Preface:
Today's elderly people particularly like to hire live-in nannies because they are old and can no longer take care of themselves, and their children are not around, so for their own old age and for safety, they choose to hire live-in nannies Nanny, so that you can spend your old age with peace of mind.
But why do some nannies feel so miserable after agreeing to be live-in nannies, and even want to resign? Mr. Lin is a live-in nanny. He said that his employer gives him a monthly salary of 9,000, but he just wants to resign and feels scared. What's going on? Let’s take a look together!
47-year-old Mr. Lin said:
When it comes to nannies, many people are disgusted with them, because in the eyes of many people, they feel that nannies are inferior and that it is a job of serving others, and then they are unwilling to do it. At the beginning, I thought the same way, and I felt that nannies were generally a job done by women, and there were basically no men as nannies. When my friend asked me to be a nanny, I immediately refused because I I feel it is embarrassing to be a male nanny . I am afraid of being laughed at by others.
At that time, my friend had been doing my ideological work. My friend said that no matter what age it is now, no one laughs at nannies anymore. They all make their own money with their own hands. There is nothing shameful. Moreover, male nannies are now well paid. Many employers like to find male nannies. Because male nannies are stronger, having a male nanny at home can save a lot of work. My friend also said that male nannies usually earn a salary of eight to nine thousand. After hearing about this salary, I became interested in the job of a male nanny. , even if I am laughed at by others, it doesn’t matter to me, as long as I can make money.
Later on, I went out to work as a nanny with my friends. Because my overall conditions were pretty good, I quickly applied for a job as a nanny. I was working as a nanny for an old couple. They were both over 70 years old. It was very difficult to take care of myself, so they asked me to be their nanny. They said that I only need to do some ordinary housework. When they go out to play, I have to follow them because they are old and worried about fainting suddenly. of.
I think the work is not difficult, and the salary they give me is very high. They give me 9,000 yuan a month. When I heard them talk about this salary, I felt very excited. I used to do farm work in the countryside, sometimes every year. I couldn't make 9,000 yuan, so when I heard about the salary of 9,000 yuan, I immediately agreed.
Although the male employer is older, he loves to have fun. He often goes fishing with his friends, and even goes fishing in the mountains. He often doesn’t come back until half a month later, and then the female employer and I are the only ones left at home.
When I first started, I got along pretty well with the female employer. Later, I found that the female employer had a lot of ideas. For example, at night, she would tell me that she had insomnia, and then ask me to tell her stories. Solitary man and widowed woman The atmosphere in the same room was really awkward. Once, when I was telling a story to the female employer, the female employer suddenly took my hand and asked me to stay with her. She said that she was very lonely alone. , I immediately broke away from her hand and went back to my room.
Later, the male employer came back. After the male employer came back, I really wanted to tell the male employer about this matter, but I didn’t dare. I was afraid that if I told this matter, it would lead to their divorce, and I would become a sinner. After all, I would rather demolish ten temples than ruin a marriage.
Now I feel that this job is very painful. Although I have a monthly salary of 9,000, I just want to resign. I am really afraid. Every time the male employer goes out to play, I feel very tortured.
