But if he really has no feelings for you, he will not lose his temper at all, nor will he explain to you more, because a man will not be emotional when facing people he doesn't like, and will not even say a word to you.
So, it is not as irreversible as you think.
Think about four things. No matter how heartless a man is when he breaks up, you can still win him back.
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First: Your ex has not forgotten you
Everyone's memory is cycled. The more you experience together, the deeper it is, the more unforgettable it will be.
is like those couples who have been dating for a few years. Even if you make a fuss when you break up, they will be able to really forget you for a long time.
He will slowly calm down within one month after you break up, and the negative emotions will calm down. So, at this time, he began to remember your good deeds and memories of the days he was with you.
For example, where have you traveled together, what interesting things have you done together, or if he accidentally saw your item and was still there, he would think of you.
The gift you once gave her will also be moved by the scene after seeing it. At this time, he will think of your strengths and feel happy to be with you. If he thinks too much, he will have the urge to reconnect with you.
While you miss memories, he may also recall those past times. Therefore, there is no need to be nervous during the process of regaining it, and there is no need to think that after he breaks up, he will have no feelings for you instantly.
As long as you have been together for a long time, he cannot be so heartless, because he is also a human being, and he will also have seven emotions and six desires . So, there is no need to take what he says to heart, maybe he will think of you after work.
Not only that, he may also deliberately leave some clues.
For example, you will like it on your circle of friends and leave your access record. Or even after breaking up, he will not delete you, or he will talk to your mutual friends about your recent situation.
Or, post some sad circle of friends in the middle of the night, deliberately making you think more, take the initiative to chat with him, etc.
All of these manifestations show that he has not forgotten you.
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Second: Your positive attitude can successfully save him
Many people will quickly fall into a negative state after breaking up. Not having a good meal or sleep every day has seriously affected your personal life.
However, those who can successfully reunite usually have a lot of energy in regaining their relationship.
They never think too much about it, what if they fail. Instead, try your best to give and pursue the other person in the moment, and try not to leave any regrets on your own.
Since you have chosen to save it, you must be mentally prepared to leave your comfort zone and learn to spend your energy to do something for the other party. Instead of adding the other person and saying something to him occasionally, it would be impossible for him to agree to continue being with you.
You can do this when you win back the other person:
Only consider your own affairs, make yourself better, find ways to be outstanding in the other person, and make his eyes shine.
Say more positive words to yourself every day, and be more motivated to do anything.
should be prepared to be rejected. At the beginning, the other party will most likely refuse. Maybe his attitude is also very cold, but this is normal. Don’t retreat, but continue to persevere. His attitude will soften sooner or later.
Don’t talk to your friends about your plans. Your friends will basically hit you when they see you break up and oppose you to win back your ex. Many people will basically stop taking action after hearing the blow.
Since you are mentally prepared, don’t listen to those negative energy words.
, you should do it first, and then tell your friends if you succeed. After all, the road to recovery has just begun.
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Third: Recovery does not mean begging
Many girls believe that retrieving the other party is to let themselves lower their posture and beg him to change their minds. In this way, the other party will most likely leave and will tell you in a disgusting tone to tell you not to pester him anymore.
This is the wrong way to recover, the correct way to recover should be:
Use your past feelings to awaken him to continue to be with you.
Only when he realizes that he still has feelings for you, and has not forgotten you, and even wants to continue with you, will he develop the desire to be with you.
Just like in the TV series " Divorce Lawyer ", Miao Jinxiu deliberately held a divorce ceremony in order to win back her husband Dong Dawei, bringing Dong Dawei to recall every bit of her time together.
In this process, Dong Dawei realized that he still had feelings for Miao Jinxiu, and the two finally remarried successfully.
At the beginning, Miao Jinxiu, like other women, begged Dong Dawei not to leave him, but Dong Dawei still left her ruthlessly.
So, Miao Jinxiu began to think about using other ways to win back Dong Dawei, and Dong Dawei automatically returned to Miao Jinxiu.
Instead of begging, it is better to find a way to regain the memories of both of you. When the memories are clear, the feelings will come naturally.
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Fourth: Don't worry too much about your new love
It is undeniable that in the process of regaining you, the other party may start a new relationship, as if you have forgotten everything between you.
But in fact, if a person seamlessly connects after breaking up, there are only two reasons. The first is that the other party has changed his mind long ago. In this case, you have no room for recovery.
The second is to get out of the past as soon as possible, and the chances of recovering this situation are relatively high. He is very likely to break up with his new love for one or two months. At this time, if you take the initiative with him, you will naturally be able to reunite.
Rescue a person is actually the same as pursuing someone. You must have firm beliefs and constantly increase your attractiveness. So in the past you were able to be with him successfully, now you must have the confidence to attract him again. The road to recovery is too long and long. I hope everyone can be prepared to fight a protracted war and recover the person you love.
