It is often said that men are unfeeling and not as delicate as women. Sometimes they clearly need him to express care and warmth, but it is like running into an iron wall and not feeling a trace of affection. actually not. There is always a place in every man's heart reserved for

often say that men are unfeeling and have less delicate thoughts than women. Sometimes they clearly need him to express care and warmth, but it is like running into an iron wall and not feeling a trace of affection.

is actually not the case.

There is always a place in every man's heart for the most special woman in his life.

In front of these women, he took off his mask of disguise and showed the gentlest smile, even going through fire and water.

Once these women appear in his life, they will definitely affect his life, making him let go of himself without regrets and only convey the tenderest love.

They are -

1

Mother: He raised him, and he treated him well

A Mr. Lu in Xi'an was praised by many locals for his "filial piety".

Having already married and started a business, he and his mother have lived together for more than 40 years. The family of three live in an old house of less than 60 square meters and live a decent life.

His mother had a high fever when he was young He was deaf and mute and could only communicate through sign language. Mr. Lu learned to use hand movements to communicate with his mother at a young age.

When he grew up, he saw that his mother was left alone and had no one to take care of her. He did not hesitate to choose to continue to support her.

Every day, he kept the house in order and specially arranged his mother in the bedroom with the best lighting conditions.

never let his mother do any heavy work. Even the cooking was done by Mr. Lu.

html In order to provide a more comfortable environment for his mother 15 years ago, he spent more than 20,000 yuan to renovate the house with average financial conditions.

Under his careful care, my mother, who has handicap, is getting younger and younger, in high spirits, and her condition is similar to that of 20 years ago.

As Mr. Lu said: Taking care of your mother is a matter of course. There is no such thing as hard work or not, and it should not be called hard work.

His tenderness and filial piety towards his mother moved his wife and countless people around him.

Writer Li Shaoxue once said: "Mother is the first person who gives life and confidence to men, and she is also the closest woman."

It is precisely because of the existence of mother that she is really special to men.

Mother's milk continues a man's life; mother's love and warmth lay the foundation for his life.

Emotionally speaking, a man cannot live without his mother and cannot cut off the intimate link with his mother.

How many men, when they encounter the biggest difficulties, think of their mother and hope to enjoy their mother's protection and intimacy again.

This is also confirmed in psychology: men are always boys who will never grow up, and they all have an "Oedipus complex."

Although many men have reached adulthood and look tall, powerful and mature, they have never fully grown up mentally and are always attached to their mothers.

When his mother is in need, out of love, respect, and care, he can't help but extend his hands to give her the greatest support and strength.

is just like his mother treated him in the past, without caring about gains and losses, and not caring whether it will increase his burden.

I think of the male owner of my neighbor's house, who is in his forties and always looks serious and distant.

Last month, when I heard that my old mother who lived in the country had broken her foot, I put down my work without saying a word and took my mother over. I also took a few months off, just to take care of her. , stay with your mother.

Seeing the way he was pushing a wheelchair and talking to his mother, he could not imagine that he was the uncle who was usually serious about words and expressions. His brows were gentle, like a child trying to please his mother.

So, he will remember the kindness that raised him.

His mother's appearance is fading day by day, but the softness in his heart is always reserved for her. He cannot bear to talk loudly to her and considers her mother's feelings in everything.

Even if there are many difficulties in life, it is not easy to reveal them in front of her mother.

In his heart, there is always a belief: when you were young, you treated me like a treasure, and when you are old, I will treat you like a lifelong relative.

2

Wife: Treat him as always, his true love

How much love can a man be willing to let go of his freedom, join hands with a woman to enter the marriage hall, and live an ordinary life from then on?

Each answer has its own explanation, but for men, it is indeed a bold decision after careful consideration.

This woman had no blood relationship with him, but after meeting him, they had a strong chemical reaction, which made him decide that he would never marry her, and that he would grow old with her and never leave her.

In the hit drama "人世", Zhou Bingkun faced the pursuit of his childhood sweetheart Qiao Haiyan without any disturbance or acceptance. However, when

was running errands for others, he met Zheng Juan, who was pregnant and had a blind brother. He was heartbroken and determined to marry her.

Every time he took a long detour to Zheng Juan's house, just to take a few more glances. Even if no one told him to do so, he would always use his own money to help Zheng Juan.

Because he didn't know whether Zheng Juan was also interested in him, he didn't dare to offend easily. He only dared to approach tentatively. When he encountered obstacles, he wisely kept the appropriate distance.

has long recognized Zheng Juan as his wife in his heart, and sincerely regards her as a solution to the problem. When he is wronged, he will immediately talk to Zheng Juan for comfort.

