The ultimate goal of studying hard and working hard is to take control of our own lives. That is to say, you know how to make yourself comfortable with food and clothing, and even if you are not rich, at least you can live happily and comfortably. Therefore, we learn the law of a

The ultimate goal of our hard study and hard work is to take control of our own lives. That is to say, knowing how to make yourself comfortable with food and clothing, even if you are not rich, at least live happily and comfortably.

So, we learn the law of attraction , learn Chinese medicine, learn traditional culture, learn psychology , learn Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism , learn how to break the King Kong... and so on.

You will find that very few people succeed in learning, and even some people, the more they study, the more miserable their lives become.

There is nothing wrong with learning itself. What is wrong is my own learning method and learning insights.

All human wisdom and enlightenment are the result of self-guidance from the high-dimensional wisdom in the heart through learning.

The method of learning and the perception of learning are all processes that will affect your own awareness.

Let’s take the simplest example:

Last week I chatted with a friend who was in Qingyuan and shared my thoughts on my recent studies. Because I usually like the expression of words. In just over 30 words, I can express my feelings. Inner thoughts and insights.

However, through his feedback, I feel that he completely misunderstood what I meant.

Later, I clearly expressed my thoughts to him through WeChat phone calls. After such communication, he admitted that he did not think of what I said.

I believe that everyone will often encounter such misunderstandings of information and asymmetry of thinking in their lives.

Therefore, I will share with you some effective methods that I have learned and learned.

1, the first step to grasping life is to change your own perception.

Many spiritual books have words like: "Your consciousness creates your life", "The people and things you encounter are attracted by you", etc., but few people change their lives through these words. .

Why is this happening?

In fact, this is a mistake that most people often make during learning. Even though your brain has heard and understood it, your inner belief system has not changed, so your actions have not changed, and your life remains the same as before. People like

are everywhere around us. The most obvious characteristic is that they have learned a lot of principles, and they have correct logic when they chat and speak. But that is only at the stage of knowing, and the essential cognition has not changed.

For example: A person gives an eloquent speech in front of many people.

Some people will say that this person is really eloquent and has such a thick skin.

Some people will think it is an insult to themselves when they hear it (lecturer, Jack Ma, , Musk, etc.)

Some people will think it is an insult to themselves.

…

…

The same thing, but different perceptions lead to completely different life paths.

Therefore, if you want to change your belief system and take control of your life, you must change your perception. How to change

?

It is taught in the courses of Jinchanhui Wisdom Community. Bring your soul into it and feel it with your heart.

After understanding it, just use it yourself.

2, there is no right or wrong in this world, everything is defined by the trader!

Anyone who has read many high-dimensional wisdom books knows that there is only one way to avoid anxiety and worry, and to be completely self-sufficient: that is, to make yourself non-discriminatory when encountering anyone and anything.

This is also the most obvious feature to test whether your life path is taking a detour.

No matter what books you read or what knowledge you learn, as long as your sense of discrimination becomes more and more serious, it means that you are getting further and further away from the life you want to grasp...

What do you think is good or bad, right or wrong? , it’s not really good or bad, right or wrong, it’s just that many people in your mind say it is good or bad when faced with such a situation, and then you judge whether it is good or bad. You yourself have no standards for good and bad. The origin of the standard

is just a framework that traders continue to strengthen and repeat.

For example:

Some people say it is good to be vegetarian, some people say it is good to eat meat, some people say it is good to have a boy, some people say it is good to have a girl... etc. The standards for our judgment are all told by traders. our.

So, when we disagree with others, causing mood swings, take a deep breath, feel your own mood changes, and then remind yourself: "I am just being manipulated by myself, in fact, I don't know anything!"

Such is your mood It will calm down. Over time, as your anxiety grows, your attitude will slowly change. Life began to slowly change.

3, there is no causal relationship between everyone, things, and things in this world!

I once told a WeChat friend about this conclusion. She replied at the time: "How could there be no cause and effect?", but that is the fact.

We just live in a "fruit" world. To put it simply, what happens and experiences us every day is inevitable. Everything is written according to the script. What should be performed today and what should be performed tomorrow all happen according to the script.

seems to be related, but it is related that we deliberately added it in order to make our thinking logical.

The added "relationship" has evolved into the knowledge, laws and useful information we learn.

This is why we cannot explain many phenomena. After all, we did not write the script, so we have no way to understand these phenomena with the logic we can understand.

For example:

Where the sun rotates, the earth rotates. Then, how much is a year and how much is a day. Is there a causal relationship?

No

The sun rotates by itself, and the earth rotates by itself. This is how the script of the universe is written. We connect these unrelated things by ourselves, such as years, months, days, etc., and make them related.

The wealth, health and love in your life can be obtained effortlessly! And the cause and effect you think is just the cause and effect you add yourself.

4, a person’s life script is created by the person’s higher self and ego!

Where is the higher self,

Where is the small self

I believe that many people will experience the phenomenon of mental pulling when thinking deeply, that is, there is a positive self and a negative self appearing at the same time.

And our personal life script is created by this individual connecting to the higher self and following the higher self. The most intuitive expression of

is personal feeling.

When we learn more, understand more, and feel good about anything we do, that is the guidance of our higher self.

Only under the guidance of our higher self can we grasp life.

5, what are you? What will be revealed in the plot of life? What do you give? What do you get?

The principle of manifestation is: whatever you are, manifest. Regardless of whether you have money or not, as long as you think you are rich, the guidance of your higher self will make you show that you are rich, both in words and actions.

Some friends here will say: "Aren't you kidding? I am so poor, how can I pretend to have money?" I can tell you for sure: you must not pretend, you must be genuine from the heart Feel rich and follow the guidance of your higher self. To grasp life.

What you give here is what you get. By giving this action, you tell your higher self that you have it and you are it. Then the higher self will make sure you have it. This will always guide you to do the behaviors and actions you have.

It should be noted that when you give this action, you give it because you have something. You do not ask for anything in return, and you do not give it in order to get more something. Giving based on a request will only prove that you don’t have it, and your higher self will guide you to perform behaviors and actions that you don’t have.

Therefore, if you understand that you have everything within yourself, you will not think that you don’t have it and seek it from outside. As soon as you start to seek external help, you will become more and more dependent on external help, and your higher self will lead you to become less and less independent.

The script of life is difficult to grasp by yourself.

Summary, if you want to master the method of controlling your own life:

1, change your cognition and opinions through learning.

That is, by changing your own personal world view, you can maintain your right knowledge and right views.

2, through meditation, clear up personal misunderstandings.

Only by meditating can one detect the mistakes of the ego. Only by remaining calm can we focus on noticing our thoughts.

said in "The Power of the Present " that only by focusing on the present can you more easily detect your own thoughts.

Therefore, the only way is to change the perception and clean up the wrong perception!

can control your own life.

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