When I got married, I was poor and a kind person because of him. But it changes after marriage. The biggest difference between a man and a woman is that even if he doesn't like you, he can marry and have children.
I regret it very much now. I shouldn’t be angry, I shouldn’t get married easily, and I have children without financial foundation, which has led to a mess of my life now.
A failed marriage brought great trauma.
When a child is young, you can’t go out to work. You have children to take care of. When the child can go to school, you have to find a job that can rest on Saturdays and Sundays. If you are older, you have to provide homework, take into account your child’s growth, and so on.
Even if you divorce, you may not be able to get a child support. If the other party has nothing in his name, you won’t get a penny. Even the court people say the same thing. There is no way for such scoundrels, and even the law cannot do anything to them.
The advice given to me was to give the child to him and not raise him, but the child is also my child. I can’t watch the child follow him and destroy it. The judge said, then you just raise it like this, and you have worked hard to raise it, and I couldn't cry. The judge looked at my expression as if he was saying, "You deserve it. Whoever asked you to get married so easily and give birth to a child indiscriminately. It's your own fault to the point that you have fallen to now."
Why can't the law punish such irresponsible men? The answer is no. Legal provisions will not be tilted like personal. Morality is a man who should support his children, and there are also men who should pay for child support in law. However, it is not said that a man must pay for money even if he has no money. This gives many opportunities. As long as he has no assets in his name, it is useless for the other party to execute it.
Is there really nothing I can do with these rogue people? Do they still have to eat, smoke, and drink when they don’t make money? Why can't this money be used to pay for child support?
Can a legal provision be issued? If a man like this does not give living expenses for more than one year, he will be sentenced to one year in prison, and the child support will be paid by his parents and siblings. If you continue to not pay child support after being released from prison, all bank cards in your name and parents will be frozen. If the funds are not enough for child support, you will sell your home's land, houses and various property. Parents have unshirkable responsibilities to educate their sons as irresponsible people, so it is only natural for them to take their place.
hopes that the country can introduce more policies to protect women and children and protect the legitimate rights of these people.
also hopes that more unmarried sisters can see that marriage without an economic foundation will really make you unable to turn over for many years. Although getting married is not for enjoying your life, you cannot get married just to help you get helplessly, because no one will understand you because of hardship and fatigue. Even if you get married, men will not really be on the same side as you. While you are not married, open your eyes and test that you are.
If you don’t meet the right person in the end, being single is not a bad thing.
