenly, he heard someone beside him say, "Can you really solve the problem if you continue to argue like this? "
He was awakened by this sentence, and suddenly realized his behavior just now, and couldn't help but fall into reflection.
After waking up like a dream, he quickly left the team, turned to the counter and changed the nearest flight.
When he was about to board the plane, he saw the group of people who had just argued and rushed to the counter to change the ticket.
But at this time, there were no other flights for them to change the ticket that day.
Most people who are jokingly living are tangled, and they are very careful in everything. While consuming themselves, they also bring trouble to others.
truly smart people know that don’t take everything to heart, don’t waste time and energy on things that are not worth it.
When doing things, don’t be too scrupulous and forceful, and focus on your own life so that you can stay away from worries and have a smooth life.
As Confucius said: “If you attack heresy, you will be harmed. "
Do not do anything too much. You must learn the doctrine of the mean of . If you have room for everything, you will leave yourself a way out.
When dealing with people, avoid talking too much. If you talk too much, you will lose; avoid having too much desire, and if you want too much, you will be dangerous; avoiding too much trouble, and if you have too many things, you will be dangerous.
