text | Miss Bai
Some people say that the transparency of the mind is not because there are no distracting thoughts, but because of understanding the choices.
When a woman has experienced the test of life, felt the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and seen through the truth of marriage, her thoughts and mentality will change.
Those women who live better and better often have these common points. Let’s see how many of them do you have?
Whether it is lucky or unfortunate
can face
Life is short and has a tragic fate. Women will always experience various twists and turns in their lives, and face different roles and challenges.
Some people are overwhelmed and live like a resentful woman. They are depressed all day long and can only struggle in the pain of right and wrong for the rest of their lives.
And some people know how to keep a calm mind, face it calmly, work hard to tap their potential in hardships, and use their wisdom and abilities to win respect and recognition.
The difference lies in the mentality. The kind of mentality you hold will have the kind of destiny you have.
As time goes by, only women who know how to smile at the flavors of life can truly usher in their own bright light.
Sober and independent
Everything has your own judgment
Yishu said that it is impossible to rely on others in life and hope to be respected by others.
The more you live, the better. Women who are respected are often sober and conscious, independent and excellent.
Women should understand that maintaining confidence and independence and having the ability to be evenly matched is the prerequisite for not being disturbed by the outside world and not being bound by marriage.
A woman who has a clear understanding of herself, has her own judgment on everything, is smart and capable, no matter what she encounters, can live easily wherever she goes.
Accept yourself
Know how to manage emotions
When I was young, many women would be a little emotional, not calm, and even act erect, so they took many detours and suffered a lot.
As time settles and wisdom accumulates, some people slowly begin to restrain their temper, manage their emotions, and accept their true selves.
no longer impulsive or complain when encountering things, no longer mess up life because of small things, but learn to control your feelings, not lose your temper, and not compete with yourself.
Know how to be tolerant and accept, and live calmly and calmly. Such a woman will definitely feel more comfortable as she lives.
Cultivate hobbies
Love life
People reach middle age, develop their interests and hobbies, learn to gain pleasure and satisfaction from life, and make every day of their life fulfilling and meaningful.
In your spare time, you can read books, draw, grow flowers, or make an appointment with a few friends to travel together.
A woman who is transparent will not lose her life and self because she is busy with work all day long, nor will she become lazy and decadent because she is busy with work all day long.
Women must know how to balance work and life, persist in learning and exercise, and maintain a love for life, so that happiness can last for a long time.
Enjoy being alone and lonely
personality is getting quieter and quieter
html ml0Buddha's words:
"Silent can produce wisdom, and wisdom can produce wisdom."
Wisdom and transparent women are often quiet in their bones, like to be alone, can endure loneliness, and can withstand temptation.
know how to streamline your circle of friends, reduce your desires, stay away from distracting thoughts and troubles, and live a simple life.
When a woman begins to reduce social interactions, calm down to study and be alone, it actually means that her heart is becoming stronger and stronger, and she welcomes a new future with a more elegant and simple attitude.
The biggest trump card
Always be yourself
Better women will not place their hopes on others, nor will they give their destiny to others. Their biggest trump card is always themselves.
Know how to be prepared for danger in times of peace and prepare for the future. At any time, you will reserve a way out for yourself and be your guardian.
Only by pampering yourself from the bottom of your heart, cherishing yourself, and believing in yourself can a woman deeply understand the true meaning of life.
No longer live for others, but for yourself. This may be the watershed between whether a woman can get happiness.
From now on, say goodbye to the past and reconcile with yourself. May every day in the future be more transparent than yesterday and more free than last year.
✎Author: Miss Bai, a working woman, writes warm and powerful words, share interesting and meaningful life with you, accompany you to grow up, and accompany you to be strong.
