In real life, when someone is smooth sailing at work and has a prosperous life, it often arouses jealousy and dissatisfaction among individuals. On the contrary, when someone is unlucky in times of time, or encounters unexpected problems and his living standards are deteriorating, they will be neglected and ridiculed by some people.
The ancients said that when a person has joy, he should not be jealous; when a person has trouble, he should not be happy. It is immoral to be jealous of others, or to ridicule or even take advantage of others' dangers.
I have a deep understanding in life. When I was a child, my academic performance in school was always very good, but when the recommendation system was implemented in the school entrance examination, I went to junior high school and high school, and I was not recommended twice. When I failed the junior high school entrance examination, a neighbor's child said in front of me: "Don't we go to middle school?" After failing the high school entrance examination, the junior high school classmates said: "Don't we go to high school?"
The two students who said this usually had very poor academic performance. Because they did not require a cultural exam, they all had the opportunity to go to school. So there is also the capital to sarcasm and ridicule others. Their words made me cry without tears. At the same time, it also left an indelible mark in my heart.
Although I didn’t go to school during my days of working in the countryside, I never gave up on studying. In my spare time, I read a lot of books and I still insist on writing diaries. So, after I resumed the college entrance examination in and , I quickly mastered the high school courses with my junior high school degree and finally got into a high school institution after tutoring. But those who go to junior high school and high school can only be farmers for the rest of their lives.
There are countless things in history that are jealous of the virtuous and capable. Pang Juan designed to cut off the feet of Sun Bin ; Li Si killed Han Fei with poisoned wine. There is another well-known thing. Because Yang Xiu during the Three Kingdoms was extremely smart and knew the behavior of Cao Cao , Cao Cao killed Yang Xiu because of his jealousy. People in my hometown are metaphors that someone is not authentic in doing things, and they will say that someone is "cadakula Cao Cao". When they quarrel because of the two of them, they would point at each other and say, "You accused, you Cao Cao!" Cao Cao means that someone's behavior is as bad as Cao Cao, which is disgusting.
On the morning of the second day of the Lunar New Year this year, a neighbor on the street called to borrow money from his wife. This neighbor is a sister who usually gets along well with her wife. Because of this relationship, my wife lent her two thousand yuan without saying a word. When she came to withdraw the money, she also brought some fruit. After all, it’s the Chinese New Year, so it’s normal to buy something. However, after a few months, she paid back one hundred yuan less. My wife said, "Why give you a hundred yuan less?" The neighbor said, "When I borrowed money, I bought you something, so I gave you a hundred yuan less. Besides, your family is making money outside and living so rich. Do you still care about this little money?" This is obviously jealousy and cheating, which makes people speechless.
is jealous of others and cheats everywhere. Life is better for a while, but it cannot last long. Good days are achieved through hard work.
More than ten years ago, due to the recession of the unit, my wife and I were laid off. Forced by life, I did a little business and lost a lot. Because I cannot repay the money I borrowed from others in time, it is common for me to collect debts from home. Even the person closest to me said in front of me: "Actually, I didn't plan to ask you for the debt, but I just wanted it because I saw that you were not good enough and I was afraid that you could not pay it back." Someone also sarcastically said: "Because of breaking trust from others, even if you walk from the village to both ends and want to ask someone to borrow fifty yuan, I'm afraid I can't borrow it." It seems that he really regarded me as a useless person.
days without a single road. At the end of my life, I gritted my teeth and went out to work. Over the past ten years of working, I have suffered from bank runs from my colleagues, the rolling eyes of my private boss, and the pain of finding a job everywhere. But for all this, in order to survive and to fight for a breath, I swallowed it with stakes. For big goals and regardless of small gains and losses, this is the character that people should have in doing things.
does not compete with others, but only obtains the rewards you deserve based on your own abilities, and has a clear conscience. Over the past decade, my family life has undergone earth-shaking changes.After paying off the debt, both of my sons bought a house in the city and settled down, and I also bought a house in the city.
