The fruits of life are created by oneself, and the cause and effect cycles, and there is a conclusion. Life is like an echo valley. Everything you do and every word you say will return to yourself. What kind of attitude do you treat destiny, destiny will give back to you in the same way.
Tolerate others = treat yourself well
The sea can accommodate all rivers lies in the tolerance; a broad life lies in the tolerance of others.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, in order to make Gongzi Jiu successfully ascend the throne, he intercepted and killed Gongzi Xiaobai halfway. As a result, Gongzi Xiaobai not only did not die but also inherited the throne, that is, Duke Huan of Qi .
Not only did Duke Huan of Qi not retaliated against this "revenge of one arrow", but also valued Guan Zhong and allowed him to be the prime minister. This tolerance deeply touched him.
Later, Guan Zhong was loyal to Duke Huan of Qi, helping him to defeat all the heroes and achieve hegemony.
Rolland said:
"Forgiveness can make friends. When you can forgive others' mistakes with an open-minded and bright heart, you will naturally have more friends."
Sometimes, tolerating other people's mistakes is not only a step for him, allowing him to escape danger, but also leaving a way out for himself and accumulating favors for himself.
Give others a tolerance and give yourself a pure land.
Just turn the article right or wrong, and life can clear the sky; reduce unnecessary troubles, and life can be more calm.
Resentment to others = torture yourself
The biggest pain in life is often not the misfortune of life, but the torture in the heart.
There is no hurdle in the world that cannot be overcome, only oneself that cannot be let go.
Faced with past injuries, we could have chosen to let go, but because of our obsession, we fell deeper and deeper.
Just imagine: When a person looks back and forth through old accounts, repeatedly chewing on the heavy past, and struggling in resentment every day, how can his life be happy?
Life is like a journey. The more things you carry, the harder the pace of progress will be.
has resentment and is not hurt by others. It is useless to torture yourself.
Many times, letting others go is also freeing oneself.
The people who hurt us, just forget it, why bother to be upset?
Just let go of the troubles you encounter, why bother with me?
Life has always been mixed with bitterness and joy, and sadness and joy. Instead of being tortured by hatred, it is better to face it calmly, reconcile with the past, and let the past follow the wind.
modestness to others = open-minded yourself
Treat people and learn to be humble is a major principle for us to walk in the world.
There is a story like this:
Western Han Dynasty Literary Chen Xiao and villager Ji Bo were neighbors. One night, Ji Bo secretly moved the fence to Chen Xiao's land to add to his own land.
Chen Xiao not only did not argue with him after seeing this, but also quietly pulled out the fence after Ji Bo left, moved a meter into his own field, and added the land to Ji Bo.
After Ji Bo found out, he was ashamed and automatically repaid the occupied land, and withdrew one meter from behind.
"Caigen Tan " says: "Where the path is narrow, leave one step to walk with others; when the taste is strong, reduce three points to make people eat."
When dealing with people, you might as well be more humble and open-minded, many problems will be solved easily and war will turn into jade.
Jealousy of others = worry about yourself
Shakespeare once said: "A jealous will cause sorrow."
Jealousy is like a barrier that covers your eyes, making people unable to see the distance, and eventually leads to the road getting narrower and narrower until you enter a desperate situation.
Warring States Period , the famous military strategist Sun Bin and Pang Juan together to learn military strategies under the Guiguzi .
Pang Juan knew that Sun Bin's talent was far better than himself, and his jealousy made him feel full of resentment, so he designed to frame Sun Bin for having an affair with Qi State , cut off his feet and tattooed his face, causing him to be humiliated physically and mentally.
Later, Sun Bin defected to Qi State and was appointed as a military advisor by Qi Wei King , assisting Qi State general Tian Ji to defeat Pang Juan twice. Pang Juan was wise and was still unwilling to accept it when he was dying and scolded Sun Bin.
Flowers have withering and flourishing, people have ups and downs, and everyone has their own highlights and their own troughs.
This era will not stop you from shining, but you cannot cover the glory of anyone.
Jealousy of others but never faces you. Not only can you not get rid of the difficulties of life, it will also increase internal energy and cause yourself to suffer. Instead of being jealous of others' brilliant achievements, it is better to silently cultivate your own abilities and work hard to take root in the future. Only in the future will it be full of flowers.
Appreciate others = improve yourself
Appreciate like a mirror, which can not only recognize others, but also reflect on yourself.
bacon once said:
"The admirer has the morning glow, dewdrops and flowers that bloom all year round; the disregarded people's hearts are frozen and the heart-warming city, the seas are exhausted, and the mountains are deserted."
Learning to make up for one's own shortcomings; giving others applause can gain the motivation to move forward. Only by seeing other people's strengths can one reflect on one's own shortcomings, and then learning humbly, thus becoming more perfect.
Try to look at others with an appreciation point of view. Every candy you give will eventually come back to your own hands.
A person’s life, no matter where he is, he can only meet a better self if he knows how to appreciate others.
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Editor: Qianqian
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