Finally slowly, Zheng Juan was moved by his heart and was willing to put aside her worries and worries, hold his hand and marry him.

In this way, after all the hardships, two sincere people who love each other finally overcame all the supercilious looks and doubts and came together.

After getting married, Zhou Bingkun showed no signs of neglect. Not only did he regard Zheng Juan's children born to others as his own, he also tolerated Zheng Juan in every way and gave away all the best things.

When the two of them encountered difficulties, he did not feel sorry for himself, but only felt guilty, thinking that he had caused his wife to suffer and caused her to suffer.

Zheng Juan was wronged and questioned. He dared to argue with others: it was okay to offend him, but he would fight with anyone who offended his woman.

Throughout "The World", Zhou Bingkun's love for Zheng Juan is so gentle that it can move all couples in the world.

In fact, a man is far more affectionate than everyone realizes, as long as he firmly believes that the other half in front of him and he promised to be inseparable for life is the only one in this life.

Then he will no longer easily cause trouble with other women in his heart, and will even strictly demand himself to stay away from temptation.

For a partner he truly loves, a man is never willing to get angry or express his anger, but takes the initiative to share his wife's worries and burdens.

He felt sorry for his wife after a hard day's work. He would not enjoy everything with peace of mind. Instead, he would accompany his wife and do his duty as a man.

Such a gentle man can give his wife a great sense of security. The husband and wife treat each other with respect and care for each other, and their lives will get better and better day by day, with endless love.

3

Daughter: From him, former lover

I don’t know if this scene is familiar:

A man’s son marries a daughter-in-law, and his behavior and attitude are completely different when he marries his daughter.

In the former scenario, he was happy, thinking, "The gangster finally got a family, so he can be less annoying."

But in the latter case, the man had mixed feelings, and a lot of reluctance remained in his slightly trembling and almost tearful expression.

I have seen too many scenes where my daughter gets married and my father bursts into tears. It feels like the treasure that I have cultivated and cared for for many years no longer belongs to me and is about to be taken away by a boy I may not completely trust.

A few years ago, there was a wedding video that went viral in the circle of friends. At the wedding, a man said to his son-in-law:

" If one day you don't love her anymore, don't tell her, tell me, and I will take her home."”

A few words express the man’s deep love for his daughter.

He is willing to protect everything about his daughter, just so that her daughter will not be harmed in any way and can enjoy her true happiness.

Why do men do this? Do you prefer daughters?

Psychology says that this is a natural attraction between men and women, and men will prefer daughters.

That's why there is a saying that "a daughter is a man's lover in his previous life". Men can find this kind of love in their daughters. The psychological capital of "I am needed" and "I am always willing to pay for my daughter".

Look at how many men have completely lost their tough guy image after having a daughter. Let her do whatever the daughter wants.

No, . Deng Chao was forced to wear a pink hairband and earrings on both ears by his daughter at home without any resistance;

Tian Liang was forced to wear a pink hairband and earrings on both ears at home without any complaints;

Lu Yi was asked by his daughter to wear women's clothing and could only Obediently obey.

Not only celebrity fathers have no power to resist their daughters, but amateur fathers are also the same.

A father in Henan was covered in stickers by his daughter during his nap. When he woke up in the middle of the day, he did not even dare to move. He let his daughter " "Spoof".

No wonder many mothers are so jealous that they can't help complaining: At home, the daughter has the highest status, you can tell by how much her father dotes on her.

As a man's caring little cotton-padded jacket, the apple of his eye, men have witnessed that she has grown from From a young life to her graceful growth, it is like growing up with her daughter, and she understands the tenderness and difficulty of women.

The more he is with his daughter, the less he will be like his original self, and he will become more careful, patient and gentle. The tenderness towards his daughter is not mixed with anything, he simply wants to be good to his daughter, hold her in his hands and take good care of her.

Even if his daughter grows up and has her own family and children, she will always be in his heart. The innocent little cutie who liked to stay by his side was his lifelong lover.

A man's tenderness is different from that of a woman.

He would either not give it to her, or he would give everything he had to these three most important women in his life. If you meet

, please cherish it. Maybe he is ordinary, but as long as he is willing to treat you sincerely, has a sense of responsibility and responsibility, he will be the most good man worthy of relying on for life. Author of

| Aiyama is a college psychology teacher, a third-level psychological counselor, and a senior family education instructor. She is good at family dynamics analysis and has many years of front-line counseling and counseling experience on family issues.