The reason why a person feels tired is because he has worked hard and endured it, but he has not gotten good results.
As time goes by, you will feel anxious and hopeless. You will feel anxious deep in your heart. Looking at you, you will feel that life is dark and you will not see hope.
Just like you interact with a opposite sex, the other party makes your head glow "green light", you are very sad inside, but you can't bear to leave the other party, you feel unacceptable to the other party's behavior, you ask the other party to correct it, and the other party promises you "will correct it", but he does not take any action to support what he has said.
At this time, you are very disappointed, sad, and feel tired.
Why do you have any trouble? Why bother to make things difficult for a person who is unwilling to correct his mistakes? Why bother to let yourself endure a person who is unwilling to correct his mistakes and repeatedly hurt himself with his mistakes? When the opposite sex is together, the other party always has these manifestations, and if you take two points, you will learn to "break off diplomacy", and your heart will not be tired. Do you know?
1. The other party is selfish and always takes advantage of you.
The reason why two people come together is because the other party is handsome? Is it because the other party has a good reputation?
Maybe these are the plus points for the other party, but the fundamental reason lies in "common will", "common interests", "common dreams", etc.
If the other party is selfish and unwilling to let go of his selfish personal will for the sake of the common will between you, he will always impose his personal thoughts on you.
If the other party is selfish and unwilling to work hard for your common interests, but repeatedly takes advantage of you and harms your personal interests, always evades your own responsibilities and repeatedly exploits you, treating you as a tool for him to realize personal enjoyment.
If the other party is selfish and unwilling to work hard for your common dream, he always asks you to accommodate him and has never thought of working with you to improve your common life.
At this time, you should learn to stop loss, otherwise you will be more and more tired.
2. The other party lacks integrity and cannot do what he promises you.
The most difficult thing between couples is "trust", and the most important thing to do is "trust".
Trust such things is achieved by oneself, not by the other party.
If the other party is an unreliable person, he always keeps his word and never does what he promises you, so you will naturally not trust him.
If the other party is a reliable person, cherish his feathers, keep his word, and do what he promises you to do better than you expect, and will not disappoint you, you will naturally feel that he is trustworthy.
So when two people are dating, if the other party lacks integrity, they will never be able to do what they promise you, and they will repeatedly disappoint you. At this time, there is no need to compromise again.
3. It is always difficult for the other party to disrespect you.
The opposite sex is together, the key is mutual respect. If you give the other party respect, the other party cannot respect you.
The other party likes to impose his or her own ideas on you and his or her lifestyle on you.
At the same time, the other party does not consider your actual situation, has too high expectations for you, asks you to change yourself and accommodate him, and asks you to do all kinds of things to help him, but he is unwilling to give you some rewards. Obviously, he does not care about you and does not value your feelings.
At this time you will feel "struggled", which makes you feel very bad.
Why do you repeatedly let yourself be wronged? When you encounter someone like this who disrespects you and doesn’t take you seriously, you still need to learn to let go when it’s time to let go.
