As the saying goes, "Grow melons and get melons, and plant beans and get beans." A person's good luck will not come from the sky, it is presented by your careful management. If you can persist in doing the following 6 points, one day, good luck will come to you unknowingly.
01
Reliable in doing things
1 Judge whether a person is reliable depends on whether he has a solution and a response in his daily work. If you just agree verbally and don’t take action, this person is not trustworthy. Because after the promise is to fulfill the promise, it needs to be fulfilled and fulfilled.
Buffett said: "Reliability is a quality more important than cleverness."
In life, we find that people who always like to say "it is all in me" may be unreliable in many cases. If you agree to the other party, you repeatedly break your trust. Not only will you waste other people's time, but you will also lose the trust of everyone and will be unable to move forward.
There is a friend who is steady and down-to-earth in life and work, and is not exaggerated. The boss often gives her some important work, and she can live up to her responsibilities every time, and she can do her best even insignificant details seriously and responsibly.
If you have something to come to her, she will respond as soon as possible. What goes beyond her ability will explain the reason, making people feel at ease and at ease. Over time, she has won a reputation in the workplace and circle of friends and has obtained a lot of favorable resources.
People who are reliable in doing things will win more opportunities for development and networking accumulation than others.
02
Release goodwill
Kindness is the foundation of one's life. Take the initiative to release your kindness and care for the people around you, and you will also receive feedback from others. As the saying goes, "Whoever comes out loves back, and whoever goes out blessings come." When you convey more kindness, you will also gain the warmth of others.
Zhou Bingkun in the TV series " Human World " is loyal and kind, sincere to friends, and helps whenever you can. After he was imprisoned, his friends also extended a helping hand, and those who had money contributed money and those who had strength.
Kindness is a seed, and the water you water and fertilizer you apply will be rewarded in some way on you, sooner or later. No matter what happens to a person, he cannot destroy kindness. "If you do good, you will be distant from man-made disasters, and blessings will come."
Do things with good deeds, and good luck will follow. Being a kind person is the best character.
03
Speak appropriately
Speak appropriately is not a simple speaking skill, but a speech must adapt to the occasion and be consistent in words and deeds. If you have empathy and what you say is comfortable, congratulations, you have taken the first step to a good interpersonal relationship.
A person who speaks well will take the right measure and leave appropriate space for others.
" Dream of the Red Chamber " Lin Daiyu When he first entered the Jia family, he was good at observing his expression and speaking appropriately. Mrs. Wang When introducing his son Jia Baoyu , he said that he was the devil in the world and asked Daiyu to ignore him.
Lin Daiyu's answer reflects wisdom: "I heard from my mother that this cousin is one year older than me. Although he is a bit naughty, I heard that he is the best to his sisters."
Whether Mrs. Wang is telling the truth or humble words, Lin Daiyu considers the problem from the other party's perspective, first give a positive affirmation to give others a step.
Being able to speak is a kind of cultivation. It is a high emotional intelligence to consider the other person's situation and ideas, and to put things into the other person's heart, which makes people feel comfortable.
People who speak well are not only conducive to interpersonal communication, but also conducive to career development. The degree to which you feel comfortable determines the height you reach in your life.
04
Accumulate hard work
Nothing comes out of thin air in the world. Every harvest in life comes from the efforts you accumulate.The meaning of hard work may be different for everyone, but no matter who you accumulate more effort, you will have fewer regrets in life.
In life, we strive to make ourselves stronger because when a storm comes, we have the ability to resist risks; when a relationship, we strive to make ourselves better because when the person we like appears, we can extend our arms confidently and honestly and embrace each other tightly.
Only by relying on your own efforts can you become the person you want to be. Everything you want can only rely on yourself.
My cousin was laid off many years ago. After experiencing a period of confusion, she worked as a salesperson. With her diligence and unyielding enthusiasm, her performance has always been at the top of the list.
was later transferred to the Ministry of Human Resources. She faced various software operations all day long. She almost collapsed with a low education. She could easily accomplish the work, but she would take several times the time. She had been anxious and cried, but she never gave up and sat in front of the computer and practiced until late at night every day. She knew very well that only by working harder than others could she taste the taste of success.
worked hard all the way, and after unremitting persistence and hard work, she has become the core member of the team and her salary has also increased. Her age and low education have not been an obstacle to her progress.
Silently working upstream is the blessing of oneself. The life you want can only depend on yourself.
05
Break action
In life, there is a very interesting phenomenon. When you want to do something, you basically can't do it if you don't do it immediately. The alarm clock rang, and half an hour passed after staying in bed. I wanted to write an article, but hesitated for a while, and the day passed.
So don’t hesitate when you want to do anything, act immediately within 2 minutes, and never wait. If you hesitate a little, you may be wasted a lot of time. What's more important is that you may never want to do this again.
Do everything you like and worth investing your time and energy early, don’t worry about gains and losses, or hesitate, otherwise you will only miss the opportunity. People with strong action often start quickly. One step ahead of others is equivalent to taking the lead and gaining more opportunities for success.
Writer Li Xiaoyi , every day, he has never forgotten his literary dreams after working hard every day. She gets up at 4:45 every day and writes for two hours, which means she has three more hours than ordinary people. She persists for six years without any loss, publishes many best-selling books, and becomes a writer in the field of emotions.
Take action early and prepare early to make your life feel orderly and planned. Since you have chosen a boat, you must be prepared to take the helm and try to row it to the other side.
06
4 Positive attitude
Mo Yan said: "Nothing is happier than living, and nothing is harder than living."
There is no easy thing for people to live. In life, you will always encounter things you don't want to do or even want to do. The hardships you should endure, the detours you should take, and the wall you should hit are indispensable.
The quality of life depends on your mentality. If you are optimistic and open-minded, think about the best in everything, and live in the best state with a positive attitude, it is the best answer to life.
American legendary coach Wu Deng won ten national championships for the UCLA in the 12th Basketball League. He is recognized as one of the most competent basketball coaches in history.
A reporter asked him: "How do you maintain this positive attitude?" Wooden replied happily: "Every day before going to bed, I will tell myself: I performed very well today, and will perform better tomorrow."
"Is it just such a short sentence?" The reporter couldn't believe it.
Wuden answered affirmatively: "A short sentence? I have been persisting in this sentence for twenty years! The key is whether the focus is short or not, the key is whether you continue to do it.If you can't persevere, even a long speech will not help. "
Wuden's enthusiasm is beyond ordinary people. He maintains this optimistic spirit not only about basketball, but also about other life details. For example, once he drove to the city center with his friend. Facing the crowded car wave, his friend was dissatisfied and complained frequently. ButWuden said happily: "This is such a lively city." "A friend asked him, why do your ideas always differ from ordinary people?
Wuden replied: "I look at what I think in my heart. Whether it is sad or happy, my life is always full of opportunities. The emergence of these opportunities will not change because of my sorrow or joy. As long as I keep maintaining a positive attitude, I can grasp the opportunities and stimulate more potential energy. "
The same thing, some people see a turning point, while others see a crisis. A person with a positive mindset rarely complains. He can encourage himself even in the most difficult moments and reignite his hope.
A positive mindset can make a person and also determine what kind of future you have.
With a heart that loves life, live a peaceful life with a relaxed attitude, be strong without panic, quiet and grand, one day, the good luck you want will be time for you.
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