In the eyes of others, I may have pretty good conditions. I come from an upper-middle-class family, graduated from with a bachelor's degree in , and work in a state-owned enterprise. I have fair skin, good looks, long legs, a sweet mouth and can act coquettishly. She is very popular outside and gets along well with people of the same sex and opposite sex.
The risks of marrying me are:
1. Not reliable enough. Before and after marriage, men kept showing affection towards me, some were flirtatious and some were serious. There are many temptations, and a little ambiguity is inevitable. I really won't do it, but I can't say one day I will make a mistake. There was a college student who had just graduated and came to work for me as an intern. He didn't have much experience. He fell in love with me and protected me like a little girl. It would be a lie to say that I didn't waver at all.
2. Self-centered, willful, and love-making. I have been pampered by my parents, teachers, and classmates since I was a child, and the boys are even more flattering. I am used to others taking care of me, pleasing me, and putting me first. Sometimes I am not even aware of this, and it is quite difficult to change.
3. He has a strong desire to control those close to him and has the tendency to abuse others. I don’t know how to describe this. Is it a character flaw? I just like to find trouble to stimulate you and torture you until you collapse to prove that you love me. I won't feel sorry for you, the more I see you collapse, the happier I will be.
4. I don’t do housework, I don’t touch the spring water with my fingers, I don’t know everything about the house, and my husband takes care of all the housework during the New Year and holidays.
5. Indifference. Maybe it’s because love from others has come so easily since I was a child, so I’ve been relatively insensitive and don’t have so many emotional ups and downs. I spend more time calculating the gains and losses. My husband often says that he feels like he is my tool. If he encounters any difficulties, he most likely cannot count on me to share the joys and sorrows. After I figured it out, I felt that I would run away if I couldn't get any benefits, because it was too easy to find a new home.
Of course, I am not without my advantages:
If you were just in love with me, not yet married, and didn’t know me that well, you might think I’m very nice.
I have a very gentle personality, I don’t have any ups and downs of emotions, and I almost never lose my temper. When I do get angry, I always do so in a coquettish tone. When we quarrel, I will take the initiative to show weakness and act coquettishly. Outside, he will give him enough face. No matter how noisy he is when he comes back, outside, especially in front of his friends and family, he will always rely on him and listen to him. I don't like vanity either, because I have a relatively good family background, I don't pursue famous brands, RVs, or anything like that, and I don't need others to buy me this or that.
