The ancients said:
"Men and women are not close to each other."
Men and women should keep a distance, because there is a gender difference between men and women. This is not gender discrimination, but a principle that a person should follow.
Many girls have been taught to respect themselves since childhood, so these girls never let men touch their bodies and protect themselves very well. Such girls will be very happy in their future lives, marry the person they like, and live happily for the rest of their lives.
However, there are some people in life who have not received some education. Although these people are not reserved, they do not understand the harm caused to themselves by body language. When facing some physical touches, they are indifferent.
This tells us: we must know what kind of body language is more ambiguous, and we must protect ourselves. Also, if you find that some people have some body language, it means that the two people are already ambiguous.
We cannot easily have ambiguity with others, but we must know what kind of people are having ambiguity.
There are three body languages between men and women, and most of them are ambiguous relationships:
01. Holding hands
Once I was walking on the street and saw two junior high school students together. The hands of these two junior high school students were held together, and they were one boy and one girl.
These two people were walking on the street, and girls did not need the protection and help of boys, but the behavior of these two people was still so close, which shows that the relationship between these two people was no longer normal.
So in life, if two people have not made their relationship public, or have not made their relationship public to the outside world, but the two have already held hands, and when there is such body language, the relationship between the two people is no longer an ordinary friend.
So if you are the parent of your child, when you know that your child is holding hands with others, you should quickly educate your child, be sure to keep a good distance, don’t fall in love early, and not be hurt.
If you already have a partner and you find that your partner is holding hands with others, it means that the relationship between these two people is no longer ordinary. Then at this time, you must defend your love and protect your family.
At the same time, we also tell us not to hold hands with others easily, unless one of you needs help, so you two must have the link of holding hands, or you pull the other party up from a certain valley. In this way, it is OK to have some holding environment.
02. Hug
In fact, if people reach the point of embracing, especially hugging between friends of the opposite sex, it means that the relationship between these two people has reached a certain level.
In life, if you want to hug someone, it means you are thinking about this person in your heart. In life, if you hug this person, it means you like each other very much, so you two are so close.
Some men and women hug each other under the guise of helping each other, while others are even more overdoing, embracing others under the guise of cultural differences.
There is such a person around me:
After graduating from university, I couldn’t find a job because my professional ability was too poor, so I applied for a master’s degree from a foreign university. After studying for a master’s degree for one year outside, I found a job based on my relationship and foreign master’s experience.
At that time, he was in his workplace, and this person didn't work well, and he often hugged lesbians, saying that this is a foreign culture.
During this period, many female colleagues envied each other and admired each other, thinking that the other person was a returnee, so the other person was an amazing person. But some colleagues also felt disgusted and felt that this person did not respect others.
As a Chinese, you should have the Chinese culture, rather than bringing foreign dregs for your own use, or even harming the lesbians around you.
So some people bully lesbians under the guise of culture. So, in such a situation, you must protect yourself and not let the other party succeed. If the other party becomes more and more arrogant, you must protect yourself through legal means, rather than sit still and wait for death.
03. Kissing
If two people get to kiss, this step means that these two people are not only ambiguous, but are even going to have a relationship in some aspects.
Usually, if the relationship between couples has not developed to a certain extent, neither of these two people will kiss, let alone kissing between friends.
Some girls feel that the relationship between the two is not that deep, so girls will also refuse the boy's kiss. This is enough to show that kissing is particularly sacred and requires us to be cautious.
is not a person walking over the street, you can do such actions casually.
If there are the above physical movements between a man and a woman, it means that the relationship between these two people is no longer ordinary and is likely to have become ambiguous.
In fact, sometimes we have to be responsible for our love. When a person treats us in an ambiguous way but does not confess his love to us, this is the other party’s disrespect for us.
Of course, some people are just in love, so when the other party has an ambiguous relationship with us but is not responsible for us, we are not aware of it.
This requires us to have the ability to judge right and wrong. If the other party is just having an ambiguous relationship with us, it is very likely that you are the other party's spare tire, so you should stay away from the other party as soon as possible.
