British philosopher Bacon said: "Excessive pursuit of love will inevitably reduce the value of people themselves." Love itself requires sincerity, persistence, and enthusiasm. However, you must consider whether the objective conditions are met. If you blindly express your enthusiasm and yearning without considering the degree of matching with the other party, the stronger your pursuit is, the more likely it is to cause damage to yourself and at the same time hurt the person you are loved. This way of love is irrational, reckless, and impulsive.
Some people become crazy and lose their rationality in order to pursue the person they love. Just like the Witt in "Young Witt's Troubles" when they pursue Lute, they knew that they already had a family, but they could never let go of their love and always wanted to get her. He regarded love too sacred and too important. For the sake of love, he finally chose to commit suicide. Such stupid things for love are undesirable and meaningless. Love and being loved are rights enjoyed by people, but love and being loved must be happy and beautiful under the premise of mutual respect and on the premise of voluntary voluntary.
Love is a beautiful emotion and a manifestation of wisdom. When you meet the person you like, the passion in your heart and the desire in your heart are understandable, but in the process of getting along, you must be sober and be rational. Don’t indulge in your emotions, but learn to control your feelings. Just like the philosopher Jin Yuelin loves talented girl Lin Huiyin , although it is a deep love and a passionate love, it has never surpassed the moral boundaries. He has not hurt the other person's feelings, he has not destroyed the other person's family, but just loves silently. This kind of noble love is a kind of self-cultivation and a kind of respect for her.
Hong Kong writer Zhang Xiaoxian said: "If we want to forget a relationship, there is always only one way: time and a new love. If time and a new love cannot make you forget a relationship, there is only one reason: time is not long enough, and a new love is not good enough." When we fall into a relationship and cannot extricate ourselves, we must think calmly, analyze ourselves objectively, evaluate the other party correctly, and then find a way out and make the right choice. Or slowly settle in time, or start a new relationship. In short, you must divert your attention and walk out of your obsession.
