Introduction It is a very happy thing for an old person to live to a long age, because the longer he lives, the more things he will see, so many old people hope that they can live a long life.

Introduction

It is a very happy thing for an old person to live to a long age, because the longer he lives, the more things he will see, so many old people hope that they can live a long life.

But sometimes living too long is not a happy thing, especially if you are in poor health, or if you don’t have filial children. I was lonely at the time, and I would also live a very hard life because of my poor health. You must go to the hospital frequently. When you go to the hospital, you have to get injections and take various medicines. If you have to be like this every day, it will be very uncomfortable. And at this time, the children are not filial, so it is really sad. thing, so to live a long life, you must have a good body and filial children, otherwise you will still live an unhappy life.

An 85-year-old grandmother cried: "My monthly pension is 8,000, but I want to leave early. It is really difficult."

What is going on? Let’s take a look at this story.

85-year-old Grandma Qin

I am 85 years old, my surname is Qin, and I have been retired for many years. My husband fell ill and passed away 20 years ago. After my husband passed away, I have always lived alone.

Fortunately, my children had already married and started careers at that time, so I didn’t have to worry about them at ordinary times. I just wanted to enjoy my old age.

I originally thought that I could spend my old age alone, but what I didn’t expect was that when I was 70 years old, my body began to have various problems. In order to make myself feel more secure, I decided to Go to a nursing home.

But just when I was going to a nursing home, my children suddenly offered to take care of me for the elderly. They also said that nursing homes are unreliable and that relying on them is the most reliable.

I was particularly surprised at the time because I had never expected that my children would take the initiative to support me in my old age. Since my children started their own families, they rarely came back to visit me. Once I wanted to live with them, they refused and even asked me to Don't disturb their lives in the future.

Therefore, my children are not very filial, so because they are not filial, I have not thought about relying on them, but plan to use other ways to support the elderly in their old age.

But who knew that when I wanted to implement other ways to provide for my retirement, my children offered to provide for me in my retirement. I was really surprised and happy at that time, and then I also agreed to go to their family to provide for my retirement. I don’t know if they were sincere. , but as long as they speak, I will be very happy, because it makes me feel the filial piety of my children, and also lets me know that someone still cares about me.

I first went to my son’s house. When I lived at my son’s house, my son and daughter-in-law were very filial to me, and my grandchildren were also very sensible.

At that time, I felt that I was very happy because I received the filial piety from my children. But who knew that after living in their home for a while, they would complain to me about poverty, saying that they were under great pressure every day and had to pay off the car loan and house loan, so they wanted me to Can help them.

I couldn’t bear to not help after saying this, and then I also used my pension to pay off their car loan and house loan. After all, I live in their home, so I should pay for them.

But who knew that after I gave it once, it became something I should do, and every month as soon as my salary is paid, I have to give it to them immediately. If I don’t give it, they will say that I am not a qualified mother, or they will say I came to live with them, but I didn’t want to pay for them.

I was really sad at the time. I think they had a purpose in offering to support me in my retirement. They must have taken a fancy to my savings and pension, so they offered to support me in my retirement. Otherwise, they wouldn’t be so kind. But when I think about having my children by my side in my later years, I am satisfied. Moreover, money is something that you will not take with you until you die. I have lived for so many years and it is not enough. And the money also belongs to them, so it is okay to give it in advance. .

But after they got the money, they didn’t repay me, and their attitude toward me became worse and worse. They often disliked me or gave me bad treatment. When I was sick and needed care, they didn’t take care of me. Instead, they always treated me with work. I used the excuse of being busy to take care of myself. Originally, I came to their home to take care of myself and they were busy working all day long. Even if they had a rest, they would not accompany me well or care about me. Regarding the behavior of my son and daughter-in-law, I Very disappointed.

Later, after living in my son's house for a year, I also moved to my daughter's house. I thought that after moving to my daughter's house, my daughter would be more considerate and I would live a happy life.

But who knew that after I went to my daughter’s house, my daughter went even further. Because I used to be too partial to my son, my daughter always resented me. After I went to her house, she directly encouraged me to sell the nursing home . And all the money from selling the house will be given to her.

I didn’t want to sell it originally, but my daughter said that she is very short of money now. If I don’t sell the house to help her, she will kick me out. In order to be able to retire at home with my daughter, I finally had to sell the old house.

In fact, the reason why I sold the house so easily is because I have always treated my daughter well, so I did this to make up for her.

But after selling the house, it still doesn’t work anymore. My daughter still keeps chewing on my money all day long. She spends all my monthly pension.

Later, my son was very unhappy when he learned about this incident. Because I have always liked to help my son, my son felt it was very unfair. To be fair, he directly asked me to give him all my savings, and also threatened me that if I didn't give it, From now on, he will come to his daughter’s house to cause trouble.

In order to prevent the two brothers and sisters from becoming enemies, I had to give all my savings to my son. After giving it to him, my son stopped making trouble. But since then, I have no money to use, and they have eaten up all my money. The house was sold, and my life became more and more miserable. Sometimes I didn’t have money for medical treatment when I got sick.

When I need money, my son and daughter-in-law are not willing to give it. Sometimes in order to have living expenses, I have to pick up scraps, so my life is really miserable.

As time went by, my health became worse and worse. When my son and daughter saw that my health was getting worse, they kicked me out because they didn’t want to be dragged down by me. Anyway, there was no benefit to me. So they felt there was no need to keep me.

At that time, I begged them hard not to kick me out, because I had no place to live, and kicking me out would only make my life more miserable.

But they didn’t listen at all. They even kicked me out. So I was kicked out mercilessly. After being kicked out, I had no choice but to go back to live in a tile-roofed house in my hometown. It was really miserable. Not only was there water leakage everywhere, but there was also draft leakage in winter. I also had no money, and my health was getting worse and worse. To be honest, I might as well die after living such a life, because living is really tiring. Not only do I fail to enjoy a good old age life, but I also make myself miserable.

Now I am over eighty years old, but I have not enjoyed a good day. I used to think that people can be happy as long as they live to a long life, but now I find that after reaching a long life, I am not happy at all. , because I did not have a healthy body, nor did I have filial children, so my old age was miserable. Although I had a pension of 8,000 yuan every month, my retirement card had been confiscated by my children, so I simply I have no money and I really want to leave this world directly, but God keeps me living in pain, so it’s really hard for me.

Conclusion

If the elderly want to have a good old age, they must educate their children well when they are young. Don't be too poor, and don't be too partial, otherwise it will only lead to a miserable later life.