Two days ago, I met a colleague from my former unit in my hometown. After learning about my ups and downs, I said with emotion: "The bankruptcy of the unit is not necessarily a bad thing. If I don't go bankrupt, I will live a life of only a little salary a month, and sometimes I still have to owe to it. I want to live a good life, that's a dream. When I'm laid off, I do whatever I want, and the sea is wide and the fish are leaping. Our life is comfortable now, which is something I dare not even think of in a large collective unit."
My father often said when he was alive: "You can eat the best, but don't speak the word of heaven." It means that people should not be too arrogant. There are unexpected situations in the world. Today is good, but it may not be better forever.
Mother said: "The flowers bloom without a hundred days of red, and there is no ink thread that hits the end." This means, how can flowers bloom forever? The ink line popped with ink dou is straight, but the journey of life cannot be as far as the ink line, but it is more bumpy and tortuous. The misfortune of blessings depends on, and the blessings of misfortune are hidden. Things in the world are changing, and there is no unchanging truth. Crisis awareness and risk awareness should be kept in mind. Any slackness or carelessness is a taboo in life.
Following my parents' teachings, I have been working hard and striving. A life of struggle is a happy life. If you are silly, it is equivalent to a waste of time to go through the world.
Some people feel resentful when they see others being better than themselves. Over time, you may even get sick. Can we think about this from the perspective of others? As the saying goes, you can't count. That is to say, I don’t compete with Zhang San and Li Si, nor with others. I only compare myself with my past and present. I lived in poverty before, but now I live in a good life. Isn’t it a joy to be content and always be happy?
Going to the dark road, always thinking that you are extremely smart and have not achieved the life you want, you complain about social injustice, complain about your bad luck, and be upset about people who are better than you. If you don’t work hard, you just blame others, and you will definitely suffer in the end. It is inevitable to be eliminated by society and fall behind the times.
Date years of life, crying is a day, and laughing is a day. It’s a day to be jealous of others, and it’s a day to hope others are good. People who like to argue will definitely say, who doesn’t want to laugh? But when I always encounter sad things, can I laugh? Yes, when you encounter something sad, you really can't laugh. However, when you see others being better than you, you feel sad. Isn’t this asking for your own sake?
Take a step back and say that everyone around you is well, there are still many benefits for you: if the granaries are full, you will know etiquette, and if you have enough food and clothing, you will know honor and disgrace. When everyone around them becomes rich, a social atmosphere of being civilized and polite is naturally formed. Isn’t it a lucky thing to live in harmony with people who understand etiquette? People around you have certain connections and being friends with them will benefit from all kinds of benefits but no harm. Everyone around you is outstanding and is an expert in living a life. It is a benchmark and a role model for you, and it can inspire you to make continuous progress without slacking off.
I have a classmate named Ding, who has always been doing well in the provincial capital. More than ten years ago, when he heard that I was laid off, he posted a post on the Internet to find me. After a lot of effort, I finally got in touch with me through the phone number of several people. At that time, I had been working outside for many years. After he contacted me, the first sentence said: "If you are unhappy when doing something outside, come to the provincial capital classmate. It is still no problem to make a living."
According to classmate Ding's intention, I quit my job as a working unit and went to the provincial capital. Soon, the new job was solved. Unexpectedly, I did it for twelve or thirteen years until I retired successfully. During this period, there is no worries about treatment or work. What is happiness? Doing one thing well without distraction and concentration is happiness.
The three-character classic says that Meng’s mother chose a neighbor. Everyone around you is getting better, and getting along with these people is an opportunity and luck. People who have no mind, red eyes, and are jealous are narrow-minded and selfish villains. Today, when the whole nation enjoys a well-off life, it has become a trend for people to be kind, learn from the good, talk about the pattern, and behave in a manner.If you can't tolerate others' good people, you will lose your place to survive.
