My partner and I met in college.
We met, fell in love, and fell in love. We first met while eating in the cafeteria. At that time, he was in front of me. When I finished eating, I realized that there was no free space.
Unexpectedly, he took the initiative and asked me to sit in the seat he occupied for me.
Since then, we have gradually become familiar with each other, and I can obviously feel that he is interested in me, but there has been no progress in one month, two months, and three months.
Since my roommate learned of his existence, he has been making noises and guessing when he will confess his love, but there has been no movement for so long. It was not until I took the initiative to ask him while walking on the playground that he told me the truth.
It turns out that he is from a single-parent family. His mother passed away very early and he grew up with his aunt. Moreover, the family conditions are not very good.
He originally planned to work after graduating from college and wait for economic conditions to improve before finding a partner, but he didn't expect to meet me now. On the one hand,
is 's heartbeat , and on the other hand, it is also 's reality . This is his concern.
Now that I have spoken clearly, I can no longer even be friends.
He suddenly said this, turned around and left.
I hurriedly grabbed his arm, I don't care, as long as you are good to me, as long as you work hard enough. Sooner or later, I can wait...
After graduating from college, we also started to live in different places. He went to Shanghai and I stayed in my hometown.
During this period, we often exchanged phone calls and the contact was never broken.
And his salary as an intern was 3,500 at the beginning, and gradually reached 5,000, 8,000, and 10,000.
In 2019, we have been in love for four years. In fact, our families have already known about each other's existence, so marriage has become a daily routine.
So in October 2019, I went to his house together while he was on vacation. In fact, the distance between us was only 50 kilometers.
I was very excited when I went to his house for the first time. My parents bought a lot of things with me. They gave me countless instructions on how to speak and how to behave before departure. I was not very excited about
, but my parents told me that I was excited.
(He had already been to my house in 2018, and his parents were very satisfied)
As soon as he entered the house, there was a large crowd of people in the living room. It turned out that his aunt felt that his family did not pay enough attention to it, so he temporarily notified several of his uncles. Several families.
has about 2.30 people.
was honestly a little excited when he walked in. After all, they were all people he didn't know, but luckily, his sisters-in-law and cousins were all talking and watching TV with me.
Men are all cooking, serving food, and tidying up, which I didn’t expect.
Later I found out that his family had always been like this. The women ate, watched TV, washed the dishes, and the men cooked and served the dishes.
One table could not fit, so it was divided into 3 tables, and the dishes could not be placed.
What made me even more unexpected was that this meal had 24 dishes, including cold dishes, hot dishes, chicken, duck, and fish, all of which were available.
Actually before I came here, I had thought about how this was not his home after all, how his aunt would treat me, and how his family would treat me. I have thought about all the ideas, but I have never thought of this actual situation.
After dinner, everyone chatted and watched TV together. Various fruits and melon seeds were spread all over the coffee table.
Suddenly, all the women entered the bedroom. For a moment, I looked at my boyfriend at a loss, and he gave me a reassuring look.
The bedroom door opened, and I was given red envelopes one after another, one, two, three...
I touched the thick red envelopes and didn't know what to say.
This is a greeting gift, and it is also our intention. Just accept it, don't be polite, I'll get angry if you're polite!
Auntie looked at me with a smile.
Before leaving, my boyfriend's father smiled and gave me a red envelope, but he didn't say anything. My boyfriend said that his father was not good at talking. Just take it.
When I got home, my mother asked me how I felt. I told the truth. After hearing this, my mother was silent for a long time and then said one sentence.
I was a little hesitant before you went. This hesitation was mainly due to family factors. Now it seems that I have overthought it.
I opened these 9 red envelopes in front of my parents
The thickest one was obviously the one given to me by my boyfriend’s father 10 100 yuan
The rest were 2 pieces 6666 yuan , 4 pieces 1001 yuan ,
12 pieces for 999 yuan .I didn’t know what to say at this moment, so I picked up the phone and called my boyfriend.
Do you know how many red envelopes your family gave me today? How much is
?
is close to 30,000
so many?
Obviously my boyfriend was also unexpected, because the first time we came to our home was 6666 yuan, 8888 yuan, and a few 10001.
And there will only be one
On the other end of the phone, my boyfriend also fell silent.
…………
We have been married for 2 years this year. Every time I tell others about it, everyone is envious.
