If my grandparents were still alive, what would they do if they saw my desolate state now? They will definitely help me convince my parents not to be so harsh on me, to be nice to me, and not to be so partial. My grandparents love me, and I love my grandparents too!

If my grandparents are still alive, what will they do if they see me in such a miserable state now? They will definitely help me convince my parents not to be so harsh on me, to be nice to me, and not to be so partial. My grandparents love me, and I love my grandparents too! Every year on the second day of the Lunar New Year, when thunder and wind cannot blow down, I go to my grandparents’ house to pay New Year greetings. At that time, several uncles and aunts will go home to celebrate the New Year. The family gathering together is very lively, especially after my grandpa passed away. , the whole family suddenly couldn’t get together. In the past few years, I only went home on the first day of the Lunar New Year to go through the motions and pay homage to my ancestors! After the formality is over, they return to their own little family!

The most miserable years of my life were spent in the Wenzhou Leather Shoe Factory. My grandfather was not here, but my grandmother was still there. Because of working in Wenzhou , I could only go home to see her once a year during the Chinese New Year. Her life The last few years of her life were painful, and I had no time to take care of her. It felt inexplicably sad to say that she was paralyzed in bed for several years. She had difficulty moving and even needed help from others to urinate and defecate. For this reason, several people The uncle even hired a nanny to look after her! I clearly remember that my grandma left us forever in May 2019.

My mother called me to tell me that my grandma passed away and she needed to go home to attend her funeral. Should I go back? You don't need to go back in your current status, and you won't be able to help if you go back, so why don't you just work hard? Uncle, I heard from my mother that my grandma passed away, so I’ll see if I can take a leave in the near future to go home and see the elderly. My uncle didn’t say much and put down the phone. After my mother returned, I called again. Give it to her. I don’t know if anyone was around at the time. Don’t worry about grandma’s funeral. Just call your uncle and express your feelings. That’s it! They won't blame you!

Grandpa’s spirit in heaven will bless our family to be happy and free from family disputes! If my grandpa were still alive, he would have lived to be over eighty this year. Every time I think of him, I will look through the photos that I kept in the space. Grandpa and grandma left a precious frame together in the same frame. The two of them look very good. There is a picture of husband and wife, and there is also a photo of the eldest grandpa and grandpa. Brothers work together to make money. The two grandpas’ faces are full of traces of time. The photo was taken during the summer vacation of 2007. My uncle organized an outdoor outing! Grandma has silky hair parted in the middle, and she still manages her figure even in her sixties. She is so slender and decent, you can imagine what grandma looked like when she was young. She is definitely a beauty! Grandpa's thick hair is much whiter, and overall he looks more amiable and doesn't talk much every time we meet.

In that difficult era, he raised four outstanding sons, and his four uncles made great achievements. They now have extremely high social status! Grandpa is a qualified parent. Compared with my parents, he is really different! My grandfather is very stingy in dealing with people. I learned the way he treats people from me. He is quite generous in dealing with people and is well versed in the ways of the world. Thirty years have passed since the reform and opening up. My grandfather still gives me a pound of sugar during the Chinese New Year. Sometimes It's a pack of biscuits. No wonder my grandpa got angry. Who sent this? I knew clearly in my heart that it was the New Year's gift I brought.

When I was a child, I often walked to my grandpa’s house as a guest. Every time I went to their house, my grandma would boil duck eggs and lean meat soup for me to eat. Sometimes I would stay at his house. I would sleep until I woke up naturally. There is no such treatment! I remember one time when I went to my grandpa’s house. I went with him to plant rice in the fields. He didn’t let me go to the fields. In fact, I had done farm work at my grandpa’s house. He really loved me. Grandpa was very good at doing things (not in a hurry). There were several young people planting rice with him! Grandpa didn’t think very highly of them!

I attended my grandpa’s funeral. 2008 was the most important turning point in my life. I changed dormitories and persisted in morning jogging for more than a month. My grades improved a lot, my mentality improved a lot, and my handwriting also changed. A lot, it became more and more neat, the words were like the person, a bit like a master. I first showed my talents in Ningdu Middle School. One short-answer question in the reading comprehension test of the Chinese monthly test was rated as a perfect score. I was the only one in the school to receive this honor! I didn't cry at my grandpa's funeral, and I only felt a little bit sad. I didn't clarify my thoughts at that time, and I didn't think about the fact that people cannot be resurrected. This aspect (in this aspect) is a bit like the thoughts and feelings of adults. I feel that the old man will eventually die. There is no need to be so sad when I die. Chen Zan was more sad. I ignored me when I talked to him on the way home. Later, I went with him for a walk by the stream. When I saw the fish in the water, it reminded me of my childhood! I was studying at Ningdu Middle School and took my uncle's bus back to see my grandpa off. My uncle was very happy to see me and gently stroked my hair. He didn't seem to say anything else!

I would like to thank my grandparents for their care when I was a child, and for educating four outstanding sons. It is with the support of my uncle that I have come to this day step by step. Maybe I am very incompetent now. I am thirty-two years old and have nothing and no peers. I had the car and house I should have, but I didn't get married and have children, and I didn't build my own small family, which had a lot of bad effects on my parents. Every time they saw me, they had complaints and negative emotions!