text/Xu Yiyizu
Recently, I was liked by two old men.
always refers to age, not to be careless, in his forties or fifties, he is really old, and with a man of gender, he is like a fake old man.
both have families and children.
One of them has known each other for two years, and I also know his wife, a simple woman. If I wanted to kill her, she wouldn't have thought that her husband would be distracted.
This man told me that there was another woman chasing him, and gave him money, and showed me their chat records. Maybe he wanted me to know that he was not a casual person.
He always wants to give me money, and I refuse. Once I told him: If you do this again, be careful I will accept it.
How old am I still can’t see through this trick? He couldn't extricate himself from the deep affection he woven, and I just took this to see the helplessness of human nature and the struggle of human beings in that little shadow.
I am thinking that life is like a play, life is like a dream, life is like a joke, life is like a rotten food that you will vomit after eating. Sooner or later, they will rot into atoms and molecular particles, and they will never see each other again with the naked eye.
Another man, I met him for a while and his son is 18. Our first meeting is like an old friend we have met for many years. He called me "Girl", which is what two friends who have come with me through the green years have always called me. It makes me feel very friendly to me.
The passion of married men has long been my magnifying glasses, reading glasses, myopia glasses for observing life. It is like the tricks played by children, like the little thoughts of kittens stealing fish. I understand men through them to understand human nature and life.
I don’t criticize or label it, I know that it’s a kind of suffering.
are all human beings. In fact, who doesn’t know who? If you turn your belly and your heart out, who is so embarrassed to scold others?
Just now, the first man mentioned above said that I asked me to delete him, as long as I remember that there is a lovely person in my heart.
Seeing that there are still people who use "infatuation" to describe themselves in this year, I don't laugh at me, but I really want to laugh.
He drank too much at noon yesterday and sent a voice and video, but I ignored him.
people are really pitiful, being fooled by their own desires.
I once told him about Buddhism, and he said that he likes to listen, but it is all a pretext.
The second person mentioned, I also told him the Dharma. He had some stories that he heard from others and his own understanding. We did not convince each other, but each said his own words. But laughing and scolding can still communicate.
I vow to use the method to benefit those who are destined to me. Sometimes I have a good habit of being a teacher. I said that you should not do anything to kill, steal, adultery, or lying, and greed, anger, ignorance, or arrogance.
However, humans are emotional animals, and it is difficult to escape from the worldly world. However, unconscious feelings cannot escape pain in the end. How is this good?
Of course I wouldn't be so stupid as to be confused with them. I wouldn't even leave inappropriate language on WeChat. There are many secrets. Men can't fight good hunters. Women are very sensitive in this regard, so it would be a big sin to make their wives misunderstand and quarrel.
people will measure the cost of cheating. It is not worth it if one party’s target is too low, and it is not worth it if the other party’s price is too high. Unless there is too much water in your mind.
If my man flirts with other women outside, I don’t think I will be surprised. If we loved others before him and fell in love with others in the future (maybe different degrees), then he can do the same thing to others to you. It's just a matter of time, the essence is the same, what's the surprise?
This is the case in life. Don’t make yourself want to be the best actor. Get drunk and wait for that person by chance. Don’t act without the camera. Don’t be stupid!
people, regardless of gender, must be smart, strong and independent. Don’t wait for your husband/wife to cheat before wailing and be blind.
people, don’t be too arrogant regardless of gender. Don’t think that the other person can’t live without you. Don’t look for people who can’t survive without you, it’s not a lover or a dog skin plaster.
people, no matter whether they are male or female, don’t take feelings too seriously. Don't treat feelings as day. Otherwise, someone will die when you are stabbed.
I think there are too many stories about running away like this. If you know, just smile instead of shouting "Scum!", I regard this as a manifestation of maturity and strong immunity. Such an attitude is probably worth congratulations.
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