Introduction : As the saying goes, if you cultivate for a hundred years, you can travel in the same boat and if you cultivate for thousands of years, you can sleep on the same pillow. It is not easy to be husband and wife in this life. A good relationship between husband and wife will make life more enjoyable.
But 60-year-old Aunt Yang has refused to have sex with her wife. My wife has a dark face every day. Moreover, they often find fault with each other and deliberately quarrel. Recently filed for divorce. What is going on with
? Let's listen to what Aunt Yang has to say.
Aunt Yang’s self-report
My name is Yang Liu and I am 60 years old. My wife and I met on a blind date. We were both very old at that time, and there was a lot of pressure at home to get married. When we were dating, we felt that we didn't hate each other, so we got married in a hurry. After we got married, we had a son and a daughter. The days passed as plain as water. Now retired, his pension and his pension total more than 8,000. We also have a house for rent, with a monthly passive income of RMB 3,000. It can be said that our days are full of food and clothing.
Every day after eating, he and I would walk hand in hand by the river. During holidays, my children come to see me with gifts, and my wife and I feel very happy. But as time goes by, I can no longer stand the smell of old age on my wife and the bad smell in my mouth. Whenever I get close to my wife, I will faint. Lying next to him every day is really torture. I was so uncomfortable that I couldn't fall asleep, so I put on a mask to sleep. My wife discovered my weirdness and scolded me.
I could only take off the mask, but the smell was too strong. I couldn't help but toss and turn. My wife said that I moved around like a monkey and disturbed his sleep.
In order to avoid quarrels, I proposed sleeping in separate rooms. My wife advised me not to do this. But I persisted. My wife can only agree.
Unexpectedly, after sleeping in separate rooms, my wife completely changed. He became a hands-off shopkeeper and did not do any housework. And they are very particular about me and require me to be AA in everything. Forget it, the point is that my wife is always finding fault with everything. He immediately said that the floor was not swept clean, and that the food was too salty.
His appearance really makes me feel uncomfortable. One night, he was lying on the sofa watching a TV series, and suddenly he cried out that he was hungry. I can only go and make him supper.
After making the midnight snack and putting it on the table, he scolded me while eating. I almost cried. He said I didn't know how to understand him. It was too lonely for him to sleep alone every day. I want to sleep in a separate room, which makes him very embarrassed. But I don't want to wrong myself for him.
But when he saw me, he refused to say that I would sleep with him. He began to guess that there was someone outside me. I tried my best to refute him, but he didn't believe it at all.
He got angry and slapped me. He said I was not a good woman. I was also shocked that he dared to domestically abuse me.
So I hid back to my parents’ house. My mother said I was wrong. Sleeping in separate rooms would hurt a man's self-esteem. But it’s really wrong for him to hit you. I was so angry and thought he would apologize to me.
Unexpectedly, he felt that I disliked him so much that he filed for divorce.
I think it would be nice to sleep in separate rooms and have your own personal space when you get older? Why does he always put on a showy face? Also mention divorce.
netizens, do you think I really did something wrong? And what should I do next?
